I've been talking to this girl for a month now and we went out 3 times and we've had sex already.

Lately she's been acting distant, i gave her a time out for a few days and she contacted me and told me that she was feeling very down lately and that she doesn't feel like going out lately. I'm assuming she's not lying. I went straight to the point and told her (before she told me she was feeling down) that i wanted to see her and she told me that.

If she wanted to hide something from me i don't think she would've told me how she was feeling. I cut contact with her again because i hate texting and i feel like it's being forced. Her birthday is in 19th October. I'm thinking about wishing her an happy birthday and asking how she is and cutting contact right after that. Next week, i want to ask her out again.

Should i do this? What do you guys think?

Quick note: She left an abusive relationship in July.