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| 1 | Looked down helping me then smiled and giggled with next customerFFS you are wasting your time talking to a known troll. | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Why would she ask if I’m impressed by her repeatedly?It’s a shit test. Break her frame with a teasing qualifier, “You’re my 7th most favorite person, but you could do better.” | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | women now a daysThey're sleeping with everyone but you, right? Please stop making these antagonistic posts or you are likely to get banned. I am already watching you. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Any other dude find tall girls mega hot?I am excited by women with $PREFERENCE but I often find women with NOT($PREFERENCE) exciting too. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Game is a false religionDude you're interacting with a long-term seddit troll. Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm really struggling fighting this urge, what do?He's a troll. Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | An interesting phenomenon discussionIt's not them, it's you. Everyone notices that women come on to you more when you're in a relationship. IMHO it's mostly about your abundance mentality. When you know you have a sexual relationship and don't have any trouble getting sex, you aren't acting like a horndog and creeping on women. You don't need to. So the women notice that (perhaps subliminally) and wonder why you're different, you're not entranced by their charms. This makes you a challenge. Oh the opportunities I missed when I was… | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 04:40 PM |
| 15 | ALWAYS BE DECISIVE - lessons from past fuck-upsWomen have vast experience defending themselves against clumsy approaches. So a woman will usually forgive you for being a little too aggressive. But she will never forgive you for not being aggressive enough. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 02:29 AM |
| 3 | What is something men can wear in lieu of lingerie, that can be sexy, while still being classy and romantic?https://i.imgur.com/6weswj2.jpg | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Usually im the one giving a lot of advices, but this is new to me.Yeah, I saw that episode of "Two and a Half Men" too. | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | The mentality one MUST have in order to do game: The Abundance MentalityThere are people in poverty who think they have everything they need or want, and billionaires who can never have enough. Scarcity is an attitude, not a financial or material condition. | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Watching this is very educational...how to not pickup women (or if he can do it, then why not you?).Stunt and prank videos are not welcome on seddit. We don't do cringe either. | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | I now have to "cold approach" as part of my job. Help.Watch your tone of voice, especially when you get tired. I've done public-facing jobs and I noticed I sounded cranky when I got tired (probably because I was cranky). If you do approaches over and over, it is easy to try variations on your voice and presentation, to see what works best. | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Did I have a chance here or was it nothing? UKDude haven't you learned to spot a troll? He posts this constantly. Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Richand La Ruina or Mystery?Both. | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is into BDSM/KINK, can't get the picture out of my mind. HELP.Ask about it here: /r/BDSMcommunity | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 05:44 PM |
| 3 | What is the most EFFECTIVE way to improve your game?Approach and talk to more women. It all starts with an approach. Even the most experienced PUA will get nowhere without an approach. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Second date no kiss?Japanese women have high barriers. You probably won't be able to kiss her until she decides to have sex. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 04:51 PM |
| 21 | I'm seriously considering taking an enema before my first dates...Christ man, eat more fiber and take a dump before your date. | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Would you ratherWould you rather date a horse sized duck, or a hundred duck sized horses? | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Why seduction is so hardTotal abstinence is the ultimate addiction. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about this line on a girl you know?What the hell is that supposed to be? We don't use pickup lines because pickup lines don't work. You are rehearsing a conversation in your head with an imaginary girl. It's not going to work like that in real life. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Woman driving nice car/driving at all?Don’t feed the trolls. Flag it and move on. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 04:53 AM |
| 6 | Why seduction is so hardThe problems of social interaction between men and women have always existed. If you really want to go back, you could read the diaries of Casanova, or Ovid's Ars Amatoria that dates back to the year 2 AD. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 03:33 AM |
| 4 | Why seduction is so hardPick Up Artists | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 03:31 AM |
| 24 | Why seduction is so hardDude. PUA has been a thing since the 1960s. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | TMATycho Magnetic Anomaly https://youtu.be/oU4Rk0NATNs | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Why the heck do people say college is a pussy paradise?Here in the US, most schools are trending to a significant majority of women, sometimes as high as 70/30. Men are in short supply and high demand. Not everyone will be happy in a career in engineering. Maybe he needs a different major or a different school. | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Why the heck do people say college is a pussy paradise?Do you expect to become an engineer overnight without learning the necessary skills? Are people just going to hand you money because you have a certificate that says you're an engineer? No, of course not. You're going to have to work for it. Same with women. Stop wasting your time with video games, get off your lazy ass and go approach some women. You need the practice. | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 04:13 AM |
| 1 | What’s with the anti masturbation sentiment around here?Groups like nofap believe in abstinence and promote it across Reddit with religious fervor. It is a submissive sexual fetish generally known as "orgasm denial." Not that there's anything wrong with fetishes, but submissiveness is not generally compatible with active seductions. | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 04:02 AM |
| 5 | Would it be a good idea to go out and purposely get rejected if starting out?Good response there, thanks for linking. Guys already know how to fail. Learn how to succeed. | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | I called a girl and it went to voicemail. What should I do?Leave a message at the beep. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How insecure it is to delete my post because it doesnt fit your inner beliefs about human interactions ?I am not sure what happened but I have restored your post. But be aware that moderators do sometimes intervene when a post becomes a nuisance by attracting arguments and conflict. I urge you to take a step back from your post after you post it. Yes, it is your right to comment, but dominating the discussion can cause a post to become unstable and descend into arguments. | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Negativity on this subSend complaints about "Ugly Face Guy" directly to the Reddit admins. I got nowhere. Maybe it will take thousands of complaints to get them to deal with it. The admins told me this guy has created TENS OF THOUSANDS of new accounts. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 09:02 PM |
| 7 | Negativity on this subseddit is being trolled heavily, it does not seem to be a coordinated campaign but it is driven by some outside forces. If you see posts with excessive negativity to the point of trolling, it probably is trolling. Flag it and let the mods sort it out. I banned one guy just now who was an obvious troll, and yet people still engaged with the idiot. Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 09:00 PM |
| 11 | Help! GF doesn't want to be intimate anymore.If you're not having sex, she's not your girlfriend, she's your roommate. You can't fix her problems. Life is too short to be stuck in an unfulfilling relationship. There are women out there who will be happy with you. Go find one. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Help me recognize the moment to go for a kissThat moment you thought was a good time to go in for the kiss.. that was too late. You make the moment. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 01:57 AM |
| 2 | It seems most guys are fun nowadays...You are a lover, not a jester. You're trying to get laid, not get laughs. You need to make an emotional connection that increases intimacy. Jokes won't do that. | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Best/most concise guide for Night Game?The Formula for Night Game by Gambler https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Why PUA ruins lifesYep, this goes back to the original Mystery Method: you need balance in three areas, Health, Wealth, and Love. Everything in the M3 model comes in threes. Neglect one area, the others suffer. For example, college is an investment in your personal wealth. Neglect it, you will end up as a poor schlub who has no money to go on dates, and no cash reserves in case you have a health crisis. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 08:48 PM |
| 11 | Why girls give number even if they don't want to talk?That's why you put her number into your phone and call it immediately. Then you say "now you have my number too." Women don't answer calls from numbers they don't recognize. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Girl at work acting weird? Iv never talked to her beforeDon’t interact with spammers. | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Have no idea what disqualification isThat is the whole "indirect seduction" scenario. You are trying to make yourself a challenge. You disqualified yourself, she isn't used to guys who are immune to her charms. So now she should be intrigued enough to try to figure out why. This is a classic model of seduction. I suggest you search seddit for "bait hook reel release" for a more detailed discussion. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Did these girls like me or something else? U.K.Don't interact with spammers. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Should I introduce a woman to my friends?If she isn't interested in you, introducing her to your friends is being a good wingman. It increases your social value, you are bringing her value. Other women may notice your social skills, she may even have woman friends she will bring into your circle. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) why did these girls act like this?Don't interact with spammers. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 03:05 PM |
| 2 | There’s a cute blonde in 1 of my 7 classes. We’ve never talked directly but she laughs at all my jokes. I have her number but I didn’t get it from her, a mutual friend wants me to date her so she gave me it. Any advice on how to best approach her?"Jane gave me your number. We're going to rob a bank, do you want to drive the getaway car, or carry a gun?" | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Have no idea what disqualification isI'm not going to respond to a video talking about a movie about a guy. It's fiction. But I will answer your question. Disqualification is making a move that disqualifies you as a potential sexual encounter. For example, Mystery mentioned once that he liked to take a kleenex and blow his nose obnoxiously, no sane man would do something so gross in front of a woman he wanted to impress. So the woman decides that you're not trying to seduce her. This means she is less defensive so you CAN seduce he… | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Mods, seriously what will it take to ban this guy?If I discuss our countermeasures publicly, it will merely help the guy work around them. This guy is clearly mentally ill. It takes a special kind of demented mind to be so persistently devoted to such a ridiculous thing. We do what we can. I asked the Reddit admins for help. They said this guy has created tens of thousands of alt accounts. They believe the ability to easily create new accounts is not a bug in reddit, it is specifically a key feature. The Admin told me that most spammers give up… | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 02:26 AM |
| 2 | U.K.) should I take this as a compliment or nah?Don't interact with spammers. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Are my lay reports being removed?This is a question you should address directly to the moderators, in PM. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 10:05 PM |
| 37 | little free-bee from Mark Manson’s “the subtle art of not giving a fuck”Now my neck hurts. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Best jobs to meet girls?Gynecologist. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 01:08 PM |
| 1 | ModeratorsIf you want to talk to the moderators, then you should send a message to Moderator Mail. That link is: https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fseduction However, the moderators may not want to talk to you, especially if you did not go to the minimal effort to understand how Reddit has a standard Moderator Mail system. | /r/seduction | 23/11/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How tough is it to socially catch up to the guys who were cool and popular in their college days once you're out of college?As long as you focus your efforts on trolling Reddit and creating new accounts every month, I would say it is impossible. | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Rejection GameYou already know how to fail. Try practicing to succeed. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Dead numbers after number closing?Improve your number close. Give her your phone and have her input the number. Then call it immediately and say "now you have my number too." Women usually don't answer calls from numbers they don't recognize or aren't in their contact list. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | SINGLE OR MARRIED YOU MUST IMMEDIATELY READ THIS…. IT WILL SHOCK YOU FOR SURE!!!!It's a spammer. I banned about 10 accounts from this guy yesterday. Just report it and move on. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Pursuing a college instructor?You should ask her, "hey do you want to lose your degree, your scholarship, your job and your reputation, in order to sleep with a student in a way that will be considered by the University to be rape under a differential of power?" | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | A moral hurdleWomen LIKE to have sex. It's a win win situation, unless you're a loser. | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Just wondering...Banned from seddit as off topic and pushing irrational ideas. | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | For the beginners, introverts, nerds, bad looking guys.Don't feel too bad, I missed this one at first. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Women obsessed with Zodiac signs are dumb asf to me ..They call astrology "chick crack" because it's like a drug to them. Play along. It shows your sensitivity to interpersonal psychology, which is an attraction trigger. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Physics boiBut you need help with a good excuse to see him outside of class. You don’t want to be "that girl who sits in the 3rd row on the left," you want to be "that girl I went to coffee with and had a good time, maybe we can do it again." | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | I GOT REJECTED!Got rejected, didn't die. We don't do cringe in seddit so let's just skip that entirely. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Has someone seen Kezia-Noble? Is her any good?She knows her stuff. We had one up and coming PUA who was a major contributor to seddit that joined her company. As a moderator, I can't officially endorse PUA companies but I can say she is legit. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 01:03 PM |
| 1 | For the beginners, introverts, nerds, bad looking guys.Don't interact with spammers. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | How to attract women if you don't speak their language?English classes are mandatory for all Japanese schoolchildren, up through high school. They're all terrible at English. You must be careful not to embarrass them by making them feel self-conscious about their poor language skills. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How to ask a guy out?I was aware of that when I posted. It should work for either sex. It is a more indirect method so I believe it would work well for women, although of course I have no way to tell. | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:27 PM |
| 9 | How to ask a guy out?piques | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 12:04 AM |
| 4 | How to ask a guy out?Yes/no questions as an invitation do not work well, it is too easy to end up with a no and a dead end. It is better to "compliance momentum" by getting a quick answer to something anyone would reply to, then use a direct statement. For example Hey, did you understand that lecture today? (Yes OR No) I could use some help with point XYZ, we should get some coffee and study it together. This routine has other good PUA methods. It uses "illusory input," it doesn't really matter whether they answer y… | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Falling for a girl who has sugar daddies.She has one guy to provide her money, and one guy (you) to give her good sex. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to tell a girl I'm learning PUA?No. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | What flirty stuff do guys like from girls?Become more sensitive to the signals you're giving and the signals he is giving in return. That is pretty much the central issue of pickup, we don't see the obvious signs of attraction. I often break it down into 3 simple rules. Talk to people (men women as the case may be) Increase intimacy Have fun | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Should you keep approaching if you have a 100% failure rate?You will have a 100% failure rate until the 1 time you succeed. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Girls laughing at me? U.K.Don’t interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | U.K. girls mocking me or something else?Don't interact with spammers. Report it and move on. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Girls mocking me or something else? U.K.Thanks, it helps a lot. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | how do I stop being like Elliot Rodger?I would start by avoiding his behaviors, especially getting banned from PUA forums. Oh no, too late! | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 07:10 PM |
| 3 | I’m 20 years old and my cat is probably better at flirting than me.So learn from your cat. Kitty goes up to people and meows, rubs against them, and communicates happy sounds like purring that create attraction. | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Guys I’m in a hotel room with 6 girls, 5 of which are singleGet off your phone and go talk to them. | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | The #1 thing that stops me from cold approaching a random girl is the fact that my face would turn really red, anyone else experience this? What's a good way to stop this from happening?Check to see if you have a skin condition called rosacea. It causes excessive flushing in circumstances where normal skin would probably only flush mildly. rosacea.org | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 10:04 PM |
| 7 | She can't stop talking"aaaaand now back to me." | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Tomorrow is the day...Tomorrow is the day... I will take action tomorrow. Not today but tomorrow. I have a plan for action and I will take action tomorrow. Or maybe the day after. The time has to be right. Tomorrow for sure. Or maybe later. | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Man Friendzones WomanDon't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Virgin and dont leave the house because I’m hideously unikeable to girls how can I improve?Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 03:27 AM |
| 1 | When seduction almost gets you killed. My brother is now obsessed with power and seduction. It's put our family in danger.If you are in danger, call the police immediately. Don't waste time explaining it to us. Do it now. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I found the male wall - now what?I used plenty of standard pickup techniques. Age is not an obstacle unless you make it one. Your attitude is more important. At your age, you have plenty of advantages that younger women recognize and want. | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I found the male wall - now what?I suggest you stop whining and take action. When I was 50, my girlfriend was a 35 year old ex-stripper MILF. | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) is getting 3-7 likes on tinder/bumble on my first day bad for a dude?Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) is 4-7 likes on tinder/bumble on my first day bad for a dude?Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) is 3-7 likes on tinder/bumble my first day bad for a guy?Don't interact with trolls | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 01:07 PM |
| 3 | My best friend sleeps with majority of the girls I've ever liked or wanted to date and it hurts.Nobody ever got rich by counting his neighbor's money. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Few days of cuddling but still LMROops you are correct, I'll edit that. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Recently broke through with my game. Notice a lot of women looking at me at the bus, etc. Real change or imaginary?Maybe you're becoming more aware of signals women are giving, when you weren't paying attention before. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Had a crush on a coworker (she doesnt know) for a while now and then this happened...signals?Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Is my plan good or not?There is only one problem: you are rehearsing a script with an imaginary woman in your head. It will probably not work like that in the real world. It is like an actor over-rehearsing his lines, they come out stale and unconvincing. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) why was hear girls acting like this with me?Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) girls mocking me?Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Few days of cuddling but still LMRYou're giving her the intimacy she wants and you get nothing in return. Freeze her out. Move on. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls mocking me or something else?He's a troll. Don't encourage him. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 07:43 PM |
| 111 | So my drink got spikedYou made the right move, calling for help. The staff may have seen something happen, and at least it alerts them that somebody is pulling shit in their bar. It might have helped someone else avoid a bad end to the evening. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 07:42 PM |
| 9 | So my drink got spikedhttps://youtu.be/nBFdvcF7auY | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 07:40 PM |
| 6 | This shit is so fucking hardYou will fail every time until you succeed. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | its not my looks....or is it? (college rant)Dude, college men are vastly outnumbered by women. Some schools are as much as 70/30 women to men. High quality men are in short supply and high demand. You are a hot commodity. Only you can remove yourself from eligibility as a high quality man. If you get testy when women tease you, they think you're no fun to be around. Tease them back. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | If ur a bi girl in this subreddit- pls read this!! Do u relate?LOL | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 01:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I take this?Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 01:06 AM |
| -1 | A menu would be revolutionaryThe Moderators are always appreciative when people generously offer projects that would take more of our limited time and effort. | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 07:01 PM |
| 13 | If ur a bi girl in this subreddit- pls read this!! Do u relate?I encourage you to post here in seddit, we welcome all types of people interested in seduction. Your remarks remind me of our old moderator LesbianPUA, who was full of great information. So please proceed to post here. HOWEVER, there are a lot of guys here who don't communicate well with women, both in real life and online. They are trying to learn how to do better, but sometimes they don't realize they are offending people and discouraging participation. Don't let that stop you, and I will try … | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Jesus Guys... It's not that hard to tellDo you have more than a casual acquaintance with her? Maybe she has qualities you haven't discovered yet. Maybe you'd like her if you knew more about her. Otherwise you are just projecting your own feelings onto her. | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Jesus Guys... It's not that hard to tellThanks for your input. What you say is true, it can happen often, but unless the guy tries to escalate (become more intimate) then you never really get the chance to shoot him down. He will crash all by himself. That is what we are trying to teach guys to avoid. Most guys are too timid, it is better to be a bit bold. This is often misinterpreted as instructions for aggressive guys to be more aggressive, that's not what we mean here in seddit. The biggest problem in seduction, for both men and wo… | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Why are comments like this allowed?Sleep? What's that? | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How do fix looking for approval/attention/affection/validation??I would recommend you stop seeking attention on Reddit by posting this same question 12 times in 5 minutes on multiple subreddits. In particular, you should stop making multiple posts in seddit within 5 minutes. I will assist you. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 09:12 PM |
| 289 | Jesus Guys... It's not that hard to tellBasic way tell if that girl likes you: She's still standing there next to you, interacting with you, and hasn't run away in terror. We have a constant influx of what we call "there's this girl" posts. There are three possible ways to handle this She likes you and you take action. Best result: you find out she likes you. She doesn't like you and you take action: At least now you know. She may or may not like you and you don't take action: you will regret not taking action. So there is one answer … | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are comments like this allowed?That happens quite often, depending on the situation. Flag abusive comments to draw the moderators' attention to it more quickly. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 02:29 PM |
| 14 | Why are comments like this allowed?We can’t micromanage comments. If you see abusive comments, flag the post so moderators can see it more easily. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 04:26 AM |
| 2 | What to do about other guys coming in your set?Use an AMOG Destroyer. To the girl, loud enough for the guy to hear: "Hey he's trying to impress you, is it working?" | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | seddit's r/100sets is a total failureThere are things you learn from a hundred sets that you can't learn from ten sets. | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 05:22 PM |
| 1 | What are some interesting games that we can play with a new girl?I like to play Hide the Sausage. | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 05:21 PM |
| 7 | If you’re non-romantically hanging out with a lady friend that you wanna eventually be romantic with, and someone calls you a cute couple or asks if you’re dating, what response should you give?"This is my ex-wife." Then go into the ex-wife roleplay. | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 05:19 PM |
| 2 | seddit's r/100sets is a total failureEvery set has an opportunity cost: it's time you're not able to spend on another set. | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 12:30 AM |
| 3 | seddit's r/100sets is a total failureMost people start with a lot of a failed sets. As you get better and have more experience, you should be sticking longer with good sets and ejecting early from sets if they're not going anywhere. | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | seddit's r/100sets is a total failureYou don't need validation from a subreddit to do 100 sets. I think I lost count and stopped counting at about 300 or 400. You could do 100 sets in a couple of weeks. That's only 8 approaches an evening. You should be doing WAY more than 8 approaches a night in any crowded venue. | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this? RSD is brought up a lot here and I’m doing one of their former instructors programsWell someone sure has an axe to grind. That is not permitted in seddit. | /r/seduction | 01/10/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl just told me I have a ton of friends and she feels lucky to be one of the closest ones.That is a famous qualification routine. Her: What do you mean SEVENTH? Him: You could do better. | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Girl just told me I have a ton of friends and she feels lucky to be one of the closest ones."Aw.. you're my seventh most favorite person." | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 08:47 PM |
| 2 | What if you'll never be naturally funny?You aren't trying to get laughs. You're trying to get laid. Most guys have trouble being a jester, not a lover. Be a lover. | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | im working on a way for incels to get girls. will make a youtube video on it soon detailing the processJust report the troll and let the mods take care of it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | So this communityThanks for the report. This sort of contribution by women is useful, and attacking women for contributing is absolutely unacceptable. There are a lot of antisocial guys here in seddit who don't know how to interact well with women and unfortunately this is the sort of situation where they feel justified in acting out their problems. Well, that's why they don't get laid, they can't interact with women who don't tell them exactly what they want to hear. It is regrettable both for them (who could l… | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 05:32 PM |
| – | So this communityWhere was this post where people treated a woman rudely? I moderate many threads where sedditors misbehave towards women, I probably intervened in that one. But I am not sure. A link would be useful. If you see personal attacks of any kind, please flag them or bring them to the attention of a moderator. IN ADDITION.. this thread is not the place to continue such behavior or justify it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best programme ??The best program is the one you actually USE. As in, study and then TAKE ACTION. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 12:42 PM |
| 7 | I actually did itYeah, it's basically AA, it's inability to take action, due to some subconscious defense mechanism. An approach isn't just walking up to a woman (a big step for some guys) but talking with her and "hooking" her attention. It feels risky, but you won't die. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 12:12 AM |
