[FR] Vegas club and meeting one of the most amazing girls I have ever met. Thanks Seddit!

robocock · 2013-04-01T06:56:10+00:00

Hey mad props man, i feel you on the awkward moment of hanging around while she's trying to decide what to do. Last week I had success with just pulling the girl my way with like "you stay with me, catch up with them later" but if her friends aren't already in your camp that's such a risky move imho (in this case her friends pushed her onto me so score!).

I'm not sure what to say about how you guys didn't fuck - on the one hand, yea, you can pull girls all the time so maybe this was good to connect with someone rather than ball in the bathroom. But it does feel like a missed opportunity in some ways. How do you feel about it now? Do you wish you had some plan that you could used to take her somewhere?

recyclablebantha · 2013-04-02T12:21:57+00:00

This was actually rather awesome. Don't second guess this! It's all about connecting. All those things, looking for IOIs and signs for when to do the next thing.... they are distractions from connecting. If you set it up right, she'll close herself, which you found.

___________Things that didn't matter__________

I used kino from the start to which she did not respond right away..

The real game you had going was listening to her and having a fucking awesome conversation.

Getting stared at by the girlfriends - you can see in their eyes that they are thinking "THIS guy is trying to get in my friends pants" is still something that messes with my brain.

Yeah, good job telling this voice to shut the hell up. Besides, how do you know they weren't thinking, "MY FRIEND is trying to get into this guy's pants..."?

For some reason it didn't occur to me to try to find something like a bathroom or other private area to be alone. Looking back, something about that seemed trashy and it felt wrong.

Needless to say there wasn't an f-close,

You're going to find different things each time you connect with someone. Sometimes trashy is the nature of the beast and looking for a trashy place to be alone wouldn't have been an after-thought, but part of the natural progression. You were truly listening to her and you got the most you could have out of the interaction by allowing it to be what it was. So what if it wasn't a trashy interaction. Not everything has to be.

And allowing this to be what it was, in no way prevents you from having a trashy interaction in the future, should you ever desire one.

_____Things that mattered__________

We started talking - she was quick-witted, intelligent, quirky, and fun. All the "seddit" stuff just flowed away because the conversation was so natural. I did try out the "marriage/divorce" thing and it was effective but we were already laughing.

We seriously could not run out of things to talk about, and she legitimately cracked me up.

It sounds like you were actually having a rather advanced moment there. I think that natural conversation that you were having was actually the real "game". Some material from Seddit might have helped you sprinkle in some fun but it sounds like you were truly in state and you were doing it YOUR way.

Laura put her arm in mine

I didn't let that discourage me though.

A lot of people get caught up in whether or not they are seeing certain things or not, or whether they had been able to escalate in some concrete way, but you seemed to have had a clear sense that you were in there....... and you didn't need to look for this or that sign. You knew because of the connection in the conversation.......

.....and because of that connection, that you allowed to grow in its own time, she began to close herself.

.....since I assumed attraction and just pretended like it was a sure thing, it worked out.

Of course, assuming the sale is the way to go, in any case.

Congrats, OP. This was a big step for you, I think.

Title	[FR] Vegas club and meeting one of the most amazing girls I have ever met. Thanks Seddit!
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Upvotes	15
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Date	April 1, 2013 5:20 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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