Ugly and short?

Trygle · 2013-04-09T22:03:04+00:00

Duuuude. I know JUST how you feel. I thought I was super short and mildly ugly, but what I've found is that was just the persona I was showing.

You don't need to memorize everything on here. You don't need to be a PUA to be attractive. All you need is a better mindset and a solid foundation for who you are.

Oh and for the record, I was 175 cm and thought I was short. This translates to 5'8". That's an inch from the average, and a hair above the average for my race.

cr0nage · 2013-04-09T20:18:00+00:00

Danny Devito. 'Nuff said.

duttymong · 2013-04-09T19:41:13+00:00

To avoid going down the standard improve fashion/fitness/hair route... It's all in your head mate. You've already got the reference of having a hot girlfriend, you've done it once you can do it again. You just gotta believe it.

2013-04-09T20:07:35+00:00

Seduction is realistic for anyone. It's all about your mindset, if you go around thinking that your looks matter and woman aren't attracted to you. Than you will end up believing this and carrying this false belief around with you.

You have to change this mindset. In reality looks aren't all important, a woman is mostly attracted to a magnetic personality and a man that demonstrates high value.

CompletelyBlunt · 2013-04-09T22:02:07+00:00

Yes, a similar thread is posted very frequently here and it doesn't matter. Do you really care for the value given to you by random strangers on the internet whether or not you could be successful with women? If everyone here said that your ugliness and vertical challengness mattered and that you had no hope, would you believe them and stop talking to women? If you did, I'm sorry. You shouldn't because you're fucking awesome. Work hard on improving things you can control (ie your hair, body, fashion, body language, inner and outer game, etc.) and then you'll see that you're an interesting man who feels and looks good. Women will be attracted to that. And can we please bring back the "Stupid questions thread" so we don't have to respond to this question every week?

2013-04-09T21:53:30+00:00

seduction is for everyone, I'll put it to you this way. you don't have to be the best sedditor out there, you just have to be the best you can be. even if due to the gene pool lottery you have a harder difficulty setting than most by improving yourself you can at least make that difficulty setting easier, and maybe if you get really good you'll get to easy mode

basically the answer is yes. even though you will have a disadvantage you can only get better if you're not that good. read double your dating by david deangelo, who is also a short dude but has average looks.

2013-04-10T00:20:02+00:00

Looks are irrelevant. Looks are irrelevant. Looks are irrelevant. Looks are irrelevant. Looks are irrelevant. Looks are irrelevant. Looks are irrelevant.

"Good looks" are a social construct. What's considered "beautiful" differs from culture to culture, time period to time period. Looking good is a great way for someone to rationalize a reason to be confident, but it's not a necessity. Attraction is a deeply ingrained biological function that isn't governed by social constructs (even though social constructs may prevent someone from acting on their attraction).

You are not objectively ugly, because what's considered ugly is inherently a subjective judgement. You might short, I'll give you that. But whether or not shortness is a positive or negative is simply what you make out of it. A lot of guys are bullied for their height, leading them to believe that shortness is inherently a flaw. I don't blame them for these limiting beliefs (I used to have one concerning my weight), but being tall/short isn't a good or bad thing. It can be a hindrance if you let it be one, it can be a strength if you let it be one.

IPlayUkulele · 2013-04-10T05:12:31+00:00

It's absolutely for you. Game was made by "unattractive" people. Take Neil Strauss, for example. In his book, he describes several of his first impressions by other people being that he's pretty average. Yet, he's one of the best. It's all about the mindset you have about yourself.

nittutt · 2013-04-09T22:12:22+00:00

Yes. It is. I have one weird ass looking friend whom is 1.65 (i think, really short) and he gets laid consistently. He has to work a bit harder, but he gets it done ;)

Title	Ugly and short?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	10
Comments	14
Date	April 9, 2013 6:36 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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