| 223 | I actually did itGot rejected, didn't die. Success. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | TIL that Warren Buffett is a kick ass AlphaYeah, no. Buffett has an iPhone. He uses email. Berkshire Hathaway invests in fundamentals like insurance and commodities but he is still a huge investor in Apple. | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 12:12 PM |
| 2 | I just got rejected on my first approach ever fuckNext time you try approaching a woman, be sure not to die. Oh wait, you already succeeded. OK, now go approach another hundred times. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 05:57 PM |
| 5 | A bedroom so good they'll wanna come back over?Oh, I forgot about that, I have like 3 pillows so it seemed obvious. You can get really cheap pillows at Target for like $4 and they are machine washable. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:26 PM |
| 62 | A bedroom so good they'll wanna come back over?Good clean bed linens and a good bed frame. Consider getting a bed skirt (something flat and not frilly, try Target). Music that you can fire up in 10 seconds. I mean under ten seconds. Get some portable speakers and hook up an old iPod with your playlist and keep it queued up and ready to play with one click. Practice it to make sure you can do it instantly. There is nothing that kills the momentum like spending 5 minutes scrolling through music looking for your play list. A big cylindrical can… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 02:27 AM |
| 9 | "Guys only want sex" - How do you respond to this?"Slow down, Tiger, I barely know you." | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad to tease/false-disqualify girl for being short?No that puts the emphasis back on making jokes about her height. You're trying to disqualify yourself because that makes you a challenge. You're too tall for her, oh yeah she'll show you she isn't. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Being straight forwardVideos from ThatWasEpic are banned in seddit, due to obviously faked videos and stupid antisocial pranks. I suggest you ignore everything they do. Stop watching that crap. | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Is it bad to tease/false-disqualify girl for being short?At most, and even this is shaky, use it in reverse as a self-disqualifier, "I'm too tall for you." | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 08:36 PM |
| 26 | Is it bad to tease/false-disqualify girl for being short?No. Do not tease women over fundamental attributes of their existence. Tease her over something trivial, like this classic, "Oh I love that dress! I saw someone else wearing that exact same dress today." | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 04:17 PM |
| 2 | How many of you guys got laid out of PUA over the years? How many girls?We don't do bragposts about numbers here. This is not a competition. | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 05:10 PM |
| – | Tips on how to seduce a guy when you're a girl?I am warning everyone to act civil and don't be a snarky idiot. Please keep your responses directly related valid PUA-related principles and practices. | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I openMost people open with the Ruy Lopez, Queen's pawn to e4. | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 03:14 AM |
| 2 | How can I tell if a guy is her boyfriend or just a guy friend?Mystery said this was a mandatory question for any 3+ set. It helps you figure out the group dynamics. Also note that women will sometimes fake that a guy is her boyfriend and he might play along. Try to trip him up by asking for details. | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Give me back my hat!I dunno, just off the top of my head (oops no pun intended) I'd probably say "Hey you look better than me in that hat, let's do a selfie." Then you could get her involved switching the hat around for your phone camera. I have no idea if this would work, but it definitely takes control without being uptight. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Why for the love of god i cant make any fucking friends? Im not even asking for nudes dude. Maybe im just the most boring piece of shit ever.You post these screen caps over and over. I am tired of them and it appears everyone else is too. This is the most attention your posts have received, and yet you do nothing to act on any advice you are given, and seek excuses why this advice won't work. Perhaps you are only seeking pity. That is not what we do here in seddit. Your remarks end up baiting people and starting arguments. This is not healthy for you or for seddit. You need to work on some personal issues before you work on social is… | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Receding hairlineBalding is a condition. Bald is a choice. | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Give me back my hat!Mystery described putting his hat or his headphones on a girl, this was an "engagement device" to hook the woman and engage her interest. This generally insures that she comes back to return it. But it doesn't have to be an expensive thing, he also described rummaging around his courier bag and deliberately getting his hands full and saying "here, hold this" and giving her a pen. | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 08:29 PM |
| – | How Should I Message A Girl That I Haven't Talked To In Months?Once again, this discussion has been disrupted by "clever" comments that are bullshit. If you are primarily interested in showing off how clever and witty you are, that is why you fail with women. You are tryhard. You are trying too hard to impress a bunch of random strangers on the internet. If you're like that in the real world (and yes you are, you can't help it) then women are repelled by your tryhard approaches. If you cannot contribute in a way that connects with standard PUA methods and p… | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts about RSD? Scam or notLike any system of instruction, the results depend on YOU and how much effort you put into practice. Take what you like and leave the rest. | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 01:37 PM |
| 2 | I think I need to take a breakMystery said it is your duty to test the strength of a relationship by seducing the woman. You are doing them both a favor. If she would be happier with you, better she find that out now. And if she isn't happy with him, its better he find that out now. And if you can't separate them, they will be even closer and happier to be together, having passed the test. | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [16M] Telling a girl I like herYes it will turn her off. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Politics and Seduction: I may have to move to a new city...https://i.imgur.com/FdJp3nU.png | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Politics and Seduction: I may have to move to a new city...Your political problems are off topic here. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Negativity towards 18 year olds or even beginners?Clarification: That wasn't a warning specifically pointed at you, since you are rightfully criticizing that response. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | LinkedIn experience?Ask her for a letter of reference. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 03:19 PM |
| 3 | FOR THE PPL WHO KNOW OR ARE FANS OF MYSTERY METHOD what is the indication from moving from A3 to C1Yes. Sinn added the qualification stage between A3 and C1, but it is not a rigidly defined stage, it tends to overlap the two stages quite a bit. He goes into details of the M3 model and his changes in this video: https://youtu.be/sbB8AuTBouY | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Negativity towards 18 year olds or even beginners?Making pedophile jokes is a quick way to get banned. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Negativity towards 18 year olds or even beginners?She was tough. She was real. And she was taking a lot of her time to give something for free, something that was valuable and well considered. But at a certain point, you may decide it's not worth casting pearls before swine. Please examine your comment in light of what I posted. Your post is not insightful, it's the same damn "common sense" from social conditioning that we try to break out of. Your post is not thoughtful, "devil's advocate" is the least possible thought anyone could put into a … | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 04:01 PM |
| -3 | Negativity towards 18 year olds or even beginners?Please learn to express that sort of idea with less hostility and condescension. See my stickied post. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Negativity towards 18 year olds or even beginners?The best way to learn something is to teach it to others. You don't have to be an expert, in order to show people the way forward. You only need to be one step ahead of them, and capable of showing them the path you took forward. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 03:59 AM |
| – | Negativity towards 18 year olds or even beginners?I looked at that link and I was appalled. I intervened in those threads previously, but apparently that was insufficient. It is cleaned up now so anyone who looks won't really get the idea how bad it was. I am sorry but mods can't watch every thread and this one got out of hand. This is basically bullying. Nobody has the right to sneer and look down on other sedditors. That makes a hostile environment where people are reluctant to participate. Let me make this very clear: this behavior is unacce… | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Is this is the best pick up artist with the best infields in the world, or he is just another fake YouTube prankster? (ThatWasEpic aka Juan)Fake. It's a prank video channel. They are banned from seddit, I don't know how this video got past the filters. | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 12:25 PM |
| 8 | Do you use the word “Date” when asking a girl out?Sometimes if you refer to it as a Date, it forces the woman to consciously decide whether or not she wants to date you. That rational evaluation of an emotional connection usually goes poorly for you. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 08:19 PM |
| 2 | If a girl you like, but is in a relationship starts complaining about her relationship, what do you do?It's a bit abrupt, but you are cutting the thread. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What REALLY Attracts WOMENIf you see this sort of fake-animated presentation with computer-generated or thickly accented narration, flag them. They are spam. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 08:07 PM |
| 5 | If a girl you like, but is in a relationship starts complaining about her relationship, what do you do?I always teach it as it was taught to me: use that phrase word for word. Emphasize empathy up front, then cut her off. I have used this phrase to successfully stop my raging alcoholic ex-gf in the midst of an epic rant. It works. You are "thread cutting," ending one thread of conversation and cutting quickly to a different one. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How is PUA different from naturals like Russel Brand?He's not a natural, he's a manic junkie Maharishi cult member. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 11:50 PM |
| 7 | If a girl you like, but is in a relationship starts complaining about her relationship, what do you do?"I understand how you feel, but you shouldn't dwell on these negative thoughts, it's not good for you." Then change the subject. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "This is why you are still single."?Well there's your answer. She's prodding you to end your single status, and hook up with one of her friends. Some married women miss being chased like when they were single, so they get vicarious enjoyment out of seeing their women friends being chased. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 11:44 PM |
| 8 | How to respond to "This is why you are still single."?if you are so concerned about that why don't we fix this with a beer next Friday?" ( Wink wink ) Yeah, that's how you fail this shit test, by taking the bait and acting like a horndog that is desperate to get laid. My choice would be reversal, make her jump through your hoop instead, "Well why are YOU still single?" | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 07:10 PM |
| 3 | FR: 53 yr old pulling 20 somethings. Figuring out what is working.I used the pharase "I want you to know I don't want to mess up this wonderful complicity we have by doing something stupid with you". Ah, the Conspiracy Gambit. Well done. You made all the right moves, you showed her that she has a place in your life, not just in your bed. This makes her feel worthy of your attention. Many young women feel older men are out of their league. You have life experience and stability she does not get from men her age. So she may even feel like all she has to offer is… | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | SidebarIt looks like Reddit just switched to the new design, whether you like it or not. It's full of bugs, I can't get it to display on Safari at all. The new design omits the sidebar and I will get it back as soon as I figure out a few things. In the meantime, it shows up if you use old reddit. Use the old.reddit.com instead of www.reddit.com and it will show up. Then you can select old or new design as a default in your Reddit preferences. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys that cold approach women at the gym, what are you saying to them?You'll see, one day, these dreams will pull you through my door And I'll come running to tie your shoe And I'll come running to tie your shoe. https://youtu.be/yFz50q\_QmfE | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Could she be pregnant?Then read their FAQ. | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 4 | How can people here recommend "How to win friends and influence people" as a must-have for PUAs when it's about being nice guys which girls avoid so much?It doesn't teach you how to be nice. It teaches you how to WIN friends and INFLUENCE people. It shows you how to be emotionally engaging in mundane interactions with other people that are an opportunity to influence them. | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Could she be pregnant?/r/sex | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Perfect example of what not to doI appreciate you went to some effort to give it a better context. But the video is still kind of cruel to point out some poor guy's problems. This video is especially bad because it was intended as comedy, by a comedy/cringe channel. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 06:38 PM |
| 22 | Should I Make Female Friends First in College?In college you need to build a social circle. Platonic women friends are often gateways into their social circles, where you will meet other women you might click with. Bonus points: hook up friends between the two social circles, and they will always want you around. You will bring value to a larger social circle. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Perfect example of what not to doThe moderators disapprove of "cringe" posts so it was removed. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Tinder girls that want to "get to know each other first"?It might help to realize that these women usually have several guys they're stringing along like that. Some guys put it in their online profiles that if you're not actually interested in meeting in person, then don't bother contacting them. I'm not sure that is a useful strategy. But you can always challenge the woman, if she is not interested in meeting up then forget it. If she wants to get to know you better before you meet, well that's what meeting for coffee is for, to get to know each othe… | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Why is Magic Bullets so bashed ?Even if you don't use routines, it is always useful to have some routine material as a fallback for when you get stalled. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Why is Magic Bullets so bashed ?MB is still invaluable. It is the first book that I saw with "conversational strategies" rather than just routines. Sure it has routines. But it also insists that your conversation has to move the seduction forward. I believe the book introduced the idea of qualification , but it's been a while since I read it. IIRC Sinn had some contributions to the book (he is the pro at qualification) and expanded the M3 Model to become the Emotional Progression Model. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Make em laughThe problem is you are seeking approval by trying to make them laugh. You are a jester, not a lover. You're trying to get laid, not get laughs. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 06:17 PM |
| 9 | Tinder girls that want to "get to know each other first"?There are a lot of girls online who just want free entertainment chatting with guys. There is a point where you have to draw the line and realize you're just providing free entertainment and it's not going anywhere. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 05:34 AM |
| 2 | How many girls have you hooked up with and what age are you?We don't do body counts here. It isn't a competition. | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | HOW DO YOU PICK UP A GIRL?There's a channel that will never be seen in seddit again. Ever. | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to seduce guys?I am appalled, but not surprised, at the enormous outburst of idiocy. This is why you guys can't get girls: because you treat women incredibly rudely, because you try to be clever but fail. | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Have politics played a stigma in the game of a man getting his girl?Women generally don't like judgmental guys like you. This is not the place for you to discuss your political problems. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 10:19 PM |
| -1 | Apathy and low energy are stifling any progress. I’m not sure how to go about fixing itI was going to answer your question but I decided I didn't care. | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Does accidentally spilling a drink on a woman (or a group of women) necessarily kill an interaction?You remind me of this column from Dan Savage. https://www.chicagoreader.com/chicago/savage-love/Content?oid=890295 | /r/seduction | 26/08/18 06:01 AM |
| 6 | how to deal with a girl you are gaming running into somebody she knowsA classic neg from Mystery: "Aren't you going to introduce us? That's what polite people do." | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 08:47 PM |
| 72 | ENOUGH! How to Stop Being TIRED All the Time: Julien's Top 5 Sleep Tips (Overcome Chronic Fatigue)I was going to watch this but I decided to have a nap. | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I feel way more confident and successful when speaking in English (than in my mother's language)/I have two peronalities, depending on the language I speak inWhen I was living in Japan, I frequently had the odd experience of intense, conflicting emotions at the same time. I was never more miserable when I was the most happy. I still haven't figured it out. | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 08:44 PM |
| 11 | I feel way more confident and successful when speaking in English (than in my mother's language)/I have two peronalities, depending on the language I speak inYes, it's true. Linguists have noted that bilingual people have slightly different thought processes and express themselves differently in different languages. It is generically referred to as "code switching". It is especially interesting when people switch codes back and forth in the same sentence. People who know the same two languages can follow the switching fairly smoothly. | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 01:35 PM |
| 10 | Can we, as a community, limit the amount of people posting about their specific problemsWe remove the obvious spam and abusive videos. You never see those, so it is hard for anyone but moderators to judge how well we protect seddit. We cannot make too high a barrier to contribute, and many of the people who contributed to seddit have gone on to influential positions in the community, proving the value of their contributions. As long as someone is bringing value to seddit, rather than seeking to use seddit to extract value to themselves, they are welcome. But this is a tricky balanc… | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Can we, as a community, limit the amount of people posting about their specific problemsThis is why I recommend reading seddit sorted by New and not Hot. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:22 PM |
| 8 | Can we, as a community, limit the amount of people posting about their specific problemsYes, we refer questions to askseddit. There is even a warning message in big red letters that comes up when you post. Obviously nobody reads the warning, so I do not hesitate to remove posts that break the rules. You were warned. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:22 PM |
| – | Can we, as a community, limit the amount of people posting about their specific problemsseddit is intended for people studying seduction methods IN GENERAL, to be applied to women in general. There is no useful advice possible for specific situations with specific women. There are no magic words to say that will win a woman's attention. There will always be newbies coming who ask questions without making the slightest attempt to understand what seddit is about. Perhaps they may come to understand our principles, perhaps not. In the meantime, flag any posts about specific problems s… | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Great sex with previous casual partners, can't stay erect with gf (a 10)/r/sex FAQ | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 06:06 PM |
| 3 | I don't mind getting rejected at all, but I do mind others seeing me get rejectedThey won't be watching you, when you get her alone in your bed. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 02:38 AM |
| – | Sedditor Locator 2018Please don't do this. We have serious security concerns about this approach to meetups. The Moderators have spent considerable time searching for a meetup method that insures privacy and security for our users, but we have found no approach that gives adequate protection. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Is there any value in the classic pick up artist books?That is a common criticism of MM, that it is intended for outgoing young party people, but that is the wrong lesson to draw from MM. The M3 model is the core. He said that all seductions go through three stages, Attraction, Comfort, and Seduction. Other parts (like qualification) have been grafted onto the M3 model but at the core, it is still the fundamental of game. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Opposites attract theory: If you are a darker guy, go for blondes and redheads. If you are a blond or redhead guy, go for darker women.I suspected this was the same old troll, I flagged him for further observation, and now he's banned. Please contact the Moderators directly f you spot evidence of repeat trolling (especially with new accounts, which are considered ban evasion and will get you a ban from Reddit entirely). | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Pls suggest an all-around alpha-male intensive programLet me show you the exit. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Pls suggest an all-around alpha-male intensive programEnroll here. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Why is my sex drive so low?/r/sex FAQ | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Weirdest ASMR Videos On Youtube!!You're damn right you won't. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Why is seduction difficult ?Because you make it difficult. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 12:17 AM |
| 2 | girlfriend is pissed at me for saying I wanted to be my buddy's wingman, am I wrong for thinking thats okay?Bring her along as wingwomen. Some women in relationships miss being chased, so they can get vicarious pleasure from helping your buddies chase other women. | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Is there any value in the classic pick up artist books?I disagree, Mystery Method is basic background info that is useful for understanding all other pickup systems. The techniques are intended for use on extremely high value women who have high barriers to social interaction. So it uses an indirect approach to get past those barriers without looking like you're trying to seduce her. But overall, every seduction will go through the process described in the MM. You can stumble through those stages and if you don't blow it at any point, you "get lucky… | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | last night i ordered a club soda with lemon..Try ordering an icewater. | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 02:54 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about Craig Ferguson. Is he is natural or he is actually PUA.Are you a goddam idiot? It is OBVIOUS they have prearranged their banter. That is how it has always been done on talk shows. The previous host of this show, Craig Kilborn, would occasionally tape these pre-show discussions in the guest's dressing room and show them at the beginning of the show, just to demonstrate how pretentious it all is. | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 12:46 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about Craig Ferguson. Is he is natural or he is actually PUA.He is an actor. The women are actresses. They are acting. The whole dialogue is arranged in advance. They are selling a product: the actresses sex appeal. They make it look easy to seduce a woman like that. It is an act. | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Would it be weird if confess to a girl that I am starting to like her during or right after the first date?No, don't express your feelings right away. You can do it indirectly, there's an old classic routine, "Hey I kinda like you, you're the 5th best person I know." That will probably get an immediate response, it can make you a challenge, to try to get a higher rank. | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 07:09 PM |
| 3 | U.K.) how do I take this interaction with these girls at work?He's not ours. He infests dozens of subs, he discovered us relatively late, after harassing other subs for years. | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Did I emasculate myself by cleaning up after a party?Well there are lots of ways to bring value. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Did I emasculate myself by cleaning up after a party?If you didn't participate in the drunk drama, and tried to help picking up after the mayhem, you brought value to the situation. You are the kind of person that people like to have around at parties. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 08:30 PM |
| 8 | How to get invited to high school partiesHow to get invited to high school parties: Throw a high school party. People should reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 02:30 AM |
| 4 | She broke up with me but still wants to communicate like friends, FaceTime, as well as sexYou have the right to draw boundaries, and set limits on behavior that is unacceptable. It sounds like you did a "freeze-out" and that is just fine. There is no reason to take her back except by making it clear, it is on YOUR terms, not hers. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Can someone update the sidebar please?If you find broken links, you can put the URL into the Wayback Machine at archive.org. I have updated some links but I am short of time for major updates. I have to rework the CSS for the New Reddit on top of that. | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 08:26 PM |
| 4 | [meta] can the mods please start cracking down on this incel infestation we seem to be having?If you see specific posts or comments that are not bringing value to seddit, flag them with the report button. This will draw them to attention of the moderators more quickly. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Can we get a reddit chat started for this sub?As far as I know chat is automatically activated if it’s available. I can see it but it it might be still in beta and not accessible to everyone. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Iron John by Robert Bly - What's Missing In Modern ManJesus fucking christ that book is about 30 years old, about a story that is 200 years old. We have moved on. | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | The sexual history of a girlIt's difficult to let go of deeply ingrained beliefs, but the results are worth it. Once you recognize a woman's innate power over her sexual choices, you recognize she has the power to choose you. | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 02:10 AM |
| 8 | Best reasons to give her the excuse to come over to your place?"You should come over and see my etchings." | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 03:42 PM |
| -4 | The sexual history of a girlWomen just LOVE guys who constantly pass judgment on their sexual histories and slut shame them. /s | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | The paradox of outcome independenceThere is no paradox, as long has you have done everything you could to create a positive outcome. Then the outcome is not dependent on you, it is dependent on her, her whims, her mood at the moment etc. If you could read her mind, maybe there was something more you could do. But you can't, so you did your best, with no regrets. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Going to Poland soon. Any advice?Use mech infantry combined with panzer units and coordinated air support. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl that I started chatting with has had over 25 sexual partners by the age of 17Yeah women just love judgmental guys who have problems with her personal sexual choices. /s | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Is SimplePickup Fake Pt. 3 (did jesse have game?)Those fools think even negative publicity is good publicity. But you have to draw a line before you're just acting antisocial and screwing with people for the lulz. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 11:43 PM |
| 3 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?Possibly it might be better in AskSeddit but this seems to be a topic that is drawing some considerate responses. Many of us have varying degrees of ability at reading and responding to social signals. It wouldn't hurt anyone to reconsider their views of the fundamentals. Yeah sidebar and other materials. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 05:45 AM |
| 0 | Why do girls friends pull their friend away when a very handsome guy is chatting with them?No. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls friends pull their friend away when a very handsome guy is chatting with them?That is not what ASD means. The term you are searching for is "cockblocking." | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Is SimplePickup Fake Pt. 3 (did jesse have game?)Simple Pickup is banned from seddit. I suggest you do not promote their antisocial stunts, or you may join them. | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Girls tell me I ask too many questions HELP MEHelp is on the way | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with "lifestyle" game?You are right. Corrected. | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 03:14 AM |
