Ok So I love this subreddit and have been reading around lately on body language, eye contact, and kino. I met this girl one night at a party talked to her etc. I ended up leaving that night and the next day my friend told me she thought I was really cute. We decide to meet up and go bowling a week later with her friends. By now I was treading this sub reddit like crazy with eye contact and kino escalation. I was going to greet her by giving her a hug that night. I knew this was a great way to get kino in early and ASAP But it went different, When I arrived she didn't even look at me and that's when I knew it was going to be an awkward night. So basically throughout the night bowling was terrible. I made eye contact with her all the time, my body language was great. When I spoke I made sure my voice sounded like I was confident. So that night ended with me getting her number. Texted her that night saying : hope you got home safe! Had fun tonight, we should do it again sometime!" Basically we made arrangement's for another date the next weekend. We went to go play mini-golf! I'm thinking, " Wow another great way to escalate kino on her!" So we start playing mini-golf and I show her how to hold the putter and that stuff. I make sure to brush up against her lightly and stuff. I also tried flirting alittle by taking her ball away and making her come to me and getting it in a playful way. So when we leave we head back to her friends house. Only me, her and her friend. I thought this worked out perfect for me. I was going to kiss her that night. So we go downstairs into her friends theater room and we sit next to each other. We start talking and stuff while watching TV. I notice that she's playing with her hair and remember that I read somewhere on this subreddit that it's usually means a girl wants to kiss you. So I move just a bit closer to escalate kino more a bit and our elbows are touching. As were talking I make sure to hold steady eye contact with her and she is always the first one to look away. She continues to play with her hair and what not. I should of went in for the kiss but for some reason I couldn't. We end up leaving I hug her good bye. I'm dying on the inside walking back to my car cause that was the perfect opportunity to kiss her

I'm not sure why I couldn't do it. I think it was because of her mixture being shy and what not, I thought she didn't want to. We still continue to text each other daily but then when we meet up with each other, I find no words to say to her. She's really shy and I'm wondering how can I get her to open up more? But basically that's it. I'm hoping next time I can k-close her. Anyway /r/seduction if you've dealt with shy girls what was your success with them and what did you do?