Girl help please.

Reaver_ · 2013-04-03T02:57:32+00:00

I think we're going to need a little more information than "I've been trying this stuff and getting nothing." give us examples of situations you've had with girls, dialogue, what you were feeling, what you thought she was feeling, etc. Really, what do you expect someone to say to say to a post like this?

Brannus · 2013-04-03T02:54:54+00:00

Practice with a mindset of abundance and outcome independence. If you can't practice with that kind of mindset, then you need to work on your inner game and yourself. People usually suggest going to the gym and meditation for helping with this. There is no "easy button" for this. When you start out you are going to fail. Everyone does it (fail, I mean). Most people gets over it.

A metaphor I like to use is learning to play an instrument. You can't expect to pick up an instrument and just play it with any degree of skill (assuming for now you have no prior training in any other instruments). In the same way, you have a goal in mind. With the instrument metaphor, it's to play the instrument with a degree of skill. In seduction, it's to get that person whom you want (be for relationship purposes or sex). However, for both examples, it's the process you have to focus on for now.

With everything in life, you have a larger goal in mind. However, it's makes it less discouraging and more rewarding with setting more simple, short-term, and manageable (yet challenging) goals (S.M.A.R.T. goal setting).

Finally, as always, the sidebar and the search bar are your friend. Just my thoughts on the matter. Best of luck to you.

TommyTheTiger · 2013-04-03T04:07:55+00:00

Go out more and accept that it's going to take a lot of baby steps to improve.

2013-04-03T06:35:10+00:00

cold harsh truth: You will not get good at game right away, that's not how it works (Unless your like bradley cooper from limitless on his pill). The more you go out and practice, the more you'll learn from experience, and the better you'll become.

Title	Girl help please.
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Date	April 3, 2013 2:41 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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