| 1 | What are everyone's thoughts on walking girls home?You pay for the cab because YOU planned things, regardless of how it actually turned out. You are not dependent on outcome, so you don't cut her loose just because you didn't get what you want. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Sick of cavemen analogies and other game crap. Show me logistics.I don't recall anything about assanova so I can't recommend anything comparable. The point of logistical escalation is that many promising sets will die at the last moment due to bad logistics. It doesn't matter how ready, willing, and able she is to go home with you, if she is the designated driver and has to get her girlfriends home. That's Aaron Sleazy's point, screen up front before you bother investing in a set with crap logistics that will go nowhere, no matter how attracted she is. Qualif… | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Anyone successful with "lifestyle" game?I had a lifestyle that women flocked to, when I lived near skid row and slept on a 2 inch foam pad. Go read "8 Ball" "9 Ball" by Jeffy. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Byron Katie: the ultimate inner game?That is kind of generic self-helpish and not particularly directed at dating and relationships. We like self-improvement and inner game but it is not enough, you need outer game too. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | When woman asks if you date other women as wellIt's a shit test. Her: Do you date other women? Him: What, like today? Only a few. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Is there any routine to take girl's contact?It's called a "number close." There are plenty of variations and this is fundamental stuff. For example, "Hey I gotta go but we should continue this conversation later. Here, put your number in my phone." [hand her phone with new contact page already open] Note that this did not at any point ask any questions, it just offers suggestions. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Sick of cavemen analogies and other game crap. Show me logistics.Aaron Sleazy's critique is that PUA is worthless because it will be futile unless you prescreen for logistics. THEN you use PUA which is not actually PUA because he doesn't like PUA. Rubbish. His methods are the same as the PUA stuff he claims to oppose. Other anti-PUA methods are like this (e.g. RSD). I suggest you look at the Triad. It has three parallel tracks of escalation: physical, emotional, and logistical. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What are everyone's thoughts on walking girls home?Men are responsible for the logistics including getting her back home safely. At minimum, pay for a cab or uber, even if people usually walk in your town. | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What kind of body will help attract women the most? I assume its the one yourr happy withBig feet. | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Girl changing QUICKA classic from Mystery: "Why don't you introduce me to your friends? That's what polite people do." | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 09:49 PM |
| 2 | How to meet women post college when you work full time?YOU again? | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 09:45 PM |
| 7 | Is it normal for a guy to attract and get obvious IOIs from certain kinds of women? Why?Black and brown hair are the most common natural hair colors. | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Books on Being Non Reactive / Non JudgementalNovels with strong male characters are fiction. Do not try to model your behavior based on fictional characters. | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 02:11 AM |
| 8 | Researchers have compared different cognitive strategies for falling out of love - "Negative reappraisal" which involved reminding themselves of the negative qualities of their ex partners, had the greatest effect on helping people get over a romantic break-upI could have told you this. In fact, I HAVE said this over and over: Remind yourself why she is your ex. | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 04:39 AM |
| 1 | I will be sharing SCB 2.0 by RSD Luke for free to the r/seduction communityNo piracy in seddit. | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with other guys not respecting your relationshipI would consider a lawsuit against interlopers for Trespass to Chattel and then lock her up in your basement. Or you could learn that your possessiveness and jealousy are going to drive her away, right into another guy's bed. | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | So I came across a post talking about the m3 model...What's yours?As far as a direct lineage, M3 evolved into the Emotional Progression model, which progressed into the Triad. The Triad is pretty good if for no other reason than systematizing logistics. | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Need advice from serious premed/undergrad students on getting a girlfriend in my situation?Check your social circle. There are med student parties. Weirdest party I ever attended: med students and law students. | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | FOUND THIS CONVERSATION VERY INSIGHTFUL ABOUT OUR FUTURE AS MEN. HOPE THIS HELPS :)Reposting videos to circumvent moderator removal is a bannable offense. That's strike two. Three strikes you're out. | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Is this on the girl?Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 09:39 PM |
| 8 | Got the cops called on me at the gym...feedback/advice?These are employees and they are required to be nice to customers. They are a captive audience. Go find a different person to make a legitimate approach. | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Married Women?Dude. Bachelorette night is anything-goes night. It doesn't count. | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How well would a brown skinned Canadian guy do in UK?How well are you doing now, wherever you are at the moment? You'll do about that well. | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 01:08 AM |
| 1 | What we all who are struggling need to be toldYour message is like telling a person with depression that they should just cheer up. | /r/seduction | 22/06/18 02:24 AM |
| 1 | If you come off as a bit creepy and want to pretend you were joking, then don't fucking do it by literally stating "it was a joke".Aw, now you're making me feel bad. In my family, we made bad jokes as a sign of closeness. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What is your best character in seduction?This is why your game is fucked up. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | What is your best character in seduction?This is why your game is fucked up. You want to model yourself after an imaginary character. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 08:01 PM |
| 5 | How do I tell if the guy she is with is her boyfriend or a guy friend?Yes, this is straight from Mystery, "So, how do you all know each other?" He says this is a mandatory question early in any 3+ set, it will quickly establish who is who in the group dynamics. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 07:58 PM |
| 3 | There are a thousand posts listing day game openers on seddit. What about transitions?Get them to invest emotionally by qualifying to you. Prototype by Sinn, "You look like the adventurous type. Everyone says they're adventurous but most of them aren't." | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Best time to daygame?Daytime. | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 06:04 PM |
| 9 | Please help seddit and analyze meGood job interview questions. Bad seduction questions. | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 09:50 PM |
| 5 | What is the correct response to 'i am gonna try it with my ex', how to tell her to stay in touch?Use the Boyfriend Destroyers. If you criticize the BF, she will defend him. If you defend the BF, she will criticize him. So praise him for the things he surely does not do. "Oh it must be wonderful to be back with your soulmate that you can share everything and he keeps no secrets. I'm sure he showers you with gifts and expensive dinners." | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 09:48 PM |
| 4 | How do I go about escalating things with the graduate student leading my chemistry lab?Say "hey baby you wanna get kicked out of university and throw your career away by dating a loser like me?" | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | My Date Got Hit By A BusNo, we don't do these "what's the worst evar" threads in seddit. It rapidly becomes a vicious circle of increasing boasts until it's a pack of lies. | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How Kratom Gave Me a Realization About WomenPromoting the use of drugs and sketchy supplements is prohibited in seddit. | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do guys feel "disrespected"?Because they are possessive and jealous. That is the sort of attitude that pushes women away by being judgmental of her and treating her like property. Most men are not like that. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 09:05 PM |
| 9 | If you could read only one seduction book in your entire life then which book would that be?The game is a semi-autobiographical novel. Some of it is fiction. Read How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Success rate...We don't do this in seddit. It's not a competition and questions like this just incite people to brag and it becomes meaningless. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 05:40 PM |
| 5 | [HELP]Unphotogenic dude need good picturesIf your photographer can't make you look good, you chose a crappy photographer. So it will be up to you. How to Pose for a Photograph That article has very brief advice from Peter Hurley. Go look up his Youtube videos, I often recommend them in this situation. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Re-engagement adviceYou are an idiot. Cooties may also refer to crab lice. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I got a cognitive dissonance (How to promote the pleasure of uncertainty in romantic attraction.)this article is opposite of article from the same site posted hours ago here.The report is behind a paywall so I really can't do any comparison. If anyone has access to JSTOR or other ways to get this paper, let me know. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 09:03 PM |
| 4 | What brings you to this sub?The girl I loved snubbed me and instead, took up with a homeless junkie and became a homeless junkie herself. I decided I was tragically mistaken about women. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | I got a cognitive dissonance (How to promote the pleasure of uncertainty in romantic attraction.)this article is opposite of article from the same site posted hours ago here.That article seems completely consistent with regular PUA theories and practices. What was the other article you saw that was so opposite? I'd like to compare. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Is it ok for a 33 year old guy to hit on a 21 year old girl?Many younger women seek out older men. You have something to offer them that men their age do not: maturity, life experience, and stability. Many women can even think you are out of their league, and they may feel like a piece of meat and all they can offer you is their young body. So make sure she knows she has a place in your life aside from your bed. BUT Ford and Fischer was definitely creepy. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok for a 33 year old guy to hit on a 21 year old girl?Fictional TV characters are not useful as models for real world behavior. And besides, that character was an anti-hero. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I seek out therapy ?Okay.. anyone next in line to be the 4th person banned in this thread? | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Men that have been with significantly older women, what are some differences you've noticed to dating women your own age?My first long term GF was about 40 when I was 23. These women know what they want. They don't want to play games. | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Wherr to have sex while both living with parents?In the butt, Bob. | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 03:47 PM |
| – | Should I seek out therapy ?I admonish people to act in a civil manner in this post. I have already banned two people for making hostile remarks. Don't become number three. | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Should I seek out therapy ?Therapy couldn't hurt. There are some types of self-therapy, you can apply the techniques of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to stop intrusive thoughts. But it takes some practice. One book often recommended in seddit is "Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy" by David D Burns. Well it was new in 1980, now CBT is a common form of therapy. But more specifically to your example of the woman eyeing you in the pizza joint giving you a look, that's what we call an Approach Invitation. She is already attrac… | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain?I already told you, zero tolerance for LMS trolling. | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 02:19 AM |
| 2 | How to make her leave you?He transferred to a Syrian children's hospital to treat chemical weapons victims. I'm sure he'll be back in town soon. | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How to make her leave you?Doesn't even have to be a real friend. "Hey you ought to meet a friend of mine, you'd like him. John is a great guy, right now he's in Cambodia, working at an orphanage for Médecins Sans Frontières, but I'll introduce you when he gets back." | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any good openers to use in public transport?(trains and buses)Mind the gap. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Seduction/Pickup villainized the mainstreamExactly. If a man wrote a lengthy article that condemned women for how they make their sexual choices, they'd call it slut shaming. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Seduction/Pickup villainized the mainstreamLet them attack the obvious idiots. Then we can fly under the radar, while their attention is focused elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Guys, how can you do this?We don't objectify women, we objectify behaviors so we can discuss and analyze them. But I'm going to stop there, further analysis of your comments is futile. You have built a giant straw man, a misperception of what we do, in order to attack it. Get real. What we do is pretty basic. Lots of people have difficulty understanding social signals from the opposite sex, and don't understand they are giving off signals themselves. One of our primary goals is to help people become more sensitive to the… | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How to make her leave you?Do't be an asshole. Introduce her to one of your friends. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Should you express boredom if someone is boring you?If you're bored, you're boring. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Any cool film with great men?Your adulation for fictional characters is what screws up your game. Hollywood fantasies are unsuitable for role models. Go read a book. I recommend "The Great Gatsby." No, don't watch the films. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Any cool film with great men?I particularly recommend avoiding Scientologists as role models. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Social Dynamics with KidsLet me give you a piece of advice that will reduce the stress in your life and make you a happier person. Do not go on the internet and express your offense on behalf of a group of people, especially a group you belong to. You will whip yourself into a frenzy and it will do nobody any good, especially yourself. This applies no matter how righteous your anger is. Additionally, it would be best not to make personal attacks that make stern judgements on others, because you feel they have made judge… | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Good looking African-American guy. AMAThey're trolls who get banned from seddit. They always protest their innocence. Like you did. I warned you. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 04:09 AM |
| – | Trajan’s Basics in Attracting Women and Finding HappinessDude. Are you fucking nuts? Trajan was a Roman conqueror who enslaved half a million people. You should pick a less controversial nickname like George Wallace. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Openers for unique situationsAlas no, I must have heard that many years ago. Wygant took down a lot of stuff that used to be on YouTube, it may have been in one of those talks. But this sort of story is one of the reasons why I like Wygant. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Openers for unique situationsYou remind me of a story from David Wygant. He is coaching a clueless AFC so he takes him to lunch at Whole Foods and says watch what he does. They get in line at the deli counter behind a woman and Wygant asks her, "hey is the tunafish any good here?" and strikes up a conversation. Then they get their food and eject. Later they're at a mall and Wygant is pumping up the student to do some approaches. The AFC says "I know JUST what to do!" and then he walks up to a woman and opens "hey I know thi… | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Good looking African-American guy. AMAThe LMS trolls are banned from seddit. Be careful or you will join them. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Social Dynamics with KidsI mean very specifically, do not touch kids in any way that could be misinterpreted as sexual. You are already massaging them, you're 2/3 of your way to a prison sentence already. The parents and others in your circle may understand, but if a stranger shows up, they might be less understanding of what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 03:40 AM |
| 17 | Got Rejected - Told her how to better reject in the futureYou really taught her a lesson. You taught her that you're an asshole. Women have far more experience rejecting guys than you do. | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Social Dynamics with KidsOh god keep your hands off the kids. If they want a massage, do it with one fingertip at arm's length. I'm serious. Make it a joke that clearly shows any witness that you are establishing clear boundaries, I suggest you touch them once (fingertip, arm's length) and then say "all done!" Kids love me because I talk to them like adults, no matter what age they are. Kids are used to being talked down to, they like someone who is on the level. Too bad I don't like kids. Anyway, I tell you that story … | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I have great experiences with white girls but their whitewashed ethnic friends are a pain in the ass!You first. It is possible to discuss race without being racist, but you obviously don't understand how that's done. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Does it count as double texting if your last text was a statement and not a question?Semantic discontinuity is inversely proportional to temporal displacement. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Why the "hope for everyone" posts are misleadingIt's called Confirmation Bias. You are looking for reasons to justify your failure. And you will find them. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Survey I made on seduction, pick-up and dating. Would be greatly appreciated if you could fill it out !Surveys are prohibited in seddit. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Estimate your sexual value & general seduction success probabilityKeep that shit over in redpill. No trolling in seddit. | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Couldn't get hard/r/sex FAQ | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Im not a fan of bars and clubs/r/world | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 08:08 PM |
| 0 | How do you pull THIS girl (case study 1: Sandy)How to pull this girl: Edit the script so you get the girl. Because this is a fictional character and it has no relevance to real life. | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 01:39 PM |
| 1 | how do I know when the moment has passed?You know that moment when you wondered if you should make a move? That was when the moment had already passed. | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | It's time to defeat the last thing that prevents me from having sex. Performance anxiety. But how?/r/sex FAQ | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Do you have an "imaginary audience" that is always following you around and judging you? This feeling that we are always being watched can become a great source of social anxiety and insecurity.I saw what you did. | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 10:52 PM |
| 6 | A credit to SedditThis is a core function of seddit. Many guys have never discussed their personal or sexual issues with anyone. They don't even know how to talk about it. Our community gives a basic framework and vocabulary for discussion, and a place to discuss these issues in a (relatively) safe public forum. Note that our framework does NOT include some of the core philosophies of other, more troublesome, communities. In fact, as a moderator, I serve to some degree as a firewall to prevent those groups from c… | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Should I give up game for now!Mystery had a saying, "She's not a bitch, she's just being a bitch to you." That's because of you, not her. | /r/seduction | 31/05/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Where to Find Documentation That Women Possess More Sex Signals than Men?I believe you can find the information you want here. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 10:20 PM |
| 3 | What Does it Mean to Be a Man?Why can't a woman be more like a man? | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 09:06 PM |
| 2 | QuestionField tested: "Hands off the merchandise." | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Have times changed or is it just me?Welcome to the world of adults. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report] My date didn't go in the direction I expected; let's dissect why"Well, this was a cool interaction. Now let's amplify it by holding hands." You made that a bit awkward. In the future, when you start walking, just silently hold out your bent elbow, almost all women will link arms. It is a universal gesture that you are "escorting" her. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | RSD COACHING, $2500, INVEST OR NOT?Wax on, wax off. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How To Do A High-Status Walk (And What It Does)Just watch this instead. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | RSD COACHING, $2500, INVEST OR NOT?If you are the kind of person who could spend $2500 and as a worst case, not regret it if you got nothing in return, then definitely spend it. If you have more realistic ideas, it's maybe 50/50. Are you really ready? Are you really going to do the work? If not, it will be a waste of money. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Which would be more attractive to women?Which would you rather fight, a Rhianna size duck, or a hundred duck sized Rhiannas? | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 07:43 PM |
| 8 | I have every quality a guy that fucks has but I don’t fuckOops, did I say I wanted a pony? I meant, I want a MIG 29. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 02:50 AM |
| 2 | How do you avoid the Friend Zone?Lately I have been thinking more about 60 Years of Challenge, which says you start with covert sexual tension, until it's clear that both of you are feeling it, then you escalate to overt sexual tension. Yeah, you can't do this without comfort. You also can't do it without some discomfort due to tension. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 02:44 AM |
| 7 | How do you avoid the Friend Zone?Well you can't entirely avoid comfort at first. She has to be just comfortable enough to not run away thinking you are a danger to her. But when you approach someone, for a minute, you get attraction just because she is trying to figure out what this new person is about. And again, this is a pua theory, it's not an inflexible rule. There is a lot of improvisation required, and the stages all tend to blur a bit, in actual practice. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 01:11 AM |
| 86 | I have every quality a guy that fucks has but I don’t fuckYou believe you have all the qualities of a guy that fucks. But in reality, you have none of the qualities of a guy that fucks. If you did have those qualities, you would fuck. I want to lose my virginity before I turn 19 I want a pony. You are going to have to learn how to establish an emotional connection with women. There is no shame in not knowing how to do this, that's why all of us are here, trying to learn it. But to do this, you will need to get out of your comfort zone, make lots of emb… | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 11:29 PM |
| 35 | How do you avoid the Friend Zone?You put yourself in the friend zone by trying to establish comfort before attraction. She is more interested in you as a friend because that's what you are presenting her. Most guys try to get a woman to be comfortable with him. But creating attraction is taking a risk and sexual tension is uncomfortable to some degree. Create attraction first. You can be friends later. | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 10:03 PM |
| 2 | U.K.) did hear girls mock me here or hitting on me?We're coming for you. Watch your back. | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on how to bang chicks in the Philippines as a white guy?Discussion of sex tourism is prohibited on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | How in the world do you pull in a Sausage fest?You don't have to be the smoothest guy in the room. You just need to be better than average, which I assure you is not very difficult. The other horrible guys will make you look great in comparison. Go around to introduce yourself to every woman, then quickly move on. Then after all the crude guys have hit on her for a while, you can swoop in and save her from them. | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 02:18 PM |
| 2 | What do you do or say if she ignore your approach?If your opener doesn't work, switch to another one and try again. | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How to have a Threesome on Tinder (Detailed breakdown from Start to Finish)Find two girls that want a threesome. ???? Profit! | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Some sexual health questions/r/sex | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 11:41 PM |
| 50 | Girls say "You're weird" to my face and/or tell my wings "your friend is weird"?My verbal game is very self-amusey That is your problem right there. "Self-amusement" is one of the most frequently misused concepts I see in seddit. Generally this is used by guys doing something antisocial, they defend themselves and say "oh I was just amusing myself with no regard for what people think." Here's what that looks like. My suggestion is to not be so weird and try to become more sensitive to other people's feelings. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 11:26 PM |
| 4 | How are you dealing with the fact that not everyone will like you?The great is the enemy of the good. You're good enough. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 10:22 PM |
| 7 | How does an older man [50] attract younger womenMany younger women want an older guy. They are tired of men in their age group because they lack the maturity and life experience you have. Some younger women are even intimidated by older men, they may think you are out of their league. So you have to help her see that she has a place in your life, not just in your bed. The last two women I dated were about 15 years younger than me. So I know it can be done. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet women/r/world | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Do you usually go for girls that are a lot fitter than yourself?Women have social pressure to look good for men. Men have no similar social pressure to look good. I live in a university community and I have noticed the rise of girljocks after Title IX equalized funding for collegiate sports. The women are all thin and athletic. The men are usually fat football slobs. Hooray for Title IX. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 07:54 PM |
| -5 | I have only male "friends"Male friends are a waste of time at best, active competition at worst. Focus on women friends. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | "Can I help you find anything?"No, this is the part where I have to explain how reddit works, and that users never see their comments were removed, the user is only person that sees them (other than moderators). This is the part where I explain that I've removed five of your snotty comments just this week. This is the part where I make you sit in the Naughty Chair for 30 days so you can consider how your actions are making seddit a worse place for other users. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 04:50 PM |
| -1 | Plates starting to act upThey are bad girls. They deserve a spanking. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Kill the science/intellectual talkThis is usually caused by a failure to escalate and express sexual intent. Many guys get caught in conversation and do nothing to move the seduction forward. They feel like they are getting good feedback from the conversation alone, and try to keep that going. But you are trying to get laid, not trying to get a good conversation. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Can you mix pickup models?Yes you can. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 03:19 PM |
| 1 | "Can I help you find anything?"Your history of extremely nonclever remarks that you make, thinking they are clever. Remarks so bad that I have to remove them before they hijack threads. I often deal with guys who rush to make "clever" remarks. We have a word for that, "tryhard." It is just one more reason you are bad with girls. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Men, who are sexually submissive rule the world.MGTOWs, who are trolls, rule nothing. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Situational QuestionsThat's not how this works. There is no formula for this. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 03:26 AM |
| 4 | "Can I help you find anything?"You should stop trying to be clever. You're not clever. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 12:44 AM |
| 6 | [QUESTION] How to deal with the "Mirror Effect" being applied on you?Ask them to repeat what they said. Act like you didn't hear it and get them to repeat it. But DO NOT lean in like you are trying to hear them, make them work harder to get it across to you. It lowers their value rapidly. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 12:41 AM |
| 6 | What's a good way to avoid questions regarding my work/occupation?This is a classic shit test. Field tested by me: "I drive a garbage truck." This works best if you are dressed up and don't look like you actually drive a garbage truck. | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How can you not use women just for sex?How? By treating them as human beings. | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet certain types of women?Well that's 60's system, I'd look into it a little more comprehensively before adapting bits of it. It's out there, I've seen some good bits on Youtube. I wrote a bit about it myself, not sure if the links are still active. https://redd.it/2is9ej | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | ABC NEWS ARTICLE- Inside Facebook groups where nude images of women are shared in 'lay reports'This is why "trophy pics" are prohibited in seddit. They serve no purpose except to feed the ego of the trophy hunter. | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How is this guy so good at picking up girls (anything4views)That is a matter of interpretation. The women get "paid" in a sense, they want some of his youtube fame to rub off on them. But it doesn't matter, that channel will never appear in seddit again, he's not getting any traffic from here. | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I thought you were mine"I My Me Mine | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong I can't get dates?Banned bot. Banned OP. | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 03:45 AM |
