So lately, AA has been kicking my ass because I took a break for so long with cold approaches to the point that I've been having a hard time striking conversations even with guys. Part of the issue is too I've been doing so well social game wise (4 different girls in the past few weeks) that there really hasn't been much incentive to cold approach besides to get the girls that I'm REALLY attracted to.

AA STRIKES HARD

I went out to some 80s dance party last night, and there are hot girls everywhere. Part of my issue too is I get so much attention from my female friends (it's not going to go anywhere with these girls) that it makes it hard to just walk away and face rejection when you're already getting so much validation. Is it good that I like validation? Of course not. But unfortunately it's a weakness. I let opportunity pass by and by as these cute girls walked by.

My only cold approach

I realize I lucked out and the results aren't typical, but I saw one girl just sort of dancing on the dance floor alone. I decide to go up and talk to her for a bit. We chat VERY briefly, and eventually someone comes up and distracts her. All good.

Much later on in the night, I go outside and she happens to be standing there. She actually goes out of her way to reintroduce herself to ME, and we chat for a much longer time. One thing lead to another, we exchange numbers and we're making out in the middle of the street on a park bench. (Important thing I learned... smoking MIGHT be a dealbreaker for me. Turns out those licking ashtray commercials were right).

POINTS FROM FR

-I have a hard time breaking away from my group of girl friends that I'm with, especially when they are flirting hard (no oneitis on any of them, figure I mention that)

-AA struck again HARD, which is ridiculous considering the amount of times i've done 100 sets. This is annoying.

-even with my less than stellar approach gamewise, and only approached one girl, she was definitely interested enough to reintroduce herself to ME later on in the night. Sometimes cards just fall into your favor. There's been nights where I opened 20 girls and not one is interested, and then this one where I opened just 1 and she was.

-I think smoking might be a dealbreaker for me...