Hey guys. This is my first time ever writing a Field Report. I've been lurking seddit for about 2-3 weeks now. In this time i've also taken up NoFap and running 18 days strong. I knew a little bit about 'game' and 'pickup' before through a roommate I had about 2 years ago.

Some background about myself. I'm a Muslim and I was fairly strict about the 'no sex till marriage policy' till I met my very first GF in college (2009-2010..about a year; pretty serious). She was the first person i ever kissed, had sex with...all that. I also had a fling about a year after that for 2 weeks.

So let's get to my very first cold approach ever (after reading for about 2 weeks, i decided to go out and actually approach). I went with a buddy of mine to the Mall first.

Failed first approach: Walking around the mall with the buddy, see a couple of really hot HB8+'s walking around, but didn't have the balls to approach any of them as i made up excuses. There was also a blonde; quite older sitting alone at a table eating (im 22..she was probably 30). I decide i'd walk up to her table and just sit down...but right as i get near the table, I take a U-turn and head back to my buddy. What i realized was that I think way too much and don't follow the 3-5 second rule! It's been about 2 hours at the Mall and nothing, so we decide to head over to the Lake and the long walk surrounding it.

A lot of people here walking their dogs, running, couples etc. An hour goes by and my buddy is getting pretty tired so he decides we should go back. As were heading back to the car, I see an Asian girl (maybe a HB6) with her dog. I tell myself to 'fuck it' and just approach.

I used her dog as a situation opener and ask if I can pet her dog (i know, alpha). She smiles and says that's fine. After a couple of moments, I get closer to the girl and introduce my self while extending my hand. She responds with her name and I give her a firm handshake. Long story short, We talk for about 20-25 minutes. Big mistake was that I did not sit down beside her, and just stood infront of her looking down (i honestly thought the interaction would last 5 minutes). No kino aside from the handshake. Either way she was pretty receptive and got a # - close! First time ever! Felt pretty good.

Fast forward a couple nights and now were in a club. Get there pretty early, only 1 guy dancing alone at the dance floor (this is more of a pub with a really good dance floor). I say hell with being a wall ornament and join the guy in dancing. Moments after a group of HB7-8's walk in (must of been 6 of em), and right after that everyone starts to come in. I'm just enjoying myself dancing and trying to make eye contact with every girl.

10 minutes in, i notice a girl by the wall watching her friend dance with a guy. I've never approached a girl at a dance floor before so I thought, now or never. I walk right up to her side, place my hand behind her lower back and ask her 'Why aren't you dancing with your friend?'. She smiles back and tells me that she's a bad dancer and doesn't know how (she's a HB7). After a little chit chat, I remember that having a strong frame and to be physical is a must in a high-energy setting. I then decide to grab her hand and take her over to a bench beside the dancefloor that guys/girls use to climb on and just dance. 'Get on top and dance'. She a little hesitant but gets on anyway. I follow her up and she starts to move a little to the beat. I'm still talking to her at this point, getting her name, where she's from, how often she comes here etc (i had my hand on her back the entire time...I really should of escalated more). About 5 minutes later, she gestures over her friend to come over and introduces me to her (another HB7). I also grab her from the ground floor and hop her up on the bench. Were all dancing for a little bit (not grinding). I decide i want to be more intimate so I tell them to get back on the dancefloor. As we get on the dancefloor, I see that the initial girl starts to walk away to the side of the dancefloor, but i decide to stick with her friend. At this point I realize not to make the mistake of not initiating enough physical contact, and grab the girl by the waist and move her in closer. I go straight for the neck and start to kiss/bite. As this happens, she starts to move her hair away from the area (i'm guessing she was liking it). This is where it becomes super troll.

As I'm doing this (not even 10 seconds), I hear some voice in the background telling me that 'she doesn't want to dance'. I turn around and its some black dude on the sidelines telling me that she doesn't like it. I ask him if he's her boyfriend, he says No. I then ask the chick if she likes the dancing and she gives me a 'yeah i do/sure'. Still this guy is going off and repeating the same crap. I also noticed the chick from earlier is with this guy. We exchange words for about 3 minutes and I didn't want to start a fight/continue with the conversation anymore. The first chick leans in closer and says I should probably leave before he does anything blah blah. I'm like sure w/e (I realize now that I should of been more persistent with the chick and just drag her away..).

TL;DR: Got my first cold-approach over with within the first 2 weeks of reading seddit and got a number! Also approached 2-3 chicks in the club and had a fairly good response. What you guys think I should of done with the black guy? I'm going back to this place tomorrow with my friend and hope to k-close some chicks on the dancefloor (i'm not aggressive enough and realize that it's a dance floor...Should be less verbal and way more physical).