| 6 | Negs are frowned upon but what is the alternative?Prototypes Neg: Nice nails, are they real? Disqualifier: You and I could never get along, we're too much alike. | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Ask a girl I like for favors?There's a concept called "compliance momentum." Each request and compliance creates positive momentum towards a larger request. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm rich and goodlooking and it's hard to maintain a relationshipI'm rich and goodlooking | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Where to meet certain types of women?There is nothing wrong with socializing at networking events. Consider it "warm approach." You already have something in common, you have similar interests. Just don't be too blatant, make it an opportunity for followup outside the network. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 04:23 PM |
| -29 | Ask a girl I like for favors?My example is understood by most people with the least bit of familiarity with pickup principles and practices. But thank you for telling the senior moderator how to do his job. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Ask a girl I like for favors?I am giving you an example of what women do, it's considered a shit test. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 01:11 PM |
| 11 | Ask a girl I like for favors?Ask her to hold your purse while you go to the restroom. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Biggest sticky point at the moment- I'm just fucking weird.You're not weird, you're just desocialized. You can improve that with more experience with social situations. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Can Someone Promise MeSomeone can promise you: yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How can you do quick approaches when you're on your way somewhere?I was going to give a detailed answer and then I saw it was you. Your endless list of simple questions are annoying the moderators. You need to read more and ask fewer questions. Spend the next couple of weeks reading without commenting. | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How To Meet Women While Traveling - FULL Travel Dating GuideDiscussion of sex tourism is prohibited on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Stop From Only Thinking About Sex?Castration. | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Best way to quickly learn downtalk?Perhaps he means the opposite of "uptalking" which is where people end every sentence with a rising tone that makes it sound like a question. Also known as a "high rising terminal." I used to post a link to a Youtube video by RSD Tim, I think it was from Foundations but alas it was taken down. It showed how a rising tone sounded rapport seeking and even fawning, while a downward tone at the end of a sentence was rapport breaking, and is preferable because it doesn't sound like you're sucking up … | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 12:57 AM |
| 3 | U.K.) virgin. Is it my looks?No, I delete his posts. So do the moderators of /sex, /amiugly, and at least a dozen other subreddits. This guy has a mental illness, he does this regularly, like clockwork, when he stops taking his meds. Don't interact with him. We know who he is and where he lives. He is a danger to people around him in real life. If you antagonize him, he will probably lash out at people around him with violence. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Why is this sub so innactive?It may seem inactive because the moderators remove shitposts like yours. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 06:51 PM |
| 3 | "Show your interest but don't make it too obvious?"Look into the classic Bait Hook Reel Release routine. It suggests you follow your IOI (indicator of interest) with an IOD (indicator of disinterest). That establishes you are interested, but not TOO interested. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Wind needed in ThailandDiscussion of sex tourism is prohibited on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 06:47 PM |
| 3 | What habits do you guys have to improve physical/mental health, thus your game?Add a minimum of 1000IU of Vitamin D3, unless you live in the tropics, or work outdoors in the sun every day. I tested deficient and my doctor made me take 5000IU for about a year. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 05:39 AM |
| 1 | daygame infield how to game a two setWhat it is. To how. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 05:35 AM |
| 1 | A Scholarly Article On Why Seduction is Bad. Bad! Leave a comment.That is definitely not a "scholarly article," it's a press release by the author. We can wait for the real book, if it is ever published. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 05:33 AM |
| 1 | World Cup 2018 RussiaDiscussion of sex tourism is prohibited on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 05:31 AM |
| 2 | If there's an attractive woman around, I start feeling like she thinks that I am creepy. How can I get over this feeling?Say hello or at least nod and acknowledge her existence. Talk to her and find out if she thinks you're creepy. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Where Would You Go If You Had The Urge To Make Out/Have Sex On A Weekday? I Live In A Big City.Happy hour in business district. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I really hate this whole "Game" aspect behind seductionThe Game | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Study reveals how you think of the outcome of movie “500 days of summer” gives insight into your dating lifeYour survey is incomplete, you forgot to ask the men if they prefer strawberry or chocolate. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Study reveals how you think of the outcome of movie “500 days of summer” gives insight into your dating lifeApparently your PhD program has very low standards. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | NYTimes: Why You Should Stop Being So Hard on YourselfAs always, you can bypass the NYTimes paywall by installing Adblock Plus in your browser, or opening the page in Private Mode. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Stand out!!BE SOMEBODY! | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 11:15 AM |
| 1 | I turned down a girl who wanted to fuck meThe in crowd | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Building your self esteem, by doing whatever you want to do in that exact momentNote to sedditors: the annoying misspellingbot is now banned. I also banned factorialbot. If you see any other stupid bots, please contact me directly, and immediately. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 12:29 AM |
| 12 | ex texted me out of the blueRemind yourself why she is your ex. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 03:53 PM |
| 20 | Is it worth cold approaching if you don’t have a job?There are homeless people having more sex than you. Get busy. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Why can't I tell her I love herYes, if you let your feelings build up to the bursting point, things are bound to go wrong. Try a gradual escalation of intimacy, rather than a "big move." | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Why can't I tell her I love herI don't care how your comment was meant. Don't give plausible but dumb advice to people who might take it, even as a joke. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Why can't I tell her I love herDump all of your feelings out. That's how you ruin everything. If you "blurt out your feelings," the woman will feel pressured. Even if she has feelings for you, she will be defensive and reject you, just as a natural reflex. Here is an actual PUA technique that may give a better model of behavior. Her: Do you love me? Him: No, I hate you [smirk, hugs her] | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Always wear suits!!!A person who "just has to get by" is not a high quality person. Their job is only a symptom. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 11:29 AM |
| -5 | Always wear suits!!!Raise your standards. Women who work at Walmart are the definition of no class. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 12:47 AM |
| 7 | Always wear suits!!!LOL cheap suit. They can attract Walmart girls, but not anyone with real class. Cheap suit screams no class to anyone who has class. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Trying to create a social life with girls in it in Australian universities and goddamn is it hard. How can I do it?In Australia, there is one universal solution to all problems: drink more beer. | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to know if she’s ‘the one’ just after the first date?No | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | What are the best things I can do to get laid more often?Try | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 12:55 AM |
| 12 | So Many Missed Opportunities With WomenWhen I Write the Book - Nick Lowe Now I can remember like it was only yesterday Love was young and foolish like a little child at play But oh how lovers change, I never dreamed how easily For now I'm just a shadow of the boy I used to be And when I write the book about my love It will be about a man who's torn in half About his hopes and ambitions wasted through the years The pain will be written on every page in tears When I write the book about my love I was a fool to myself when I kept on run… | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 12:35 AM |
| 2 | “Oh that place is trashy”Her: Oh that place is trashy. Him: So you know the place. See you there at 7. | /r/seduction | 19/05/18 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Got an LJBF. I think she’d be an awesome friend, and it seems she genuinely values me as a friend, but I also think I would end up pining after her."I have too many friends already." Then stay away so you don't become an orbiter. | /r/seduction | 19/05/18 06:31 PM |
| 11 | What are the modifiable determinants of attraction?Modifiable properties of determinants: Switching two rows or columns changes the sign. Scalars can be factored out from rows and columns. Multiples of rows and columns can be added together without changing the determinant's value. Scalar multiplication of a row by a constant c multiplies the determinant by c. A determinant with a row or column of zeros has value 0. Any determinant with two rows or columns equal has value 0. | /r/seduction | 19/05/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Finished university, where can I meet women now?/r/world | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Attitude: Life is 10% what happens and 90% how I react to it.Attitude. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Attitude: Life is 10% what happens and 90% how I react to it.Glurge. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Is it truly impossible to win, or am I doing something wrong?Dude you can't be burned out, you're not even really dating yet. None of the stuff you do in high school matters. Just get some practice flirting and getting rejected by immature girls, it will be great practice for the days when you're 25 and can get lots of girls easily. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | I keep getting turned down, I ask girls to go out on a date and I always get tirned down... Give me some pointers pleaseRead the links in the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Shit test - if girl says "If only I was that cute". How do you reply to that?Field tested: Her: If only I was that sexy.. Him: She's not my type, I only like chubby girls like that one [point at any random skinny girl] | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Going out tonight for my birthday, wish me luckhttps://www.amazon.com/Gillette-Disposable-Sensitive-Razors-Blades/dp/B001JQLNH8/ | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Going out tonight for my birthday, wish me luckLast time I was out on my birthday, I told the bartender that this bar traditionally gives one shot upon your birthday, that's today and here's my ID so you can check. Took a little wrangling but he gave me a shot. It was the worst rotgut whiskey I ever had. Try it, I bet you can convince a bartender this "tradition" exists. If it works, tip well. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Going out tonight for my birthday, wish me luckEveryone knows Taurus people are the best lovers. Well if they don't know YET, they will soon. Uranus just moved from Aries into Taurus, so expect the unexpected for about the next few months intensely, and then generally until 2026. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Going out tonight for my birthday, wish me luckThat's cleanshaven? You need to stand a little closer to the razor. Anyway it's my birthday tomorrow too. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Random notes from my Pua notebookMake moves on her high points. Let's make that a little clearer. I call this "elevate and escalate." Women are generally more accepting of escalation when their mood is elevated. Escalate when she's happy and having fun. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | South AmericaDiscussion of sex tourism is prohibited on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Is Simple Pickup Fake? (did Jason have game?)It could be the faked videos. It could be the abuse of seddit for marketing stunts. It could be the antisocial pranks. It could be all of the above. Or it could just be because they're fucking idiots and an embarrassment to the community. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 03:17 AM |
| 2 | How to push through inexperience ?CDC statistics show about 5% virginity at age 25. There is suspicion that this number is low. Virginity at your age not common, but it isn't exactly rare. You might enjoy this article from The Atlantic: On 'Late'-In-Life Virginity Loss. Survey respondents who lost their virginities at 20 or older reported having more satisfying romantic relationships than respondents who lost their virginities younger than 20. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | help! i’m a college girl. how do i meet men?Consider that most serious relationships started as casual. But don't push too hard on a guy, they can be scared off by being clingy or dependent. One of our principles here is to learn more about the signals you're seeing from a guy and also signals you're giving. Don't become too self-conscious, but some degree of self-awareness is important. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | This was good right? (From an introverted guy who's trying to push himself through the door of relationships)You should watch the movie American Graffiti. Much of the plot revolves around a few glances from a beautiful woman in a car. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | help! i’m a college girl. how do i meet men?Do some background research first. Many colleges have an imbalance between men and women, I've heard of colleges being as much as 70/30 men/women. Start by knowing how scarce men are on campus. I have heard of many cases when good guys are so scarce that most of them have several girlfriends, and the women are all OK with sharing because they know it's the only way to have a boyfriend at all. Then reassess your strategy. One of the reasons we date various guys is so that we learn what we really … | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Is Simple Pickup Fake? (did Jason have game?)Simple Pickup is banned from seddit. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 02:30 PM |
| 2 | The girl i like called me 'bro', i told her that i don't like being called that way.Dude. You're a bro. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here pick up a nurse before? I went for it today and want an evaluation from you guysJust be direct, ask her "hey baby make a decision to throw away your marriage and career by sleeping with a patient!" | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to give up my nerdy interests (Classical music, Weird al, Beatles T-Shirts, Community Theatre, playing the ukulele) in order to be sexually desirable to attractive women?It is time to put away childish things. Give up weird al, beatles shirts, and ukelele. Take up Al Gore, Zegna shirts, and guitar. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Would anyone here know where I could find academic-type statistics on pickup/PUA/seduction? (For a University assignment)Get on JSTOR and look for seduction in journals of evolutionary psychology. I've seen several papers with statistics. You can find them yourself. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How to pull off the 'lonely boy' schtick?Trolling subreddits with disposable accounts is also a violation of the Reddit TOS. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Voice gets higher as the day progresses?He's banned from seddit due to specific and general idiocy. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Voice gets higher as the day progresses?Drink more water. Relax. Never take advice from Eliot Hulse. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 04:47 PM |
| 2 | The 8 different types of womenWell to some extent, like all the old school pickup systems, they have a big sales pitch. DiCarlo says this system is so powerful, you have to be careful not to make every woman addicted to you. Yeah right. But there are some important principles in there that are worth learning. It has a set of strategies for the 8 types, but the book also talks about how to probe a woman to determine which type she is. As long as you know the basic pairs (tester/investor etc.) then you can get a woman to respo… | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is /r/seduction really for "Intermediate/Advanced" seducers?It doesn't take much effort to post just a few short comments that will start a great discussion. The positive contribution from even one small high-quality post, outweighs a hundred shitposts. Some guys think they need a Grand Unified Theory of Pickup and have to explain it all, just to explain a few ideas. Well that is the overall background material, just assume we have learned a few bits of that structure and every bit of info helps fill in the big picture. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | The 8 different types of womenThat is like a Justifier strategy. "Well it didn't count anyway, it wasn't like I was cheating on my boyfriend. I just had a few drinks and it just happened and it was just sex, it didn't really count." One related idea I heard: when you are trying to seduce a woman, she is looking for reasons she shouldn't have sex. After she has sex, she's looking for reasons why it was a good idea to have sex with you. She is looking for reasons to have sex with you again. Help her with that. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 02:39 PM |
| 2 | The 8 different types of womenThe idea of this system is that each woman responds to a specific strategy. I'm reading the section on Justifiers/Deniers right now. It talks about how all women have bad experiences with guys when they feel like they have no control over sex. So they deal with traumas by becoming either a Justifier or Denier. The Justifier tries to convince herself that sex is no big deal, so her past sexual traumas are no big deal. Justifiers tend to have a low barrier to sexual activity. But the Denier tries … | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is /r/seduction really for "Intermediate/Advanced" seducers?Could you give some examples of threads like that? Because that sounds nebulous as fuck. OK that's a legit question. There's an interesting thread going on right now about Pandora's Box by Vin DiCarlo. That is definitely advanced material. I think what I'm really trying to say is that the info is out there if you seek it and show that you're going to some effort to learn it yourself, so that people don't have to go through the basics again. You have to know some minimal set of ideas that are our… | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 02:17 PM |
| 6 | The 8 different types of womenYes, that is the core of Pandora's Box by Vin DiCarlo. It's a little more complex than the IACD IADC AICD stuff. The original system is fairly advanced material. For example, Testers are seeking qualities in a man, not the man. Her ideals are so unrealistic she will never find all her desired qualities in one man. So Testers will often have orbiters, she is satisfied by an aggregation of qualities in her orbiters, collectively they have all the qualities she wants. Investers usually find horribl… | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 11:44 PM |
| 0 | [Meta] Is /r/seduction really for "Intermediate/Advanced" seducers?What do you expect? All the advanced knowledge you need, right as you need it, in exactly the way you need it? Generally you have to demonstrate you have gone to some effort to learn and understand the basics. Then you will have the ability to make posts or ask questions that will connect with the shared knowledge of this community. This will get a better response than complaining. | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Did my first approach today. Failed :(This is actually the first step in the old book "The Rules Of The Game." It's called "Operation Smalltalk" and it's designed for people who have crushing approach anxiety. The task is to talk to any 5 people, just smalltalk, stuff like what time is it, nice weather isn't it, etc. Doesn't even have to be women, just strangers. So consider that approach as an exercise. The woman didn't reject you, she rejected your approach. You can learn better approaches with practice. Now go do a thousand more … | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Keep your shoulders back and your eyes calm and focused.Keep your chin up. Suck your gut in. Part your hair straight. Get a close shave. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 08:16 PM |
| 8 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.Yeah I have. I have heard about every imaginable way to communicate what we are really doing, and convince people that we are not what they think we are. They have all basically failed, and even reinforced peoples' preconceptions. I have come to believe that people are entitled to their opinions, even inaccurate ones, and in this case they can focus their attention on inept PUAs while those of us with more skills can fly under the radar. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How fast do you guys burn through venues when outThat's not quite what I meant. I mean when you are new and inexperienced, you tend to burn through sets, you can easily do 30 or more sets in an evening. But as you gain experience over the weeks and months, you should be able to focus on fewer, better sets, because you're not ejecting too early, and you're being more selective about what women you're chatting up. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 08:01 PM |
| 3 | How fast do you guys burn through venues when outIf you're "burning through venues" then you're doing it wrong. At first, you should do lots of short sets. But as you gain experience, you should focus on fewer sets with longer interactions. You will start to learn what sets are going nowhere, so you can focus your attention on better prospects. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 07:10 PM |
| 29 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.You are only creating drama by mentioning seddit in other groups. People are unwilling to change their preconceptions of what we do. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 07:08 PM |
| 0 | I've made a short survey studying the level of experience and the rate of success in seduction of /r/seduction usersThe Moderators disapprove of surveys, and particularly this sort of survey. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Girl re-offered to hang out next week when asked to make plans; is that a subtle form of rejection?If she suggests an alternate date, she isn't just blowing you off. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | For some reason, still stuck on that insecurity that she has been with other experienced guys than me.Every girl used to be some other guy's girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 12:42 PM |
| 12 | If she's interested, she will make it easyEven if she is attracted, she won't necessarily make it easy. She might even be a challenge. But she is secretly hoping you seduce her successfully. She will even help you through the awkward bits. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | How can I fix my curved penis naturally?/r/sex | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | A message for all young guys out there, life does not end or suck after college.School's Out | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Ways to seduce my girl when we’re chilling watching netflix in my bed?Tell her to wear something comfortable, it's pajama night. | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | r/seduction discord Update and apologieThe Moderators do not condone outside resources using the seddit name, made without consulting the Moderators first. This goes double for discord, we're not doing discord. | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Relationship Mindfuck - Insecure girlfriendLOL for some reason this reminds me of one of Jeffy's stories of Chess Club. Chessie said she wanted sleep around so Jeffy says OK but women only. They argue more, she says what if she slept with other guys? Jeffy says, "OK then I'll sleep with other guys too." Finally he says, "you're right, we should break up, you wouldn't bring me the right kind of women." So they agreed to hunt for women together. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Lube SuggestionsAstroglide is fairly cheap and widely available. I've seen it in Walmart and local grocery stores. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 12:25 PM |
| 3 | List of exercises?Try these exercises. | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 09:49 PM |
| 7 | Where are the best places to meet women for hookups and when should you go there?/r/world | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Dark circlesHeroin Chic is so 90s. | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Due to a change in relationship status, I had to move back in with my mom. How do I reliably get girls to bring me back to their place?Your mom would probably be glad to get you out of the house for a few hours of dating. And she would never say anything but I'm sure she would be amused if you had a woman in your bed. Or.. you're saving money aren't you? Go to a hotel. | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 05:32 PM |
| 7 | Should I really bring a girl into my world of miseryOkay.. that was a nice little backstory. Now change the backstory. "I basically fucked up the beginning of my life. But once I recognized the right direction, and took action towards achieving it, the early struggles just made my victory all the sweeter." Mystery liked doing things in threes. One of the basics was the three areas of your life: health, wealth, and love. Advancement (or weakness) in any one area, affects the others. Try to take just a few positive actions and develop yourself, and… | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | *****YOUTUBE UPDATE***** YOUTUBE terminated by channel without warning for posting video about Kratom (which is legal in the UK) and ironically has nothing to do with my business which is focused on Daygame & Dating. Please subscribe to my new channel - thankyou for all your support. TUSKDon't bring those problems into seddit. We prohibit peddling of pharmaceuticals and supplements due to extreme spamming by sketchy online vendors. You don't want to be associated with this topic due to possible backlash, as you have unfortunately discovered. | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 02:38 PM |
| -4 | Dating is like playing Minesweeper.I have no idea why you think those boards are unsolvable, but this isn't the time or place for a lesson on game theory. Go back to the original metaphor. Or else just forget it. | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 12:46 AM |
| -2 | Dating is like playing Minesweeper.you must not be very good at understanding metaphors, if you think I'm talking about Minesweeper. Although in one regard, I am talking about Minesweeper. | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 12:34 AM |
| -2 | Dating is like playing Minesweeper.What? I see the next moves, they're solvable. Oh well, we don't have that board so there's no way to prove it. | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 12:15 AM |
| -1 | Dating is like playing Minesweeper.At some point, the mines in the grid get placed in such a way that you have no other choice but to guess where the mine is because you lack information. And that is where you guess and most probably lose, game over. I don't think this is right. Once you get a few squares open, there is almost always enough information to find a safe next move. In fact, most of the time, the next moves are determinate. You might give up if you don't see the pattern, but the info is almost always completely availa… | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Random complimented my shirt.I don't recall. It's so old, lots of that stuff blurs together. | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | If I am moving to the US, am I going to lose my sexy french accent?Je ne sais pas. | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Height insecurity preventing me from approaching girls and ruining confidence, help appreciated.It's not your job to declare rule violations, that is the moderator's job. You are not a moderator. It's not your place to sneer at other peoples' problems. What do you want them to do, go to some fringe site at the radical extremes? I am removing this thread, largely because you derailed it into a discussion of whether the post is appropriate. It is not always necessary to express your criticism, sometimes it's better to just move on and expend your energies on something positive. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Virgin, no erection at first try, should I go meds?It's first time nerves. Mostly what you're feeling is sexual tension and arousal. But it can be overwhelming for your first time. Sometimes it takes a few attempts with a new partner (or your first partner) before you are comfortable enough with her to not be nervous. But if she is attracted to you, she will try to help you through any awkwardness or nervousness. She doesn't get what she wants unless you both get what you want. So you must let her help, lot of the nerves is sexual tension and ar… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 10:05 PM |
| 10 | Saw a girl I liked at a festival that REALLY stood out to me for some reason ...i had a chance to talk to her and didn't do it. Super bummed this entire following week now.Tyler had a whole lecture about "every failure is a brick in your castle." | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 03:48 PM |
| 2 | If I'm 35, is trial and error the only way forward?Yeah but he's interested in younger women. And for him, plenty of women are just a little bit younger and tired of playing games. But then, there are plenty of young women who like playing games. Maybe it's time for them to grow up, if you show them am easier way to get what you both want. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | If I'm 35, is trial and error the only way forward?Other guys learned from trial and error. You can learn from them. That's what we do here in seddit. Many younger women like older guys. They have things to offer that young guys don't: life experience and a more sophisticated lifestyle. This actually intimidates some women, she can feel like you are out of her league. She may feel like she has nothing to offer you except her young body, which can make her feel like a piece of meat. So you have to show her that she has a place in your life aside … | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 01:23 PM |
