What is the maximum acceptable n-count of a girl to consider her for an LTR

Philippe93 · 2018-10-18T13:33:18+00:00

Doesnt matter cause you will probably never find out.

FixYourselfFirst · 2018-10-18T13:37:25+00:00

∞ - 1

This is such a useless exercise. You'll never find her true number. For any LTR, you should be vetting her for 6 months minimum. That should tell you way more than her confessed n-count.

christophertracy92 · 2018-10-18T13:26:44+00:00

After getting the Red Pill, I am not sure if you want to LTR a chick that's more than 28 years old, regardless of the number.

Most of the guys coming here should already know about 'women hitting the Wall', leaving the cock carousel and her Party Years behind to find God and the 'right guy'.
We all know how that ends;
best case scenario; miserable sexless wedding.
worst case scenario; divorce rape .

I would only consider LTR if am 30 years old plus and I have a young high value / no drama plate.
You should read the 'The tactical guide to women' by Shawn Smith , it's a really good book on how to vet women for LTR.

TheLastMgtow · 2018-10-18T13:41:44+00:00

The truth is you never really know her n count. They are all lying. So you shouldn't go on LTRs with LTR mentality. You should go with pirate mentality, take what you want and leave. Things go south, dont fix them, leave. Redflags, leave. In other words, you are better off just extending your plates, give a little bit more leverage to one that deserves but always dump them, and never stop banging others. All other ways are fucked and will leave you negative net worth. All dudes after an LTR feel less than they were when they started. Unless she is a virgin, and even virgins have FOMO and idiot feminist friends, if she is a virgin she will behave differently, but will turn to. So there is no such a thing as an LTR for a man, you can tell her that it is an LTR, but you should never change your ways.

2ndcunuck · 2018-10-18T13:29:18+00:00

Single digit if under 25years old, if over no more than 13-15. You have to understand there is no set rule, every guy is going to have a different number based on what’s acceptable in his mind and past experiences.

TheRedPillMonkey · 2018-10-18T13:42:17+00:00

If anything, look at "n count / LTR" ratio. What's her N count outside of LTRs?

That said, there is no magic number.

Bruchibre · 2018-10-18T13:09:03+00:00

20: 4
25: 8
30: 12

coldanalyst · 2018-10-18T21:00:55+00:00

Sigh, don't even bother asking such a question. How the fuck are we supposed to know how many guys our women did? Fuck off. Calculating this is one of the toughest things you could waste time on since it differs from girl to girl. Stop wasting so much energy and focus on your mission. But i'm bored plus r/theredpill is down so ...

If you REALLY want to know how many guys a girl slept with

Be wise
Be intelligent
Pay attention
Pay even more attention
Use your instinct
Use your gut
F your instinct and your gut, wishful thinking pieces of shit
See how she interacts with other guys and girls... or if she interacts with girls at ALL... that's a big one
Use your own judgement, and subtly find out more about her as a person
Know her views on sex, society, being a women, and how comfortable she is with people

You will learn far far more than how many people a women's slept with if you do all of this. All of this "You will never find out" shit is true but just people saying a women will never consciously tell you cause it's usually many more than you think, and unless she really isn't interested in you at all and wants you to go fuck yourself she won't tell you her true count. Or if she is super submissive and really wants you to like her, she will either lie (in a way you can tell if you're with her irl) or if she thinks it will turn you on... which is extremely rarely she will tell you, and you will be dumbfounded then be turned off, the only time this happened to me is when I was with some innocent looking submissive girl and when I was curious I said something like "Be honest with me, how many guys have you slept with?" ... she replied with something like "A lot". Aka, too many too count. The thing is, everyone will tell you exactly who they are, but it's your job to understand and believe them. If you don't know its either because lack of experience, wisdom, acceptance, or intelligence. You don't need to know psychology or how people work to do all of this, you just have to think about the person.

In order to truly know someone you have to understand them. Then you match this with her personality, willingness to sleep with you age, general SMV of all the guys in your area and how many places she's been to in her life... Yeah there are a ton of other factors but its up to you to think about them all, every specific girl is different but you can always guess how much a person has slept with.

Just remember, women love sex, so the women you end up with for marriage will most likely be > 20 guys.

Whenever a girl tells you how much guys they had sex with multiple it by 3 or 5, 10, or 2 depending on the girl. If you seriously know them and have full trust maybe they really did only sleep with 3 guys but again it's unlikely. Most girls will tell you how many guys divided by 5 - 6. So if they say 7 they really meant 35

The only numbers you need to know about a women is her age & SMV.

> 25 don't marry, unless you figure out for sure she isn't the type of women to sleep around, N count absolute max is 4 to 10 for me, > 25. More than this is too risky, damaged goods, its fine if you don't want to marry the best women you could.

< 25 don't marry, its risky. Exceptions may exist yes, but you NEVER know for sure. Things that can make this slightly better might be 1. Knowing a loyal women who takes care of herself for 6+ years and having higher trust in her than anyone else. 2. N count < 5 or the best, virgin... And... nothing else really. Even then its still very risky. You can get divorce raped. You can get out of the game, become scarred, lose the bigger picture of TRP, lower your SMV and believing "Hey, maybe TRP was wrong, maybe the world isn't always like that, maybe NAWALT lol." No you beta bux, the moment you start losing SMV or becoming beta she will suddenly lose all her tingles then divorce rape you in her late 20s early 30s, get the tingles for some other guys, suddenly that decade + of "TrUe lOvE" will all be meaningless to her, she will start cheating on you if she hasn't already... you might find out by accident 5 - 10 years later when all your kids are grown. And shit will get real. Or maybe she will do all of this just for the excitement or not being able to handle the challenges of marriage. If you have the discipline, will power, and wisdom to stay alpha your entire life even after settling down then you can settle down young but its still risky. You lose things like abundance mentality, sure some girls might still want you fuck you and others will want to fuck you even more after seeing that wedding ring thinking of all the drama they could stir with banging some taboo married guy, but in reality your wife will have some power over you. Even if they don't, they will by law and the rules of society. If not this by consuming your time, energy, do you really want to spend your youth... what could be the best years of your life married to a girl you find out is just another bitch later?

Perfect case study: Elon Musk. Now some of you might think this dude is an asshole but he is a great guy, knows his shit, and plays the game of life well. The only thing he is truly married to is his mission. This is how it should be for all men, you can get married when you're young and keep getting divorced fucked over and over again, but in reality most men will forget about their mission through marriage and ... die, fade into nothingness. It happens to virtually everyone. And this is the true biggest risk of marriage, if you don't stay true to yourself and try to invest in this one person, you may lose all your potential, forget the truth in life. That you're always alone. No women belongs to you, they aren't capable of our complex feelings, its just your turn. The most women can give us is pleasure or children, in this social climate you just aren't gonna find any who can develop love. And all of this, should mean nothing to your mission. What is raising one child with a women who doesn't even love you compared to influencing millions of human being on Earth and the future of our world?

Women have all their fun when they're young, then find betas or if they're lucky you, a long time prime mate, to settle down with as they approach the wall and start focusing more on resources.

Men can be alpha and look for a wife in their 20s well into their 40s and society won't bat an eye... as long as they're still decent looking and didn't start dating until the girl got in her 20s. Hell, you can be fucking beta and still do this or be not so good looking, men are starting to wise up and realize that there's a wall for women.

The truth is finding a great wife is harder than fucking 100 10/10s in a year. It didn't use to be this way but current society fucked current men hard.

Title	What is the maximum acceptable n-count of a girl to consider her for an LTR
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Date	October 18, 2018 1:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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