How do you clearly define that your looking for something non-platonic...ex "Just a heads up, I'm not looking for a friend"

kagemanden · 2013-03-28T23:04:24+00:00

When you're gaming a girl you have to set the frame as a man to woman interaction, not as, say, a friend to friend interaction. Basically you want to avoid any ambiguity which could make it unclear whether you're looking for something platonic or non-platonic. That way she is clear about your intentions.

RedSeddit · 2013-03-28T23:14:22+00:00

Make it flirty in the BEGINiNG.

kingcal · 2013-03-29T02:24:50+00:00

Part of it is framing like other guys are saying. Right from the start you're flirty and sexual with her. You don't treat her like you would any other guy friend. You treat her like she's a woman you're interested in sexually.

If I'm with a girl and she gives me the "nice guy" or "new friend" line, I tell her I'm not. Literally. "I'm not a nice guy/your friend. I'm your lover." It's all about how you deliver it. Make it playful and it's "just a joke", but you have already stated your intentions explicitly. She knows what you want.

TolarianFapper · 2013-03-29T01:01:36+00:00

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DyNo541 · 2013-03-29T16:37:53+00:00

Title	How do you clearly define that your looking for something non-platonic...ex "Just a heads up, I'm not looking for a friend"
Author	drugsandmirrors
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	March 28, 2013 10:06 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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