| 10 | Told date I have no abundanceTold date I have no abundance Told date I have toenail fungus. Dude why are you bleeding your insecurities on a woman you hardly know yet? | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 01:09 PM |
| 9 | Random complimented my shirt.Her: I like your fuzzy hat and goggles. Him: No you don't, you're just attracted to me. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Is fighting over a girl worth it?No. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 03:53 AM |
| -1 | Fellas, where do you meet women?/r/world | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 03:52 AM |
| 1 | I'm a beginner and I just got braces on my teeth. Help me with openers to make it less awkward that I have braces.Own it. Smile. Just think how many women had braces at one time, they will sympathize. | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Got rejected and didn't feel like shit.She shot you down. Did you die? Any major injuries, dismemberment, etc? | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 01:25 AM |
| 4 | As a professor, how do I approach a former student?There is an ethics problem, you still are in a position of power over her. She wants your professional letter of recommendation. If you write her a good recommendation BEFORE you try to get intimate, you may be perceived as trying to win her favor. If you write it AFTER you get intimate, it seems like she is expecting a quid pro quo. Now neither case is likely to have nefarious intentions, but it might look unethical. And you don't want to be in a position of having to explain why it isn't uneth… | /r/seduction | 21/04/18 12:19 AM |
| 3 | How I pulled blonde HB10 copying RSD Julien Game - stacking breaking rapportsThat sounds like the standard RSD theory they have taught forever, I think it's in The Blueprint. Rapport seeking vs rapport breaking is one of their best doctrines and explains how to use the Comfort stage more effectively. There is a video up on Youtube somewhere snipped from The Blueprint, but I couldn't find it, it was probably taken down. It has one of the early RSD guys, I think it's Tim, he has a thick Australian accent. But he demonstrates using an ascending tone and a descending tone wh… | /r/seduction | 21/04/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I used this toy and now I have an internal ache.. do I have cancer?This message gave me cancer. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to find women who just want to talk?Find some event or social club with a topic you might have in common with interesting people who want to chat. For example, if you like foreign movies, go find an international cinema club. Book club, meetup.com events, etc. Use a situation that draws the kind of women you're looking for. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Shit tests vs actual questionsYeah I was just editing my post when you replied. Go reread my comment. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Shit tests vs actual questionsI've seen this sub label the question, "what do you do for a living?" a shit test. I think that would generally be classified as a "job interview question." These are the boring type of questions that boring guys ask women over and over. If you mean, questions girls ask guys, I wouldn't call that a shit test either. It might be more of a qualification test, she's trying to get you to qualify yourself to her. You could skillfully DHV or clumsily boast. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Everyone I want is taken[facepalm] | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How can I get over someone who doesn’t want me but I see literally everydayHey I've been there too. That's why I'm here in seddit. I "declared my feelings" for a woman and alienated her. Then she started going out with a homeless junkie. That was just adding insult to injury. But I had to learn that lesson the hard way. Learn your lesson and then believe she did you a favor by helping you prepare for the women in your future. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Everyone I want is takenThe grass is always greener on the other side. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | How can I get over someone who doesn’t want me but I see literally everydayYou screwed up. You should not "declare your feelings" to a woman. Even if she has feelings for you, she will feel like you are pressuring her and will recoil out of reflex. Get over it and treat her like a normal human being. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 10:26 PM |
| 2 | I could have lost my virginity today but choice not toIs it going to take ten years for you to get laid for the first time, and discover your regret? | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:18 PM |
| 11 | Engineers/Coders/Maths Guys in pickup! What do you do to get in state after full day of coding or sitting in front of computer?Today i learned that Mystery was into engineering and robotics before getting into PU. Uh... no. He was a magician and performer. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Leaving CollegeBut he's not a freshman, he's graduating in 3 weeks. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Leaving CollegeGood advice for freshmen. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Was she testing me?No. Marijuana often induces paranoia. It's not just fear of being busted, it's a known psychochemical effect. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 11:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with not having decent fuck logistics?Get a room. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | maintaining erections/ejaculating?/r/sex FAQ | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | When you see your crush with someone elsePerhaps I should say, you do not know her sufficiently to have any expectation that she could fulfill your fantasies about her. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 05:25 PM |
| 3 | When you see your crush with someone elseA crush is when you are projecting your desires onto someone you don't know, and is probably incapable of ever fulfilling your unreasonably high expectations. So realize that and move on. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 05:17 PM |
| 3 | When you see your crush with someone elseI saw your new love today Wearin my brand new shoes And I'm down to seeds and stems again too | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I hate going to a tiny, male-dominated collegeYou might start by considering why there are so few women in STEM. Any woman who is going into a male-dominated field is courageous to face constant oppression. I suspect that almost all of them have faced sexual harassment from other students and even their instructors. So don't be like that. Consider what they're going through. They're going to be sensitive to any sexually charged situations. But fortunately there is an upside: if you're not an asshole, all those other guys make you look good … | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | The power of radical honesty, what do you think guys? Seems really interesting, somewhat like an enhanced version of the old RSD material.I don't have time to review the entire hour of video here, but I will note that Radical Honesty is a concept that has been around for over 20 years. More information here on Wikipedia. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Vice Documentary on Daygamer Justin WayneThe moderators are discussing an official statement on Wayne. For now, I will merely say the Vice story is entirely accurate. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Vice Documentary on Daygamer Justin WayneI have no official comment on his legitimacy, but Justin Wayne is banned from seddit. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Don't try to get laid without knowing your spin jumpsWell that's the second stupid video channel I've banned in the last five minutes. What is it, April Stupid Day? | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Hey, what’s your name?Cold open failure kit. Don't be a loser. | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Middle Aged Men StyleWell just keep in mind, it has to be a sexual stereotype. It has to be an image that is sexually appealing to some types of women. And it has to be congruent with who you really are. | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Made a mistake"Hey I have this friend Mike I'd like you to meet. He's a great guy and I bet he's just your type." Note that Mike does not have to exist. You never see him because he's always too busy working with Médecins Sans Frontières in far away war zones, saving injured orphans and puppies. But I'll introduce him to you as soon as I see him. She will get the idea you're not interested, and probably doesn't care about Mike. | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Middle Aged Men StyleAs they age, men look better and better in a suit. But that is not the only strategy. Find a "sexual stereotype" that fits you. This means you are presenting a persona that your target age group would think is fuckable. For example, I was a punk rocker but now that I'm older, I usually dress as the Enigmatic Artist In Black. | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Was told my penis is ‘diseased’/r/sex FAQ | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 05:51 PM |
| 3 | How to Get Laid At A Bar (Screening Game)I'm not saying that video represents the only way, but it is a way. It is also a way to get banned from seddit. The GLL site is banned from seddit. I was unaware they had a Youtube channel, now that is banned too. I appreciate you bringing this to my attention. Don't try to post GLL materials again or you might join them. You're right on the brink so don't press your luck. | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | The Great /r/seduction Survey! [QUICK]The moderators disapprove of surveys. | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 12:47 AM |
| 22 | Hugging Girls.LOL I remember once I was at a bar, standing at the counter facing outwards in a crush of people, when a girl came up to the girls standing next to me. They were obviously friends and she hugged like 5 or 6 of her friends. I looked at her and said, "hey where's my hug?" and she hugged me really hard. Not a bad response from a total stranger. | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 01:16 PM |
| 4 | Really weird question but... How do you take a proper shower and be groomed for the day?If you wash your ears, do not use soap on the inside of your ears. My dermatologist disagrees. There is nothing wrong with cleaning your ear canal with soap. And wash your genitals first, then the use the washcloth on the rest of your body including your face? Ick. | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 11:46 AM |
| 3 | [19 M] I need help with meeting women.Yes. Even raise your standards. If you take whatever you get, you'll get what you don't want. If you raise your standards, some women will try to rise to meet them. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Makes a senseUsing multiple sock puppet accounts gets you banned. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Erection problem with a girl that I REALLY like?It happens. If the girl likes you, she will help you through awkward times like performance anxiety. Sometimes it takes a few times to get comfortable with a new partner. | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Erection problem with a girl that I REALLY like?Erectile dysfunction is one of the most extensively covered topics in the /r/sex FAQ. | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Your most bizarre flirting experience?seddit doesn't do these "what's the worst evar" threads. It rapidly turns into a vicious circle of escalating tall tales that becomes a bragathon of lies. Just forget it. | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | A perspective on why women have bitch shields. [X-post r/TwoXChromosomes]Refrain from crossposting to other subreddits like /2XC that have negative opinions of seddit. You are poking a hornet's nest. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | If you want to be happy accept EVERY woman who loves youIf you take whatever you get, you'll get whatever comes along. Too bad. | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 11:44 PM |
| 2 | IncelsYou can't top the Coppertop. They stopped making my favorite, Duracell Ultra, they had a battery strength tester built in. Now I mostly use Duracell NiMH rechargables. | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on these two very interesting threads I came across today?Please don't crosspost to other subreddits, especially those groups that might have specific antagonism for seddit. They usually get a bot notification of the crosspost from seddit. You are poking at a hornet's nest. | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 03:06 PM |
| 3 | PSA: THIS SUB CAN'T HELP YOU WITH "THIS ONE GIRL"Well that was not expressed very diplomatically. But it does raise a long term issue for seddit. /r/seduction is intended for learning the general principles and practices of seduction, to learn by applying those principles, and to focus on the process of getting skills. We have long tried to direct questions about specific women in specific situations to /r/askseddit but this has been mostly futile. There will always be new users coming to seddit, and of course they are often driven here by a d… | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I get it up?This topic is thoroughly discussed in the /r/sex FAQ | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Is a certain amount of objectification/dehumanizing of women necessary to do this?This is a common misconception about pickup. We are not objectifying women, we are objectifying their behavior, separating it from the woman. This allows us to study and understand interpersonal behavior in general, without attaching it to a specific woman. | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Went on 1st date, fooled around on my bed, now "friendzoned"Well this is almost a perfect seduction situation but the execution failed. You disappointed her. You can give the "we're not having sex tonight" denial first, before she does. But you shouldn't repeat it again and again or she will believe you. If you are escalating and she makes that sort of weak objection, agree with her and continue escalating. Her: (After kissing) I don't think this is a very good idea. Him: You're right, it isn't a very good idea. (continues kissing) | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Just how powerful is body language reading really?Well, remember Mystery started as a magician doing a table act in clubs. He was continually performing to small sets. He has a more theatrical view of personal interactions. Mystery covered body language from several different angles. I've seen him in a video with a girlfriend (a ballet Dancer I think) demonstrating The Alexander Technique. That is a posture training system for actors and dancers, to help them project their voice and persona during a performance. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Just how powerful is body language reading really?Are you saying that it is one or the other, game or fun? Since we were talking about bar game, an old school concept is the "beer shield," since most guys awkwardly hold their drink in front of their chest. Better to just let your hands fall naturally and hold your drink below waist level. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Just how powerful is body language reading really?Just an example from the book, the author is an FBI profiler and noted that cops going into a room with unknown threats (he specifically mentioned a dive bar) will put their hands on their hips with their elbows out, in a posture that was intended to establish dominance and authority. Of course it helps if you have a gun on your belt. But I noticed, when I was at a bar or someplace where I had nothing to do with my hands, I tended to put my hands on my hips. This was not properly communicating t… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 06:48 PM |
| 7 | Just how powerful is body language reading really?You will have to determine for yourself. Many guys have problems reading signals given by women. Nonverbal communication is important, but is only a part of the response you need to watch. You also need to watch the signals you are giving. You might look into seddit favorites like the book "What Every BODY Is Saying." I learned a few interesting things from it. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 02:56 PM |
| 4 | What makes a good FR?A good FR will generally connect the principles and practices of pickup, with actual in-field experience. The FR does not even have to be a success, sometimes failure is more educational than success. But it should give some information on how you applied what you know, and how you learned from it and how others could learn too. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Girl texted me a :) instead of an emoji, what does this mean?🍆 | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Picking Up Girls On Khao San Road Bangkok Thailand Infield Streetgame Pull Timelapse Ep.4You could get seddit, and yourself, in big trouble. Please look into the new internet regulations under FOSTA. https://www.wired.com/story/craigslist-shuts-personal-ads-for-fear-of-new-internet-law/ The Moderators of seddit are particularly sensitive to content that even hints at sex tourism. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 12:01 PM |
| 7 | If girls become numb to being told they are beautiful etc, whats something you can say that will be more original?Beautiful girls like to be told that they're smart, smart girls like to be told they're beautiful. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Is there a girl version of this sub, so we can learn from both?We were associated with /r/fPUA but it is mostly inactive. But we welcome women's questions and discussions as we welcome pretty much anyone. seddit is what you make it, and if you want to make a space for discussing it from any particular point of view, then please feel free to start that discussion. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Isn't applying seduction technique an act of neediness?To pursue women through seduction techniques is an act of neediness itself. You want the opposite, to be a 'giver', to perceive yourself as the reward for them, rather than a beggar who humiliates himself just to be at the very end of a long list of potential candidates. The act of approaching a woman immediately puts her at a higher status than you, because you are approaching with an intent to meet her that she can decline. She has the power. She uses it often. This is why a lot of early seduc… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) virgin. Depressed about how I look...Do not engage with trolls. | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 03:12 PM |
| 9 | What happened to this sub??Well I was there years ago and one thing has not changed and will never change: many people will continue to discover seddit and join the discussion without making any attempt to look at what this community is about. Most discussion here assumes you know some of the baseline info that is not available directly through seddit. It's out there in books and DVDs and much of it is focused around the individual who developed and promoted the ideas. I recall asking some noobish questions many years ago… | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 03:12 PM |
| 2 | My review of 3 bootcamps with 3 different companies - Tony D, Love Systems, CloudThis OP is removed and locked pending a Moderator decision. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Do custom/simple earplugs make me less attractive and desirable?True but be careful not to shout in her ear when you're up close. It can be hard to tell how loud you're speaking when using earplugs. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Do custom/simple earplugs make me less attractive and desirable?Earplugs make it easier to converse I noticed that myself, and I couldn't believe it. I use Mack's Pillow Soft Silcone earplugs, I just bought another 12-pack for $3.76 on Amazon. When I wore the earplugs in a club for the first time, I was surprised that the loudest sounds were dampened the most but not the softer sounds like conversation (well, shouted conversation in a loud club) which was easier to hear without the background noise. But still, consider one reason clubs are noisy, they want y… | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Do custom/simple earplugs make me less attractive and desirable?Yeah I have tinnitus largely from years of hanging around in brutally loud punk rock bars. Your friends will have regrets even if it years from now when they begin to lose lose their hearing. So forget what they think. Protect yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to a St. Paddy's day party this weekend and looking to make new friends, what are some good things to do?Because they aren't in the same league as the pros, the alcoholics. Amateurs drink occasionally, like on drinking holidays. Pros drink every day. Amateurs make rookie mistakes, like getting sick from drinking too fast. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 05:20 PM |
| 11 | Certain women intimidate meIt's not fear. Reinterpret that as sexual attraction. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Wearing sunglasses doing daygame. Any positive experience?Rayban Aviators with prescription lenses? How much did that cost? | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:06 PM |
| -1 | Saw this comment on a video. Don't know if it belongs here?It will also tell the woman all she needs to know about YOU. It means you're an asshole. This is one of the stupidest things ever posted in seddit. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:04 PM |
| -1 | How do I not feel like shit in public?How do I not feel like shit in public? Use the restroom before you leave home. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:02 PM |
| 5 | I'm going to a St. Paddy's day party this weekend and looking to make new friends, what are some good things to do?Good things to do: Don't drink anything green. Don't drink too much. A former alcoholic friend of mine calls St. Patrick's Day "amateur hour." | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on these two very interesting threads I came across today?Don't crosslink to other subreddits. You will create drama. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 04:37 PM |
| 11 | Harley Quinn game (not my best)You have given this woman what she wants: free online entertainment and attention. Did this result in an actual date? | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How many approaches do I need to do a day to get really goodHow many approaches do I need to do a day to get really good All of them. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 03:13 PM |
| 2 | [Advanced question] How do I IOD a girl?Sounds like you're talking about the mystery method idea of meeting HER disinterest with your own. I don't think that's how MM works. Look at this brief video of Mystery describing the classic Bait Hook Reel Release routine. The Release is an IOD. The point is you follow your IOI with an IOD, so you aren't expressing TOO much interest. You might also watch Lovedrop's Kino Demo with comments by Mystery. He shows use of a rolloff in kino. It takes a while for him get through his dumb "handshake ro… | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else here familiar with L-Theanine?My experience as moderator is that far too many people try to peddle drugs and sketchy "supplements" in seddit so it is prohibited due to ongoing abuse. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Who else doesn't believe in horoscopes? Need some advice..12 disciples 12 stations of the cross 12 tribes of Israel You think this stuff is all a coincidence? | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Who else doesn't believe in horoscopes? Need some advice..Dude the Catholic Church's ancient history is all about astrology. They were so tied to an ancient astrological model that they fought Gallileo's proposal of a new astrological model. Symbolism from the practices of those "heathens" is woven into the fabric of religious practices to an astonishing level. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | What's the drink that will get me drunk faster?Ask for a shot of Everclear. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling so fucking bad about not succeeding with women?You will fail over and over, you will fail repeatedly -- until you succeed. Every failure is helping you discover new and useful information. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 07:25 PM |
| 12 | Why do girls get clingy after sex?While you are seducing a woman, she is thinking about all the reasons she should not have sex with you. After you have sex, she is thinking about all the reasons why she should have slept with you. Consider her clinginess as a sign of her need to justify herself. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Tip of the day: Treat her like a child.I believe you have misconstrued an old "cocky/funny" concept, to treat a woman like your bratty little sister. That doesn't mean she is your five year old sister. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Approaching with interesting questionsHey I need an opinion, flossing: before or after brushing? | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Approaching with interesting questionsHey I need an opinion, who lies more, men or women? | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 12:07 AM |
| 0 | If this subreddit was about cyclingIt really does not take much effort to make a positive contribution. Don't sell yourself short. I first started moderating because I think the best way to master something is to help others learn it. | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 01:53 PM |
| -19 | If this subreddit was about cyclingThat was a well written satire and it probably took you a few minutes to create it. For that same amount of effort, you might have written a useful tip or two, or at least some minimal contribution based on your familiarity with the concepts of this community. Obviously you have been around seddit for a while and probably learned a few things that were useful to you personally. You do not have to be a master PUA to help others, you only have to be a step or two ahead, and have the ability to poi… | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Relating this to a high schoolerWhen you take care of the means, the ends will follow. | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Relating this to a high schoolerThey're usually working on it, but progressing. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 04:18 PM |
| 10 | Relating this to a high schoolerYour goal is not to Get Women Now. Your goal is to acquire sufficient social skills with women so that you become the 25 year old guy who has all the women he could desire. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm not entirely sure what sets "being alpha" apart from the other two points of the triangle: "being a dick" and "being a comedian".I could have indeed come off as a sexist piece of shit. Yeah, that generally happens when you are a sexist piece of shit. Being a judgemental asshole is not appealing to women, nor is it "being alpha." | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Anyone very much fear false allegations + blacklisting for being at odds with feminism?After examining your user history, it is obvious you have been indoctrinated by MGTOW and TRP. Their opinions and attitudes are not welcome in seddit. | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Business cards to attract womenYes, but more with social circle pickup, and it was mostly in the times before everyone started exchanging numbers directly on their phones. I have a bit of an unusual approach to phone contact. I have very high barriers to direct phone or email contact, and anyone who needs my contact info probably already knows how to get it. Giving a card is more of a formal recognition of a relationship and that I will accept any calls from them. The era when we exchanged numbers on paper was difficult. One … | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Business cards to attract womenMake a calling card, not a business card. All it needs is your name and number. But it needs a proper, classic design. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 08:59 PM |
| 127 | I finally did my first cold approachIt gets easier. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Let’s go.Let's Go | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Best places to meet women?/r/world | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 12:34 PM |
| 7 | Ight I need to get better a sex. Tell me your movesI usually start with an Immelman followed by a Cuban 8, then a Tailslide ending with a Hammerhead. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 09:46 PM |
| 5 | How can I make Ingesting conversation?How can I make Ingesting conversation? Over dinner. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Girls say I'm cute and like to pretend we are married?Are you kidding? They don't need any help defending themselves. I bet any average Hooters waitress could break a creepy guy in half with just a look. | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 03:00 PM |
| 33 | Girls say I'm cute and like to pretend we are married?Girls love roleplay. If they like the "fake marriage" roleplay, switch it up on them, try the "fake divorce" roleplay. "We might still be married if you could keep your hands off the gardener. I gave you the house and kids, but I get the Lambo." | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Help me find a post in here.Don't bother, it was a garbage post from 4chan that has been circulating for years. It is not particularly useful. | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | List with a lot of helpful tipsYeah 4chan is such a great source of accurate information. /s | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 05:34 PM |
| 8 | Ending STOTDJust remember "post of the day" doesn't necessarily mean you have to post every single day. If the urge ever strikes you to continue, go ahead and do a one-off post any time. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Remember "Put a woman on a pedestal and she'll kick you in the face"Put a woman on a pedestal so you can look up her skirt. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 06:03 PM |
| 22 | Ending STOTDThanks for your efforts to post some good content, to whatever degree is comfortable for you. In the past, I have put up ongoing series and I know how much effort it takes over the long term. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 06:02 PM |
| 39 | STOTD - I like big strong men"Well, I only like chubby girls like her." [point at very skinny woman nearby] This was field tested, but I can't recall who was the original source. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Any opinions on African American girls?Don't feed the trolls. Click the report button and move on. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 04:21 PM |
| 0 | My female friends never seem to introduce me to other women...Women enjoy the game and even if they are in a relationship, they get vicarious enjoyment from hooking up their friends. If you are working a social scene, your friends will practically push you together with eligible women. But they have to be aware you are available. Obviously your friends don't see you as someone who wants to hook up. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Been messing around with this one chick, and now she wants to go on a "real" date. need some advice.I think she earned a reward after 3 weeks of your cock. But make sure she knows she constantly has to earn it. I would stop before buying the bracelet and tease her she still hasn't earned it, maybe if she is a good girl, soon.. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one or was Mystery right all along?You might enjoy this long presentation from Jon Sinn that discusses the original M3 Model in detail. This is about the time when the MM started to change to more modern models. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 01:58 AM |
| 3 | I don't have an instagramYour Grandma uses Facebook. Younger kids like Snapchat but I heard they just released an update, everyone hates it and the audience is now moving elsewhere. I personally think it's a huge waste of time chasing new platforms on social media. You can invest yourself in a platform and suddenly overnight it's obsolete. | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 04:26 AM |
| 12 | Is it a bad idea to ask a woman a lot of questionsThat is why we sometimes talk about "job interview questions" which bores women because lots of guys want to get to know her so they ask lots of questions and suck up to her. I often advise more direct statements, like challenges instead of questions. Bad: Where do you work? Good: I bet you have an exciting job. This turns a probing statement into a challenge for her to qualify to you. So now you have set a standard (she is exciting) so she can try to qualify for your approval. This is more emot… | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How can I last longer in bed?/r/sex FAQ | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Are the guys from Simple Pickup/Daygame.com Real?SP is banned from seddit due to a variety of reasons. What isn't faked, is an antisocial street stunt. | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 04:23 PM |
| 16 | Problems with erectionAre you nervous in the service? Yeah. It's OK to admit it, when you're meeting a new girl. She was trying to express that she understood your intimacy issues. Sometimes you can't get fully comfortable with a new partner and have performance anxiety. Sometimes it takes a couple of times before you get familiar and comfortable enough. Maybe try again. | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Help - Girl I took on a date today texted me I took her friend on a date yesterdayI would probably take it this direction: "When I see you together sometime, I'll give you the BFF test." The BFF test is an old classic routine. You ask them "do you both use the same brand of shampoo?" and inevitably they will look at each other for a moment before answering. No matter what they answer, you can burst out laughing to interrupt them, and tell them you caught them, aw they are BFF. Then explain the glance. This works with pretty much any pair of close friends. They all show the BF… | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Why the FUCK weren't we taught this language growing up?I think you were being inserted into a sticky situation. The two girls had trouble with the overly persistent dude. The girl wanted you to help her get away from the creepy guy. Her friend was trying to give you a clue since you weren't picking up on it. You might have stepped in and saved the girl, and taken her out of the set, but it might not result in much more. Or maybe it would. | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, if RSD Tyler Durden bumps into someone like Anthony Joshua (without status) at club, would he be able to compete?You know better than to make a shitpost like this. Or do you? | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 04:05 AM |
| 3 | How to fix my shy penis?Practice. You may have noticed the girl did just about everything possible to help you get it on. She wants it too. But it is not surprising that your first time brought on performance anxiety. Maybe try again with her. Sometimes it takes 2 or 3 attempts before you get comfortable enough to have amazing sex with a new partner. | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Girl at work keeps staring at meDude she is practically begging you. And you disappointed her. Accept her invitation. If none is forthcoming, ask her about what good places there are to have lunch nearby. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 10:03 PM |
| 6 | STOTD - You suck at dancing"Let me show you some moves." You don't actually need moves. Well maybe ONE move. Even a bad one. She knows women have all the moves, she doesn't expect you to keep up with her. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 10:00 PM |
| 4 | A small tip: when you ask people personal questions about their favorite things, ask them about something that they engaged with 'lately' (e.g. an interesting movie that they saw lately). This makes the conversation feel more natural and fun.I'm more generally saying that these were the toys that taught young, impressionable girls that there was such a thing as fashion. If the woman still today works hard to put on a good fashionable presentation of herself, it began with those old toys. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 07:03 PM |
| 29 | A small tip: when you ask people personal questions about their favorite things, ask them about something that they engaged with 'lately' (e.g. an interesting movie that they saw lately). This makes the conversation feel more natural and fun.You remind me of some old PUA talk suggesting you ask women about the things they engaged with emotionally when they were children. So he suggested talking to women in the age range you generally prefer, and then find out what were her favorite toys when she was a kid. It also helps to find toys with a fashion angle since women evolved their current fashion sensibility starting with those toys. Once you know the girl toys that were popular for that age group, you can do a cold read on other wome… | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 03:58 PM |
| 4 | STOTD - You just want sex / to fuck meHey hands off the merchandise. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 02:56 AM |
| 19 | STOTD - (Overtly keeps looking at other guys)Fuck Marry Kill | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | GAMEThe Game - Sham 69 A voice that is crying His mother's done for lying The finger points at you And what a clever doctor The pills didn't stop her The finger points at you But do we really know Who's really to blame It's just a game Forgiving people for being forgot It's the game everybody can play The game it's your lucky day The game just knowing your name The game that's right it's all a game The judges sit accusing Stand up losing The finger points at you Somebody wants to help us But he does… | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 01:25 PM |
| 4 | College drinking. How to avoid drinking too much and embarrassing myselfDon't binge drink to oblivion. Alcoholics Anonymous describes alcoholism as an inability to control how much you drink. Just don't drink so much. Hydrate between drinks. Drink some icewater or alternate soft drink after each hard drink. If you have water after each drink of liquor, you drink half as much alcohol in the same time. Also I think staying hydrated with plain water helps you metabolize the alcohol and reduces hangover. | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | You Only Want Her Because She Doesn't Want YouI Don't Want You | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | STOTD - Are you gaming/playing me?My suggestion was more of a reversal, I prefer it over A&A. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Celebrity With The BEST Game (Examples)No. Brand is a great example for people who aspire to be a heroin addicted schizophrenic Maharishi cult member who is famous for marrying and then destroying his relationship with one of the most desired women in the world. In other words, pretty much the opposite of everything we aspire to. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Do self deprecating jokes build attraction?No. It exposes your neuroses. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 02:22 PM |
| 4 | I'm not afraid of rejection, I'm afraid of not knowing what to sayhttps://i.imgur.com/YAGpXPd.png | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you know when you find the right person?Does she have good teeth? Is her vision 20/20? Does she perspire a lot? Is she fully vaccinated? Can she drive a manual transmission? Is her credit rating above 700? Does she have references? That Ly Star list isn't for someone looking for a relationship. That is for someone looking for an employee or slave. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 02:23 AM |
| 4 | How do you know when you find the right person?That is why you date women and have relationships. Each woman is helping you discover what you want in a relationship, what you want from a woman, and what you yourself are like when you're in a relationship. You will find out. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 02:14 AM |
| 39 | Girlfriend keeps getting asked out by her single slutty friends to go clubbing / drinking. How should I react?Women like guys who aren't judgmental and don't call her friends sluts. Your possessive attitudes will send her into the arms of another guy who won't slutshame her and her friends. And it will be your fault. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 01:25 AM |
| -4 | STOTD - I could out drink you, any dayOh.. I have done this before. Her: I could outdrink you easy. Me: OK I'll get you a drink. You can have what I'm having. [gesture towards bartender, point at my drink and gesture for another. Bartender brings another glass of ice water. I tip him well, again.] Me: Alright, get started! Her: [sips] Hey this is just water! Me: It's the deadliest drink on earth, it has killed more people than any other drink! Her: No it hasn't, that's ridiculous. Me: Well tell that to the people who were on the Tit… | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?Just read the summary on Wikipedia, you'll know if it interests you enough to pursue. Or read some of the free text. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 01:00 AM |
| 0 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?It's not really worth reading. It is mostly of interest to students of Classical Latin Poetry. Save your money. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 12:58 AM |
| 0 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?BUY it? This is a 2000 year old text. It is out of copyright and in the public domain. I gave you a free link to the full text. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 12:53 AM |
| 3 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?Ars Amatoria by Ovid - 2 A.D. Shall we go as far back as Paleolithic ritual objects? | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysDo you realize how exoteric and cliche it sounds? Maybe to YOU it does. But you are faced with a simple choice. Focus on your positive qualities and do the things that make you happy. Focus on your mental image of who you think you ought to be, taller, more handsome, etc. and constantly evaluate how you do not measure up to your ideals. This will make you miserable. But you pick #2. It's understandable, it's the easy way out. You can blame your height, or society, or everything but your own acti… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?I would suggest you read this website extensively so you know what you're talking about. Notice that it declares itself the "self-improvement and seduction community." | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Watching "alpha" TV/Movies for body languageI was reading there was a study that people absorb the body language of the media they view. Citation needed. Watching TV and movies with a goal of emulating the actors' body language is absolutely counterproductive. They have years of acting coaching, and a multimillion dollar production process to make them look good on camera. And what THEY bring to the screen is customized for that specific screen. For example, actors use different body language on TV shows for the small screen, than they do… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:45 PM |
| 20 | The best advice you'll never getLOL I remember when I went to an underground niteclub in LA with my girlfriend. There are always a few club girls who want to stand out. This evening, the entire place was lit with black light, and the girls were wearing garish fluorescent costumes. It was almost impossible NOT to look. But of course my girlfriend got mad at me for looking at the girls. I told her, if she wanted my complete attention all evening, we could have stayed home. But we are part of this grand social scene, people are l… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysAll this time, I just wanted to lay a white girl to prove that I am no less sexually desirable than other South East Asian guys who do. Who are you trying to prove this to? Yourself? Or everyone else? You are making yourself miserable. I have a suggestion for a new goal: being happy. Here is your core problem: it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guys There will always be guys better than you. Get used to it. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:36 PM |
| 15 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?The pickup community goes WAY back. 1975: Picking Up Girls Made Easy, vinyl LP. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Are You Stuck? Change Your Beliefs to Change Your LifeOne book that has been popular in seddit is Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David D. Burns. It is one of the earliest self-help books promoting CBT. There is a followup book that is more specific to dating and relationships, Intimate Connections. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:40 AM |
| 0 | Getting Girls By Being True To YourselfBe True to your School | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:32 AM |
| 23 | I matched with a girl on tinder who is only replying with fire emoji🔥 | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with chicks who play gamesUse the Ruy Lopez opening. It's classic. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys have any questions about pulling chicks?The seddit moderators disapprove of unsanctioned AMAs when Official AMAs are in progress. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Are we allowed to ask for torrent links here?No. Piracy is against the Reddit User Agreement. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 10:40 PM |
| -10 | Suggest all book you know for self-improvement!I doubt it. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | But But But...But But But... What What | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 08:24 PM |
| 0 | [Question] What is the best material to learn MM ?You can't beat the original "Venusian Arts Handbook." The system evolved from this original work, but this was where it started. Alas it is long out of print (so to speak.. it was always a PDF) but it is still around, if you look for it. I believe it was updated and published more recently as the "Venusian Arts Manual" or something like that. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 08:20 PM |
| 13 | STOTD - Are you gaming/playing me?Up to the same old same old, I hear. There are plenty of classic models to use in his works. A good example: Her: I like your fuzzy hat and goggles. Him: No you don't, you're just attracted to me. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 08:17 PM |
| -2 | Suggest all book you know for self-improvement!Alexis de Tocqueville - De La Démocratie en Amérique Isaac Newton - Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica Alfred North Whitehead - Principia Mathematica Joseph Weizenbaum - Computer Power and Human Reason Mark Twain - The Innocents Abroad F Scott Fitzgerald - The Great Gatsby Upton Sinclair - The Jungle Galileo Galilei - Dialogo sopra i due massimi sistemi del mondo Kurt Vonnegut - Welcome to the Monkey House Ryunosuke Akutagawa - Rashomon and Seventeen Other Stories Legs McNeill - Please … | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Uni girl's always with her friends in class and on campus. Would it be unwise to ask her out on social media?Man up and ask her out in front of her friends. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:30 PM |
| 26 | STOTD - Are you gaming/playing me?Jeez this is straight out of the book. Her: Are you a player? Him: Why are you so attracted to players? | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:29 PM |
| 10 | STOTD - Are you gaming/playing me?Fail. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:28 PM |
| 2 | This is my technique. Open to criticismDon't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Accidental Erections?When you get an erection, you should enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Watching Your HumorYou're describing "Dancing Monkey Syndrome." Plenty of guys get stuck in a positive feedback loop, telling jokes and getting laughs. You're trying to get laid, not get laughs. But they tell a joke that gets a good reaction, and they think they're doing great so they do it again. And again. This is because they're afraid to escalate. Remember, your interactions should move the seduction forward. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 03:37 AM |
| 7 | How many of us actually run Grocery store game?It works. Last time I tried it, I just said to a woman, "I'm totally out of ideas for healthy foods. [look at her cart] You look like you have a healthy diet, make me a recommendation for some good food item I probably wouldn't think to buy." | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Watch this video of Craig Ferguson; perfect example of how to banterThey are actors. They are acting. This dialogue is prearranged in the pre-show interview. This is not banter or flirting. This is acting. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Found the one but she is a doctor!You should ask her out on a date by saying "Hey I'd like you to give up your medical license and lose everything you built up during your many years in medical school, just so you can go on one date with me." | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | STOTD - What kind of car do you drive?I think you'd actually do better to jam up her mentally with something bizarre and barely recognizable, like a Nash Rambler or a Citroen. Or a garbage truck. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 12:19 AM |
| 2 | I'm John Mulvehill, JMULV from JMULV Pickup, Ask Me Anything.I personally asked John to focus on the principles and practices of pickup, rather than other personalities. I think that's reasonable since it's one of seddit's general methods to reduce drama. I'll ask all sedditors to respect this and stay focused on what John has to offer you. And let's just leave it at that. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 12:13 AM |
| 6 | STOTD - Would you fuck my friend?Hey lots of us are clever. If you read much of what I post, you know I am really clever. The problem is being clever when it's inappropriate. That is the problem with being clever, you think you're clever when others see it as being tryhard. You probably ARE clever but it's not coming across that way. And for shit tests, clever is almost always wrong. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 12:09 AM |
| 2 | How success in Venetian arts might backfire on you.How success in Venetian arts might backfire on you. Personally I think the Venetian arts are some of the most important in history. I'm not big on the Mannerists like Tintoretto, but the Venetians like Titian and Veronese are far underrated among Renaissance painters. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | [META] For every video posted, can we make it mandatory for OP to comment a short summary of it? There are too many 10 minute videos for something that can be explained in 1 minuteI have seen and removed thousands of crappy videos. There really is a clear dividing line that I can see but non-moderators can't. You don't see the videos that didn't make the cut. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:15 PM |
| 7 | STOTD - What kind of car do you drive?Yeah, that is a rather good post if I do say so myself. But that is years old, and I might describe it differently today. Rather than a "state break," I would describe a shit test response as a "rapport break." So most guys are trying hard to seek rapport with women, sucking up to them, you are different, you aren't afraid to break rapport when she shit tests you. So to pick an arbitrary and extreme hypothetical shit test, here is how to seek rapport (fail) and break rapport (win). Her: I'm so h… | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | [META] For every video posted, can we make it mandatory for OP to comment a short summary of it? There are too many 10 minute videos for something that can be explained in 1 minuteMy general principle is that seddit content stays on Reddit. There is a Reddit self-promotion FAQ that says, "It's perfectly fine to be a redditor with a website, it's not okay to be a website with a reddit account." So there is a dividing line that we prefer. If you create a text post in seddit, offering some content, and a video link at the end for more detail, you are specifically engaging our seddit readers on seddit first. If your free text post content attracts readers, they will know wher… | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | [META] For every video posted, can we make it mandatory for OP to comment a short summary of it? There are too many 10 minute videos for something that can be explained in 1 minuteYes, let me clarify. My seddit "prime directive" is to bring value to seddit, not extract value for yourself. So if you are seeking to launch your PUA career or Youtube channel with posts in seddit, you are extracting value from our audience by attempting to convert our readers to your site's readers. You are treating seddit as a captive audience, a marketing resource. Moderators will remove those posts. Now this is a tricky balance, generally all good PUA content is produced by someone who has … | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | [META] For every video posted, can we make it mandatory for OP to comment a short summary of it? There are too many 10 minute videos for something that can be explained in 1 minuteThe only way would be to change seddit sitewide preferences to disallow anything but text-only posts. That imposes a big burden on everyone who posts legitimate, useful multimedia content. I have considered it, but it would probably drive away useful posts more than it would help prevent useless posts. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | [META] For every video posted, can we make it mandatory for OP to comment a short summary of it? There are too many 10 minute videos for something that can be explained in 1 minuteThere is no moderator bot that could do this. It isn't in the Reddit API, I'd have to write a bot that accesses both Reddit and Youtube (or wherever) and scan every post continuously via a server I set up and operate outside of Reddit. You are asking for quite a lot here. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | STOTD - What kind of car do you drive?An Edsel. That will probably not work with younger women. And by younger, I mean under 40. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Update: She flakedDon't beat up on yourself, that is not at all obvious. It is field tested by better PUAs than me. I wish I remember where I heard it. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Update: She flakedBad: Ok maybe another time. Good: I'll let you know how you can make it up to me. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Was the bartender hitting on me?Well there is your excuse to go back and overtip her. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 08:51 PM |
| 42 | STOTD - Would you fuck my friend?You should remind people that if you try to be clever, you are validating her frame and you lose. These questions about shit tests always draw out lurkers with bad ideas, who want to show off how clever they are. That's why they are terrible with women: they are tryhard. Field tested response: "whoa, slow down Tiger, I barely know you." | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 06:08 PM |
| 51 | [META] For every video posted, can we make it mandatory for OP to comment a short summary of it? There are too many 10 minute videos for something that can be explained in 1 minuteFlag me personally if you see problems. For example, I have seen videos 5 minutes long where they take 2:30 to even begin relevant content, and then it's over in 15 seconds, the rest is padding and "please upvote my videos." That will get removed from seddit. Additionally, seddit is not the place to launch new channels. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 05:23 PM |
| 39 | Was the bartender hitting on me?As a matter of etiquette, when a bartender or waitress gives you free drinks, you should tip just the same as if you paid for them. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | A girl ready to throw herself over me.. but she lives too far awayWe had a term for that, back in LA: Geographically Disadvantaged. Move on. There are plenty of hot girls that would love you, wherever you are right now. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 02:43 AM |
| 3 | How To Combat a Constant Fear of LossA Guide to Beating the Fears That Are Holding You Back | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 01:05 AM |
| -1 | SOMEONE HELP? Wtf does this mean??I disagree, she's showing interest. She may mean "I'm surprised you don't get more girls like me." It seems like a shit test. | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 08:08 PM |
| 139 | STOTD - Isn't that guy cute?!"Yeah, I'd fuck him." BTW this is actually field tested. | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 04:15 PM |
| 2 | [question] how des Jack Manley picking up girls so easily?Well there's a channel that will never, ever be seen in seddit again. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 06:56 PM |
| 4 | AMA with John Mulvehill (JMULV) February 8, 2PM ESTYes it is empty in here because the AMA hasn't started yet. Note: this is not the AMA, save your questions for February 8! A new link will be posted when the AMA begins. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | I always attract girls i'm not interested in?Qualification creates emotional engagement. Consider the prototype qualification from Jon Sinn, "You look like the adventurous type. Lots of people say they're adventurous but few really are." Note that this is not a question, it is phrased as a direct statement. It's bait for the woman to take up a challenge. If she responds, she's emotionally invested in proving her worthiness to you. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 01:45 PM |
| 2 | The legitimacy of pickup teaching companiesJustin Wayne is banned from seddit. If your friend knew what I know about Wayne, you'd sever any connections and erase your browser history to completely destroy any evidence you ever saw him. I cannot disclose what I know, but consider that Wayne is the only person I consider a high level threat to seddit or anyone associated with him. Stay away. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Girl I liked just told me I am a piece of sh*t.Everything was going great till tonight when I told her I have feelings for her and would like to be together. You fucked up. You cannot "declare your feelings," it will make a woman feel cornered and defensive. Even if she had feelings for you, she would recoil out of habit. That will pretty much kill any feelings she had. Learn from your mistake and move on. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 12:50 AM |
| 4 | I always attract girls i'm not interested in?That should work. Consider it "qualification." You have high standards and you want to see if they will rise to meet them. Otherwise you can screen them out. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:04 PM |
| 23 | I always attract girls i'm not interested in?Exactly. For example, when I was in a solid long term relationship, I never showed any interest in other women. But other women were all over me. I did not act like a horny teenager, like all the other guys who were trying to get with her. Call it "abundance mentality." How does a guy act if he has all the sex he wants? He certainly doesn't hit on other women. So the woman wonders what is wrong, all the other guys try to get her interest. You aren't. So that makes you a challenge. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 05:47 PM |
| 4 | What is the optimum kind of movie to watch on a first date?Right, her primary memory of the date will be the movie. You want her to remember YOU, not the movie. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I want my boyfriend to be more dominant in the bedroom during sex. I want him to throw me on the bed, spank me and whisper in my ear. How do I get him to be more dominant and rough?No, we're just too busy cleaning up the shit you're leaving in your wake. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 07:08 PM |
| 2 | What's up with the influx of women on r/seduction?The moderators encourage ALL people to participate. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 07:01 PM |
| 7 | How do I ask out a girl who is currently sick?Oh FFS have some sympathy for the poor woman. If she is sick, she is probably not thinking about going out of the house other than classes, let alone out for a night on the town with you. Inquire about her health and express your concern that she's taking care of herself. Make a joke like offer to bring her some homemade chicken soup (which I suspect you cannot produce and I suspect she would know that too). If you're working on math class together, check in with her about that, maybe use that a… | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 02:59 AM |
| 14 | Words to use instead of "wow" or "crazy" in convo.Bigly Huge Covfefe | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 11:57 PM |
| – | AMA with Nick Sparks, Tuesday January 30th 2PM ESTThe AMA is now live. Ask your questions here: https://redd.it/7u3g85 | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Question: Is it a good thing or bad thing to jump from topic to topic during a conversation with a girl?There is an old PUA principle called "thread cutting." It is based on the idea that in conversation between women, they often just drop one subject and start another without any transition. It's considered positive because it creates a sense of closeness, you're talking to her the way her intimate friends talk to her. But you have to switch topics (cut the thread) in an emotionally engaging manner. If you switch to something boring (to her) then it doesn't work. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 01:37 AM |
| 2 | [Meta] Let's talk about the r/seduction has become r/selfimprovement issue (and other issues too)Scientific studies indicate that 30-40% of statistics are made up. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to make a girl overcome "guilt of cheating" on her boyfriend with me?It's a special circumstance: it doesn't count. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 12:30 AM |
| 3 | What is your theory about why women love dirty talk during sex?Defilement | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 08:42 PM |
| 4 | New school with actually hot girlsYou're new, use it. "Hey I'm new here, can you help me find the registrar's office?" | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 01:54 AM |
| 2 | How powerful do you think 'game' really is?Germans thought they could conquer the world too. | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 10:07 PM |
| 16 | How powerful do you think 'game' really is?No, there's no such idea that you can bed every girl. What would give you that idea? | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 01:00 PM |
| 12 | How to respond to girls saying " i dont want you to expect anything from me" ?No, Mr. Bond, I expect you to die. | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 12:58 PM |
| 1 | AMA with Nick Sparks, Tuesday January 30th 2PM ESTSave your questions for the actual AMA on Jan 30. | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 12:57 PM |
| 18 | How to respond to girls saying " i dont want you to expect anything from me" ?This is a good reversal but I'd tone it down a bit and not explicitly say she's thinking about sex. It's good enough to imply it. Your response is very similar to the classic reversal by Mystery: "Whoa slow down Tiger, I barely know you." It reframes the woman as the sexual aggressor. | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 12:36 AM |
| 7 | How to respond to girls saying " i dont want you to expect anything from me" ?Sounds like a shit test. Just off the top of my head, I'd use my favorite frame-breaker: reversal. Her: I don't want you to expect anything from me. Him: I expected you would say that. Edit: after reconsideration, no don't do this, it's too "clever." | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 12:27 AM |
| 8 | Do You Even Realize How Your Voice Sounds To Women?Wow, this is one of the few demos about voice that I've seen that is performed by someone who has a good voice. You would be surprised how rare that is. There is a particularly hilarious podcast about voice by a prominent PUA company. The instructor is British and has a thick Cockney accent, but he declares his credentials as a member of the Royal Shakespeare Company. I didn't believe it for a moment. | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 12:24 AM |
| 7 | What does a guy who is not "boring" do?He doesn't "do." He is. | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Coffee - I feel like I can take over the world after drinking a cup. How can I emulate this state?Drink more coffee. Then drink more coffee. Caffeine Safe Limits: Determine Your Safe Daily Dose | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 08:11 PM |
| 15 | Is seduction a learnable art?That is kind of the whole point of the seduction community: helping guys learn seduction. | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 05:59 PM |
| 0 | How does one get the girl who has other men trying to get her?The OP asked, "How does one get the girl who has other men trying to get her?" That is the entire point of the Chess Club story. I look at my boys and say, “Watch this. Follow me.” And I saunter right up to the Chess Club, push them aside “excuse me!” and go right up to the girl. I say, “I hate you” and stare at her, waiting. She looks all weird and then says, “I know… I’m sorry!” WTF? Jeffy had lots of legendary stories back in the early days of the PUA community when these techniques were new.… | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday she broke my heart, my mind is taking over me. Please HELP.A therapist will reinvoke something only if it gives you a way to release the anxiety. If you have this sort of concern, you can address it with a therapist before it happens. | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Yesterday she broke my heart, my mind is taking over me. Please HELP.Give yourself a message. Make it an affirmation, or maybe even write a letter to her (and then burn it). Thank her for helping you discover what you want in a woman, thank her for helping you develop yourself, and thank her for preparing you for the next woman to enter your life. Then say goodbye. | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How does one get the girl who has other men trying to get her?That's like asking to summarize Moby Dick. They would tell you it's about a hunt for a white whale. What's the use in that? The story is hilarious, just read it. As I said, it is one of the most legendary stories in PUA history. | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Gazing down. Fact or #FakeNews?There are some theories about the direction of eye glancing, but this is more of an unprovable NLP theory. I'll just give you a relevant example from my own history. I met a woman in a business context once, and we ended up dating. She was into NLP as a professional thing (long story). She told me that she decided I was OK when I first met her, because I sounded like I was bulshitting her, but I glanced up and to the left, which meant I was recalling a visual memory. If I had looked up to the ri… | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 01:59 AM |
| 0 | How does one get the girl who has other men trying to get her?This IS the tl;dr. Jeffy wrote an entire book about this. If you have such a short attention span you can't read this, just give up on life and forget girls. | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 12:54 AM |
| 0 | I just figured out that I'm really weird and now I hate myself. Not sure where to begin changing and also not sure what to do with my lifeI don't know what to do with my life | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Gazing down. Fact or #FakeNews?Woman are better at these social rituals than guys, otherwise you wouldn't be asking about this. It is impossible (or at minimum, really creepy) to stare endlessly into someone's eyes without breaking eye contact. It is a completely natural reaction. In PUA jargon, we would call it a "rapport break." When a woman looks into your eyes, and breaks contact, she is playing a subtle push-pull game. If a woman makes eye contact and smiles at you, that is an Approach Invitation. All you need to do is a… | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 12:38 AM |
| 1 | How does one get the girl who has other men trying to get her?You win by not playing their game. Not the guy's game, not the girl's game. Let me introduce you to one of the great legends of PUA, "Chess Club." This is just a tiny part of the story of Chessy. Date Posted: 2004/02/24 11:26:00 PM EST Author: jlaix Subject: FR: Ultimate Framework @ El Rio Went to the Rio last night. Let me tell you guys, after three days and nights with 26, two Craigs, a J-Dog, Playboy, TD, Papa, and Christophe among others in some very tough venues, I walked into the ole El Ri… | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What are some direct openers that are not cheesy and don't make you look like a pickup noob?"Are you single ?" This is a terrible opener because you can get shot down with a single word, "no." That leaves you nowhere to go from there. | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 03:02 PM |
| 3 | If you build it they will comeSorry no, not Disney. That was a Mark Gordon/Universal Pictures production. | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Dutch girls are either not horny, have boyfriends or not into me.You sound like a British tourist. | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I feel uncomfortable reading this sub and talking about sex in general.you: If I were gay then it would be no problem to play with your boobs right? Citation needed. That is exactly NOT what our basic methods practice. Please provide a link to this specific information you quoted. seddit exists because lots of guys are uncomfortable talking about sex and don't have anyone to talk to about it, they don't even know HOW to talk about sex. You can talk about uncomfortable topics here and explore for yourself. | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 04:37 AM |
| 2 | What I learned after playing Pokemon for 3 days straightThat's 3 days of your life that you'll never get back. | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 11:27 PM |
| 2 | She wants me to "tell" her ...Her: Do you love me? Him: No, I hate you. [smirk, hug her] | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 08:35 PM |
| 0 | She's testing meIts a shit test. Classic reply, "I'd fuck em." | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 01:31 AM |
| 1 | If a random girl online asks a guy out, should the guy pay for just his food/drinks, or hers too?Standard etiquette says the host pays, that means whoever made the invitation pays. But I would recommend you each pay your own way. There are other methods that are perhaps more appropriate for bars and clubs, "I'll get this round, you get the next one." | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Get your shit together. Do it NOW! (MOTIVATION TUESDAY)Personally I'm a buddhist but that's not the point. There are plenty of buddhist sects that on the wrong path. I am merely admonishing you to look deeper. Rajneesh's doctrines are the junk food of spirituality: superficially appealing but unhealthy. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Get your shit together. Do it NOW! (MOTIVATION TUESDAY)When our subscribers flag your post, I look for other red flags. Your message was hardly original, so I looked for underlying reasons. I investigated your site and found a vague stench of spiritual materialism, an egotistical holier-than-thou attitude. This is what happens when you follow evil gurus that lead you into a low path. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 04:21 PM |
| 3 | What advice do you have for a 21 year old female virgin?I warned people not to do that. Does anyone feel like becoming the FOURTH person in this thread to get banned? | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 04:11 PM |
| -1 | What advice do you have for a 21 year old female virgin?The OP says she joined a sorority so we can assume she has at least a minimal judgment by her peers as someone with a socially acceptable appearance. But in ALL cases, attitude is more important than appearance. That's our specialty. There are other subreddits for fashion, diet, and appearance. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 01:18 PM |
| -5 | What advice do you have for a 21 year old female virgin?As usual, I am horrified at the crude comments being made here. You should all be ashamed of yourselves. The rude comments about "how attractive are you" are absolutely meaningless in this context. Knock it off or else you'll get banned. To the OP, please realize that many guys come here because they have problems interacting with women, so don't take it personally when you get rude remarks. As in almost EVERY situation we encounter here in seddit, the problem is NOT that you aren't getting atte… | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | anti-social after nutting? Lolhttps://youtu.be/N1KvgtEnABY?t=1m34s | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 12:15 AM |
| 6 | “What is your intent” question on TinderI solemnly swear that I am up to no good. | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 04:00 PM |
| 5 | If you successfully pick up a girl at a bar or club, before you take her home, should you grab something to eat?If you do grab a bite, make sure it's light. No greasy, heavy foods like pizza. Nobody likes to have energetic sex with a heavy, full stomach. There are competing theories here. One is that you can't let her cool off too much, if she's ready to go, then go. On the other hand, getting her to bounce to another location builds familiarity since she is seeing you in another environment. There's no really wrong move here, just play it by ear and consider the logistics. | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 12:33 PM |
| 7 | Get your shit together. Do it NOW! (MOTIVATION TUESDAY)What are you going to do about your situation? Your shitty job. Your shitty sex life. Your shitty finance. Your shitty mood. Your shitty gurus. FYI your favorite author "Osho" is actually Rajneesh the terrorist. His cult members changed Rajneesh's name so gullible people wouldn't associate his vast publishing with his true identity as a terrorist and cult leader. FYI he's not really an author, he just stole ideas from other religions and published them under his name. And now he's dead, good rid… | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about the stuff that this guy says on his YouTube channel?I think that since you've posted videos from three channels that are banned, now you can join them. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 10:05 PM |
| 4 | How to get over crushed confidence after harsh rejections?she asked me if I wanted her to play wingman for me. She asked 'Do you find any of the girls over there hot?' to which I replied 'What if I find the wingman hot instead?' I thought this was suave but eh... And that is how you fail a shit test. You responded like a desperate horndog. You need to respond in a way that isn't seeking rapport and breaks out of her framing. Here is a classic, field tested response that would have worked. "I only like chubby girls, like that one over there." [point at … | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | The Work of Ross JeffriesIt has been such a long time since I read his materials that I can't recall it with enough specificity to answer. But in general, the self-hypnosis concept is useful for developing your own psyche. You might go to a more direct source like "Psycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz. There are other similar systems like "The Sedona Method." | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 02:23 PM |
| 2 | The Work of Ross JeffriesJeffries was one of the creators of the whole PUA scene. His work was heavy on NLP and his premise seems to be that you could use NLP to hypnotize women into sleeping with you. Unlikely. Today, he has gone off the deep end, he claims he can teach you occult techniques to seduce women with the force of your mental powers alone. Unlikely. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | PUA Coach RecommendationFYI that guy is banned from seddit. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | When is it ok to steal a girl from her boyfriend?Maybe he was right. You might be saving her life by giving her an option to ditch an abusive relationship. But you'll never know unless you try. | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | When is it ok to steal a girl from her boyfriend?Mystery said that it is your duty to try to seduce women with boyfriends. She will probably stay with her bf, in which case you tested the strength of their relationship and she will be better off. If she leaves him for you, then she's better off with you and you'll be doing him a favor by breaking up a doomed relationship that she was already thinking of ditching. | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 08:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm very proud of studying game and being part of the pickup community. But I didn't see any reason to tell this to any of my friends or family.The first rule of seddit is you don't talk about seddit. There is nothing to be gained by telling people about pickup. They will all have an unrealistic and sexualized misconception about what pickup is. It appears there is no way to convince someone to a more realistic opinion, that only reinforces their stereotypes. But I wouldn't hide it. If other friends see you being successful with women and want to follow along, well then be a leader. But don't use pickup jargon and other language that th… | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 06:27 PM |
| 0 | How do you handle emotional chicks?"I understand how you feel, but it's not good for you to dwell on these negative thoughts." Then change the subject. | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 05:08 PM |
| 11 | Is telling a girl she’s attractive/beautiful/hot a good idea? How else am I supposed to imply I’m interested?There's an old saying, "hot women like to be called smart, and smart women like to be called hot." This is kind of sexist because it assumes that smart and hot are mutually exclusive principles. But you can use sort of categorization this to your advantage. One of my favorite group routines is "ok.. which one of you is the smart one, and which is the bad one? There's always one of each in every group." Women often want to avoid being labeled the smart one, and sometimes will declare themselves t… | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell myself I am good enough?Daily Affirmation. | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Can we please ban u/ThrowawayPUA from this subNo we cannot. | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How to last longer in bed??/r/sex | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Can we get a Self-Improvement program going on r/seduction?Part of the issue here is that everyone starts at a different level and we all may see different paths to self-improvement. But this also could be an advantage since we can all learn something, no matter what level people are at. Even a beginner to self-improvement might reveal new ideas for everyone. Let me give an analogy. I've used Photoshop for years. But occasionally I see a find training video set, and I sometimes start at the very beginner level for absolute noobs. And occasionally I disc… | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Who is the Active Admin of Seddit?Maybe we were busy over the holidays. Maybe we didn't have anything to say. PM me next week and perhaps I will have time to respond. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Why I would recommend working on a bar.Do not post personally identifying information such as names with real phone numbers. It is a violation of the Reddit user agreement. | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 11:55 AM |
| 1 | After #MeToo, how does this sub intend to deal with false/trivial sexual harassment claims?They were certainly not "celebrated" around seddit. Their behavior during that AMA is one of the reasons they got banned. I was not a moderator at that time but I disapproved of that AMA. | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 02:25 PM |
| 1 | After #MeToo, how does this sub intend to deal with false/trivial sexual harassment claims?My apologies but I am going to remove your post due to crosslinking to that particular group, the moderators generally disapprove of even discussing them. Of course their approaches are inappropriate. You may not even have seen their worst videos, but I have. That is why they are banned from seddit. I used to say they were an embarrassment to the community. But lately I think they're a menace to the public, and dangerous for anyone who would watch and attempt to emulate them. But let me resurrec… | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 02:15 PM |
| 2 | After #MeToo, how does this sub intend to deal with false/trivial sexual harassment claims?The only thing that matters is how I made these three women feel.. There are a few PUA axioms, like "leave a girl better than you found her." If you're leaving her feeling bad due to your attentions, that is a problem. But of course there are always awkward social interactions. The whole point of social etiquette is to smooth over social frictions. This is why we learn social signals and etiquette, so we can more easily perceive the other person's feelings, and calibrate our interactions to be m… | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Should you buy a girl drink?You should not buy a girl drink. Buy a man's drink. A manly drink like scotch on the rocks. | /r/seduction | 30/12/17 01:49 PM |
| 9 | Stop depriving women of sex!Many women hope you are successful at seducing them. They will even give you clues how to seduce them, if you listen carefully. A woman may even help you seduce her, if she's attracted. She will help you through any awkwardness, and give you every opportunity. So don't disappoint her. | /r/seduction | 28/12/17 03:36 PM |
| 17 | Does this Subreddit apply to the ladies too?Women are welcome here. Just be aware that a lot of guys come to seddit because they have difficulties interacting smoothly with women, so you can get some unexpectedly rude responses. You already got one and I removed it. So don't take that stuff personally and contact me or the moderators team if you see anyone making trouble or derailing your discussion. | /r/seduction | 28/12/17 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Amazon Has a Book on 'How to Seduce Women Through Photography'I think this is a controversy seddit is going to stay far away from. I can understand your point, but this is a terrible idea for both photographers and seducers. There is a huge scandal about pro photogs who were abusing models and it is a serious problem worth addressing as a professional community. It is also worth noting that pros abusing models and familiarity of casting-couch experiences is a perfect environment for really skeevy creeps to pull shit, I am specifically thinking of the murde… | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 07:49 PM |
| 5 | What's the real definition of Disqualification?Disqualification is a message you send that you are not trying to seduce the woman, you are disqualifying yourself as a potential suitor. A prototype: "You and I could never get along, we're too much alike." Qualification is related, it is baiting a woman to see if she will qualify herself to you. A prototype: "You look like the adventurous type. Most people say they're adventurous but few people really are." | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 01:36 PM |
| 1 | [Question] Structured gameI like Magic Bullets a lot, it's useful for one major concept: conversation has to move the seduction forward. The goal is not to get into a deep conversation, the goal is to seduce the woman. | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 01:31 PM |
| 2 | New here, full disclosure:Women are welcome here, as is everyone. We had women as moderators, and there are many informative analyses of PUA theories by feminist women. There is a particularly famous feminist who looked at the PUA community as a research project, then ended up dating a PUA and watching the scene for years. She made the astute observation that this community is mostly a way for people to discuss their personal and sexual issues, in a way they perhaps never did before. They don't even know how to talk abou… | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 08:47 PM |
| 3 | I think my problem is not capturing the moments or seizing itI suggest you seize the moment. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 10:41 PM |
| 2 | [Question] Structured gameThe original Venusian Arts Handbook is long out of print but is worth reading as baseline knowledge. You can probably find it if you look around. As I vaguely recall it, Magic Bullets was an outgrowth of the Mystery Method but Jon Sinn added a qualification stage. I'm not sure if this was the Emotional Progression Model but Sinn advanced that model considerably, around the same time. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 05:11 PM |
| 11 | out of my league girl stairing at me?Approach her and play her some music on your Zune. | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 02:47 AM |
| 6 | What does it mean when a girl says she talks about you a lot ?Let's give them something to talk about. | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Would this be weird?Do you go out to grocery stores and cafes as a routine part of your daily life? The trick is to improve your social skills during your routine daily life. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 01:24 PM |
| 19 | Has anyone done the Neil Strauss 30 Day ChallegeI got up to about Day 5 I think. That's the step when you're supposed to buy new clothes. I was broke so I couldn't. There is a lot of good stuff in there, but it starts out with really simple exercises for people who cannot approach at all. And there are a few exercises that are obsolete, like dialing wrong numbers and claiming you were dialing MoviePhone so you're supposed to ask the stranger for a movie recommendation. Now who the hell uses MoviePhone anymore? | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 05:25 PM |
| 1 | I made a Discord channel for the users of this subreddit. I hope it helps to grow the community and help each others!I'm not convinced Discord has adequate security of users to prevent doxing. Also Discord as a platform has a bad reputation due to use by neonazis etc. We're working on other solutions, for example, Reddit is beta testing a chat system now. | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 03:59 PM |
| 1 | I made a Discord channel for the users of this subreddit. I hope it helps to grow the community and help each others!We have repeatedly asserted that seddit is not doing Discord. We have serious concerns about that platform and are researching other alternatives. | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 12:50 PM |
| 1 | When a woman slates her ex/current bf and say's to you...It's a shit test. | /r/seduction | 16/12/17 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Does being mysterious attract women?Maybe it does, and maybe it doesn't. | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Tom Torero is a Thief | Street Hustle Book Review - Days of GameYour personal grievances and accusations have no place in seddit. No axe grinding permitted. No matter whether your claims are legitimate or not, we cannot allow seddit to be used for attacking other people. | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 12:20 AM |
| 3 | What would you consider a telltale sign that a girl isn’t mature?I apologize, perhaps I set the wrong tone for this post when I commented, but I was telling the truth. Even worse, it was a girlfriend of mine. However, this does not excuse rape and pedophilia jokes. seddit has a zero tolerance policy for these jokes, which I am not going to enforce today since you're all goddam idiots. Don't give me an excuse to swing the banhammer, because I will. | /r/seduction | 14/12/17 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to live on this planet anymore! #JeffyIsRight! #gangsterYOU CAN'T BE HALF A GANGSTER! But you can be a halfwit. | /r/seduction | 14/12/17 03:28 PM |
| 2 | The cold is making it hard to approach women,not a lot of people are on the streets. Any one can relateHey shut the door! Were you born in a barn? I'm not paying to heat all of the outdoors. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 01:53 AM |
| 54 | What would you consider a telltale sign that a girl isn’t mature?Doing a lap dance on someone who is so drunk he peed his pants and puked on his shirt. Don't laugh, I've seen it happen. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 12:19 AM |
| 3 | How do I️ seduce two girls that are friends?Start with the woman you like the most. That is probably all you will get. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What happened to this subreddit? Real question, not just whining.What happened is people constantly shitposted stuff like this. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 02:07 AM |
| 2 | I need some one to explain what's wrong with meIt's because you didn't want anything from the women. If it was two men sitting there, you would have done the same thing. But when you want to approach a women for social interaction, you can't help but let your mind race forward to the times you get what you want from her, and how you could blow it and none of that would happen. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Guys, stop deleting your fucking posts...Yeah, I can see why people would hassle you. The Internet is not your personal playground for pissing people off. I'm going to save seddit future hassles and just deal with it. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 07:52 PM |
| 1 | random tip #11Random tip #14: learn to count to 14. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Need tips - going soloTake him out and tell all the girls it only hurts when he laughs. Someone did that to me, I laughed so much that I ripped out my stitches. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Need tips - going soloI've done it before, I found some guy with an arm in a cast at a bar moping over a beer. I told him, let's go talk to those girls, I'll introduce you, you're going to be my old pal who just got back from Afghanistan, what's your name now? The girls didn't believe us, but they thought it was hilarious and the set was hooked. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | HEARD BEST LIFE ADVICE TODAY (especially with women)/r/no | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 01:44 AM |
| 8 | Need tips - going soloTake your wingman out anyway. I guarantee the women will love his cast. Blatantly lie to them in an opener, tell them he broke his arm parachuting into a hot landing zone in Afghanistan and he was the only one who made it out alive. | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 08:35 PM |
| 7 | If you have a gut feeling someone is into you, is that usually the case.Gut Feeling | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 01:44 AM |
| 4 | How do you call out a girl that won't stop going on and on about herself?"Aaaaand now back to me." | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 10:31 PM |
| 1 | 100 percent nonverbal game?Gambler (Richard La Ruina) is the master of nonverbal game, watch his video The Formula for Night Game. In particular, be sure to watch the live demo with a woman somewhere in the middle of the video. | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls when you dont drink or smoke(pot)?Are you smoking them up and buying drinks? That makes it look like you're trying to buy a woman's interest and affection. That doesn't feel attractive to women. | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Short Article I Wrote About How Use Classic Literature, Film And Nature To Get Laid.I was curious about the Greek image you posted at the start of the article. I did an image search and found the image commonly used as an example of homosexual imagery in ancient Greek art. It was probably described as a gay icon on whatever website you took the image from. However, it was easy for me as someone highly trained in art history to identify it. The image is from a Greek kylix in the collection of the Museum of Fine Art Boston. It depicts a man having sex with a woman. This is not cl… | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 12:55 PM |
| 3 | How to transform? Need help here!Transformation using matrices. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 11:22 PM |
| 3 | You're supposed to not filter yourself when you talk, but you end up saying stupid shit that turns people off.I suggest you filter yourself when you talk so you don't say stupid shit that turns people off. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Twitch Pickup Self Amusement Compilation #2The more important question is, which parts do YOU find antisocial or offensive? | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 08:55 PM |
| 3 | I hereby predict that game will come full circle - back to MM/routinesI think the MM has always been defining the PUA world. Every system is either a variation of it, or a rejection of it (and thus defining it). If you look at early commercial products by RSD, it all starts with a rejection of MM and declares itself "natural game" and then goes on to define a structured game very similar to MM. I still recommend the original definition of MM, "The Venusian Arts Handbook," which is long out of print but was widely circulated and is probably still available if you l… | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Twitch Pickup Self Amusement Compilation #2There is a big difference between "self amusement" and "being an antisocial asshole." The seddit moderators are never amused by this type of video. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 01:51 PM |
| 21 | I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA)I don't expect you to answer every question, I don't think that is even possible in a typical Reddit AMA. So far your coverage has been beyond expectations, but we don't want you to get stretched too thin. So feel free to focus on questions that you think give you the greatest opportunity to offer something useful to everybody. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 01:16 AM |
| 1 | 5'6 150lbs how can I be more Dom?You should post your AMA questions as comments within the AMA thread: https://redd.it/7i0n5a | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 08:59 PM |
| 2 | I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA)Can everyone stick to pickup related questions please? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 08:46 PM |
| – | AMA with Todd Valentine, Wed. December 6, 3PM ESTThe AMA is live now, so this thread is locked. Please direct all your questions here. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 08:07 PM |
| 2 | She says she will bring a girl friend along. What do you think?Well, not in the long term, necessarily. But it is a logistics breaker for that night. She has to take her friend home, or her friend has to take her home. In either case, they're probably going home together. But if the friend approves, she'll practically push you together. Maybe she'll let your date go home with you that night. But it's unlikely. Maybe she'll come alone next time. | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | She says she will bring a girl friend along. What do you think?Sometimes women want to use the "buddy system" when meeting a stranger. It's just a safety measure in case you're an axe murderer or something. You aren't an axe murderer, are you? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Bad date? No problem, we’re gonna make tonight a successI can't add images with a reddit text post, which is why everything is on imgur. Yes you can. Just use the imgur pic as a direct link, everyone uses software like Reddit Enhancemenbt Suite to make them into "expandos" that automatically show up inline: /r/Enhancement | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 02:02 PM |
| 17 | Library Date is too QuietShhhh. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Is it seduction or am I just psychoseddit is not a place to sneer at other peoples' spiritual beliefs. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 10:03 PM |
| 2 | In the movie Brooklyn (2015), the guy inundates the girl with letters for a year and she doesn't reply until the end of the year. They end up moving in together. Why do people here say to give up and move on with abundance mentality if she doesn't give you an indicator of interest after a few weeks?Because it's a movie. It's fiction. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 05:19 PM |
| 2 | I'M TERRIFIED OF WOMENThey have cooties. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | My (unsuccessful) attempts to pick up women are causing me to ditch my responsibilities and get bad grades.Yes, this is true, after college you will rarely be in an environment with so many single people exactly your own age. But look at it a different way. You can make social mistakes here and it doesn't follow you for the rest of your life. So don't be afraid to get beyond your comfort zone and screw up. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 03:34 PM |
| 2 | AMA with Todd Valentine, Wed. December 6, 3PM ESTAMA = Ask Me Anything. It is a question and answer session on Reddit. To see it, come to /r/seduction at 3PM EST on December 6. There will be a new post by Todd where you can ask questions. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth pursuing girls with strong , different political opinions?I will offer two pieces of advice. Stop making sweeping generalizations like "victim status girls." Listen to some feminists. I learned a LOT from feminists. Some radical feminists have been strong supporters of the seduction community. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:21 AM |
| 1 | [Exposing] Fake coach and scammer Frank Haro form Pickup DecodedI understand your very reasonable urge to bust a scam, but we can't really allow this sort of thing on seddit. Unfortunately we had a lot of false accusations so we had to clamp down and prohibit all these complaints. We can't be arbiters of whose complaints are legit. I wish I had a better solution for you, but if you see questionable activities from this specific guy in seddit, please contact me directly. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How to react to a girl apologizing for not responding?No. You let it go. If she presses, you just say, "I'm still thinking about it." | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 10:41 PM |
| 4 | AMA with Todd Valentine, Wed. December 6, 3PM ESTNo this is not the AMA post. The AMA will be posted on December 6. | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How to react to a girl apologizing for not responding?"I'll let you know how you can make it up to me." | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 05:50 PM |
| 10 | My (unsuccessful) attempts to pick up women are causing me to ditch my responsibilities and get bad grades.Well get your shit together. Women aren't worth screwing up your life. Our goal here in seddit is not to get women, it is to create a lifestyle and an attitude that attracts women naturally. You can't do that if you're a failure at life. | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Female Seduction GameThis is one of the general theories of "the game." Women are well experienced in playing the game, while men often don't even realize it's a game, let alone know the rules. Most women have constant exposure to men approaching and thus are well experienced in deflecting or accepting an approach, unlike men who rarely approach. | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 06:40 PM |
| 13 | AMA with Todd Valentine, Wed. December 6, 3PM ESTPlease hold your questions for the AMA, don't post them here in this thread. | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 03:26 PM |
| -1 | It's time to love mommyI saw your mommy | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 06:59 PM |
| 2 | What are some Movies/TV shows that emulates realistic examples of charisma, wit, and ultimately seduction?realistic examples None. Movies and TV are fiction. If you are seeking media fantasies to be an example to follow, that is why your game is screwed up. Your goal should be to remove those implanted ideas from your psyche. | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Accidentally told her that "I had a million thoughts" when I saw her. She's asking like what? How do I respond to this without spilling my guts out to her?No. Not unless you're both in the same algebra class. Don't beat the joke to death. | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 07:37 PM |
| 5 | 28 years old female virginDerailing a thread is not helpful. You only started the derail, others continued it.. until now. Stop digging a hole for yourself. | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 07:33 PM |
| 7 | 28 years old female virginThat is quite enough of a useless debate over definitions. It is not your place to define other people's philosophy. Knock it off. | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 07:29 PM |
| 16 | Accidentally told her that "I had a million thoughts" when I saw her. She's asking like what? How do I respond to this without spilling my guts out to her?A thought: log(xy) = log(x) + log(y) | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 07:26 PM |
| 47 | 28 years old female virginReframe that question: "I can't form healthy emotional attachments with people." There are plenty of men and women, who are accomplished and live a great life, but still can't convey that to the opposite sex in a way that they find emotionally compelling or attractive. You can learn how to do that. | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Penis size - very important I believeDude you need to take a break from online and work out your problems. | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Are my standards too high?There is a PUA theory that women's value is "front-loaded" but men's value is mostly below the surface. Much of this is an over-simplified generalization, but it has some truth. A woman's beauty or social skills can be apparent almost immediately, but a man's value (including traditional values like ability to provide, fortitude, intelligence) are completely invisible and only become apparent if you interact at length. | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Where to find personal image dressing advisor/guide in the Bay Area. (Before seduction or just even for a simple presentation at work)Go to Nordstrom's. Ask for a personal shopping assistant. It's free. | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 12:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you rate this approach idea?Thanks. I appreciate your understanding. seddit generally tries to lay low and not engage with other groups that have traditionally been hostile to the entire topic of PUA. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you rate this approach idea?The moderators disapprove of crosslinking posts between subreddits. It incites drama. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 06:19 PM |
| 3 | How do you rate this approach idea?I think you rehearsed those lines with an imaginary woman in your head. In reality it will not work the way you expect. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 04:29 PM |
| 203 | Im hitting the club solo in less than an hour. Give me your best last minute advice.I advise you to put your phone away and focus on people. | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Question about girlMaybe she likes her dentist. | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | AIDA Advertising approach to pick up?Oh for fuck's sake. You want to use an advertising method from the 19th century? The first PUA systems were based on psychology and marketing techniques from the mid 1980s. Robert Cialdini was very influential with early PUAs. And even this is relatively obsolete now. | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 03:21 AM |
| 2 | I'm 18 and a freshman in college. Older men of this sub, give me advice.I advise you to invoke your right to remain silent. I advise you to stop and smell the roses. I advise you to live fast, die young, and leave a beautiful corpse. I advise you to stay calm and not panic. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 11:52 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Men Shouldn't Chase Women. You Are The Prize. Advice For The Upscale ManDon't feed the trolls. Especially MRA/MGTOW trolls. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 11:46 PM |
| -1 | Why does everyone assume pickup is about manipulation?We ask that all sedditors refrain from crosslinking to groups like /askwomen. You are stirring up a hornet's nest. Let them think PUAs are manipulative. No problem. They will focus on the clumsy chumps while the real skilled guys slide in underneath their radar. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Questions for the SALESMAN of this Subreddit... Never before asked!I haven't worked in sales in many years. I made good money but I was never into it for the money. I worked mostly tech sales and I carefully picked clients. I still am very selective about who I work with. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Questions for the SALESMAN of this Subreddit... Never before asked!I am just waking up to morning coffee so I'll just put in a quick opinion based on my (far too many) years in sales. Nobody ever bought something because you had the best price or best product or quickest delivery. They buy because you made them comfortable buying it from YOU. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Is the 33/33/33 rule true?That's the old stoplight system, green/yellow/red. I think that goes back to the olden days with Neil Strauss. The reason it's a stoplight metaphor is because the signals can change. A yellow light/indifferent woman may become green light if you attract her. Red lights at best might become yellow, you have to get to yellow before you get to green. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Media and Sexual MisconductParanoia will destroy ya. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How does a singles tour feel like?It's a scam. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Sexy women are never geniuses?A girl and her tokamak | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Men have lost Mischievous energyI understand your opinion here, but the mods set a standard for posts like this. It posts the primary content within seddit, with a link at the end. We find this much preferable to just blind outbound links. This is a compromise we will have to live with. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 01:19 AM |
| 5 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...Since you were condescending, I don't see why I shouldn't be when your advice was basically thin air. Look, I took time out of my life to actually listen to your music. So if you want help, I suggest you listen to people who have listened to your presentation. Don't get too offended at my deliberate offense at your music. Sometimes you have to hit someone hard to get their attention before they will listen. Your music is a reflection of your life condition. If you fill your head with psytrance, … | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 10:15 PM |
| 5 | [Longer Post...*really*] Needed to get this out of my system...I haven't met a single person yet who's really into something like this Well that's not terribly surprising, you have shitty taste in music. Sounds like '70s Italodisco. Maybe you should hang around with some 60 year old Italian ladies. But that is not important. It is more important that you are aware of your dissatisfaction with life and how your problems affect your social relationships. Unfortunately, you have some image of how your life ought to be, and since it isn't like that NOW, you are… | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I need more assumption ideas and non-boring questionsYou didn't understand the implications of my comment. They are ALL boring questions. Every woman has had an endless supply of chumps trying to "get to know her" using job interview questions. Don't be a chump. | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Fair Interview?Absolutely. Piers Morgan is a racist sexist pig. | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I need more assumption ideas and non-boring questionsWhere do you work? Why did you leave your last place of employment? How would you rate yourself on this fiscal year's performance report? Do you have references? What is your salary requirement? | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 05:40 PM |
| 1 | A new discord for pickup and seductionI told you once before, seddit is not doing discord. The moderators disapprove of self-created external resources that depend on seddit for an audience. We are not satisfied with discord security. Do this again and you'll get banned. Attempts to circumvent moderator actions are a bannable offense. | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 02:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you change a mustache from a liability to an asset when dating or hooking up?Look at this fucking hipster. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 08:21 PM |
| 12 | How do you change a mustache from a liability to an asset when dating or hooking up?Shave it off. And while you're at it, get a haircut, hippie. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | A new discord for pickup & seductionIt doesn't exist because the moderators do not approve of it. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How saying hi to everyone lead me to meet a famous actorIt appears you have never seen David Letterman's show. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 10:08 PM |
| 17 | How saying hi to everyone lead me to meet a famous actorBrushes with Greatness. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | 52 [M4F] Arizona - Is this site any good?It's a scam. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls keep asking if I 'Do this with all girls'...LOL it's a more successful strategy to make them do the work. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 04:20 AM |
| 4 | My friend is obsessed with a girlHe has problems, but you can't fix them. You can try to intervene, you can try to shield him from the consequences of his own actions, it won't help and it will deprive him of his human dignity. You have to allow him to fail on his own and learn his lessons. If you think this fellow is a risk to himself, you need to leave that to licensed medical and mental health professionals. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 03:02 AM |
| 15 | Why do girls keep asking if I 'Do this with all girls'...Women have heard every conceivable version of "you're cute" from every damn chump she meets. Don't be a chump. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 10:33 PM |
| 25 | Why do girls keep asking if I 'Do this with all girls'...Don't. That's rapport seeking behavior, you're flattering the girl. That is not how you pass a shit test. You need rapport-breaking response to break out of her frame. Her: How many girls have you done this move on? Him: What do you mean, how many tonight? Just a few dozen. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Do women tend to have stronger bitch shield when there are more people at home than you and her?Most women don't like being observed while they are being seduced. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Works concerning posture and appearanceThe most commonly cited work on body language here in seddit is "What Every BODY Is Saying" which was written by an FBI profiler and has extensive notes on authority postures (e.g. standing with legs spread with hands on hips). I would also suggest looking into "The Alexander Technique" which has some introductory videos on Youtube. It was a technique developed for actors to improve their posture so they could project their voices more clearly. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 05:49 PM |
| -1 | I hate the way this sub has goneThank you Miss Sunshine. When life gives you lemons, shit on them and make shitade. Right now you have a spot on the front page. And you used it to shitpost instead of making a positive contribution. You could have found some post from 1-2 years ago and analyzed why it was good and posted that. This is where I draw a line. I can make seddit a better place with one simple thing: your absence. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Am I unnatarctive??Don't interact with trolls. He has posted this hundreds of times. He isn't interested in an answer. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 03:56 AM |
| -2 | I hate the way this sub has goneseddit is what you make it. If seddit sucks, it's because you made it suck. What have you done for seddit lately? Besides complain, that is. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 03:54 AM |
| 18 | What do you guys think is the most effective way to text?What do you guys think is the most effective way to text? Some people like using the two thumbs method, but I prefer to just use my index finger alone. | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 04:04 PM |
| 7 | Right now. First time trying to pick up girls at a bar. Tips?Right now: put your phone away. | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Confident VoiceSearch seddit for the keyword "voice". I wrote a couple of posts with links to WSJ and Toastmasters materials for voice improvement. There will certainly be other posts you will find of interest. | /r/seduction | 16/11/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Writing an Essay on the Manosphere and the Seduction Community - Please Tell Me Your Experience/r/seduction is not part of the "manosphere." /r/seduction is not your research resource. | /r/seduction | 16/11/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to save your virginity till marriage?I warned you to refrain from calling other peoples' morality "stupid." We do not taunt other people with assertions of our moral superiority. Period. | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to save your virginity till marriage?It's not wrong, but it's pointless and stupid This sort of opinion is unacceptable in seddit. Sure we may have our opinions on sexuality, they may even be quite different from conventional or even conservative sexual norms. But it is absolutely unacceptable to look down on someone because their sexual decisions are different than yours. That is slutshaming, even if you're shaming them for being puritannical or conservative. You would not like it if someone slutshamed you for being a pickup artis… | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 04:49 PM |
| 4 | What is a good comeback to a woman brushing off this opener?That's a pickup line. We don't use pickup lines. Pickup lines don't work. The reason this doesn't work is that the woman can say "no" and your opener is completely dead in its tracks. A good opener can proceed regardless of how the woman responds. | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | What's a good answer to "How is Tinder working for you?""It's being going well ever since we matched ;)" Tryhard: trying too hard for rapport. (how many girls you have been with etc) A classic shit test. "What do you mean, like how many today? Only a few." | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 05:30 PM |
| 8 | Why do I always go from getting no girls to being on a roll.When you're hot, you're hot When you're not, you're not. | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Looks are all that matters.Don't respond to trolls. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 11:54 PM |
| 7 | I’m a recovering heroin addict and one of the main rules of rehab was to abstain from relationships for at least one year.As you well know, if it was just a matter of willpower, you could have quit any time you wanted. Try to reconnect with the program, you shouldn't have to go it alone. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 08:42 PM |
| 7 | Can leaving your 20s be a handicap?You are at an ideal age. And the ideal time is always today. You are a rarity, a hot commodity in a scarce market: unmarried guys with maturity and life experience. If anything, women will be intimidated and think you are out of their league. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 08:37 PM |
| 6 | I’m a recovering heroin addict and one of the main rules of rehab was to abstain from relationships for at least one year.I have a feeling we're going to get this question a lot. We already have. Ask your sponsor about "the 13th Step." Tell him you're not fully committed to the program, and that because of this, you would rather die a junkie's death than achieve sobriety. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | First Conversation and Seduction by James Bond Casino RoyaleThis would be useful if you were a fictional character in a big budget movie. But we are not. So these hollywood fantasies just fill your head with bullshit. This is why your game sucks. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Need help gaming girls in Alcoholics anonymous.Ask your sponsor why the 13th Step is a bad idea. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Help: I Can Get a Girl To Bed, But I Personally Struggle w/Penetration - How Do I Improve?Well normal amounts usually obtained through diet are healthy. But this type of supplement of a fundamental mineral should be done under the advisement of licensed medical personnel. Usually they will find a deficiency with blood tests and make a specific recommendation. But as with all things in life, everything has its benefits and risks, it's a medical tradeoff, and one that we are not really trained to make for ourselves. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Help: I Can Get a Girl To Bed, But I Personally Struggle w/Penetration - How Do I Improve?I suggest you avoid having sex on a full stomach. It doesn't matter what you eat, but you get fuller, heavier sensations from fatty foods like Pizza. Nobody likes bumping around on their bellies with a full stomach. Also stay hydrated. Pause for water if necessary. You can get sweaty and lose enough water to make ejaculation difficult. Offer her some water too. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Help: I Can Get a Girl To Bed, But I Personally Struggle w/Penetration - How Do I Improve?Maybe so, but this is one of the most extensive topics discussed in the /r/sex FAQ. I think the issue here is psychological. It sometimes takes time to become comfortable with a sex partner. I remember my first time with my first girlfriend, I got hard but could not come, finally I was exhausted and gave up. It was just nervousness. The second time around, I did much better. You really need a partner who is as interested in your pleasure, as you are interested in hers. Then you will take care of… | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Help: I Can Get a Girl To Bed, But I Personally Struggle w/Penetration - How Do I Improve?After that, phone a Canadian pharmacy and you can get generics mailed for about a dollar per pill, which can also be split. Don't bother with Canadian pill peddlers. You can get sildenafil 20mg for $1.30 each at Costco, as low as $0.71 each with an online coupon from some place like GoodRx. You don't have to be a Costco member to use their pharmacy. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Help: I Can Get a Girl To Bed, But I Personally Struggle w/Penetration - How Do I Improve?seddit prohibits promotion of sketchy supplements. In this particular case, you should not use that particular supplement since it can cause loss of sense of smell and taste. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | So I recently realized I friendzoned my crush.That's a classic neg from old school game. Him: You're my fifth most favorite friend. Her: Fifth!?! Him: You could do better. Actually, I think I'm going to demote you to sixth. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:09 AM |
| 3 | So I recently realized I friendzoned my crush."You're my fifth most favorite friend." | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:05 AM |
| 1 | I’m in a club. Help.Put your phone away. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | So she caught me looking from a large distance and started smiling now what?Women also know when you're checking them out and are too timid to approach. So don't delay too long. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 11:33 PM |
| 1 | So she caught me looking from a large distance and started smiling now what?Well the gym is more like "social circle game" if you see the same people over and over. You don't have to push escalation if there will always be a next time. I don't think it will do any good to call attention to their presentation with "RBF" or even to do anything different. But like I said, as long as they are smiling when you talk to them, you're fine. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 10:16 PM |
| 1 | So she caught me looking from a large distance and started smiling now what?Nothing to be sorry about, it was just ambiguously worded. You can deal with it however you like. For example, I saw one woman in a noisy, busy club, she was sitting there quietly by herself, staring off into space with a mild case of RBF, I approached and said with a smirk, "Excuse me, I'm going to have to ask you to CALM DOWN!" She laughed and the set was opened. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 03:09 AM |
| 1 | So she caught me looking from a large distance and started smiling now what?What, you mean ME having RBF? People have sometimes commented I have RBF, but I'm just rapt in thought. Other people's faces, I don't care as long as I can make them smile. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 01:13 AM |
| 1 | A girl I’ve been seeing is texting another guy. I saw he sent a text making a date with her. How should I handle this?You have two choices: Ignore it. Move on. Somehow I think you'll pick None Of The Above: get upset about it. | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 09:04 PM |
| 3 | So she caught me looking from a large distance and started smiling now what?This. Eye contact and a smile is an approach invitation. All you have to do is say hello. | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 08:59 PM |
| 2 | A girl I’ve been seeing is texting another guy. I saw he sent a text making a date with her. How should I handle this?Women are not your property. It is not your decision whether to "share" them. | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Do girls like it when you tell them what to do?seddit is where we discuss the principles and practices of pickup. Do you have something positive to add? Or are you just here to criticize? | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 08:19 PM |
| 8 | Do girls like it when you tell them what to do?I am giving you prototypes, backed up by legit theories. If you don't like it, don't use it. But I do this easily, without having to obsess over word choice. You can be direct, or you can be wishy washy and beg for a girl's attention. Your choice. | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 07:53 PM |
| 26 | Do girls like it when you tell them what to do?Yeah but this still ends with a question. That is rapport-seeking behavior which is often perceived as needy. But a suggestion assumes compliance. Better: "We should go out for a drink when you get off work Friday." | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 04:26 PM |
| 2 | I need help getting past the nervous/silliness of being sexy for myself and my husband before planned new exploration comes upMaybe it's appropriate here, this is related to a topic we call "sexual confidence." Some of that confidence is gained from experience. But if we hold back our true desires, we may be lacking the confidence that our partner might accept our strange desires. But your partner might also have desires HE is hesitant to bring up. You never know until you try. I suggest you watch this video by Dan Savage, "GGG: Good, Giving, and Game." I think the main point here is Game. You have to be up for anythin… | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 04:17 PM |
| 55 | Do girls like it when you tell them what to do?There is a common theory that using direct statements is the way we talk to friends that we are familiar with, rather than asking questions. We already know how they are likely to respond, and assume it. We don't usually talk to them by asking questions. So talking to women with that direct tone establishes a sense of familiarity. For example, compare these two invitations: Do you want to go out for a drink? Are you free Friday? We should go out for a drink this Friday. | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 04:08 PM |
| 0 | How can people recommend RSD as a valid resource after reading the Game?People change. Remember that The Game is a semi-autobiographical novel, it is not entirely fiction, not entirely true. As a novel, Neil Strauss needed a protagonist (himself) versus villains to create drama. Strauss clearly admitted that not all the events in the book are realistic depictions of events. | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 12:56 PM |
| 1 | If Your Frustrated About Your Shitty Results, READ THIS....Rajneesh was a fucking terrorist and I mean that in the most literal sense, he directed the use of weapons of mass destruction and murdered people to achieve his goals. Rahneesh is no spiritual guru, even if his cult tries to repackage it under a different name like Osho. | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Material things and DSVThose aren't DHVs, you're getting your jargon mixed up. Those are called "attraction triggers." | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Material things and DSVPeople with high value don't have to prove it by their high priced toys. Example: Jonny Ive has a chauffeur driven Bentley. That is congruent with his sensibility as a designer, he collects cars. Tim Cook has a BMW 5 series sedan (MSRP max $75k). | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 10:25 PM |
| 6 | What are you favourite sex games?I like to play hide the sausage. | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 09:09 PM |
| 2 | How can you escalate on a girl?how is babby formed | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Nancy Friday, author of "My Secret Garden" has died.It is worth reading this NYTimes Obituary: Nancy Friday, 84, Best-Selling Student of Gender Politics, Dies I've posted this story with a link to a very old interview by Tom Snyder for a few specific reasons. First, this dates to sometime in 1981, which was a very different time than today. Even the concept of interviewing women about sexuality was considered radical, and this interview was so controversial that it ran on the Tomorrow Show which started at midnight. But even today, Nancy Friday's… | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Where are good places to meet women that are not the usual clubs or bars?/r/world | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Discord ChatWe're not doing discord chat. Reddit has a chat system in beta. | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 01:19 AM |
| 6 | How to get a guy to have sex with meStickied. This sort of tryhard posting by lurkers happens a lot on weekends. | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Oklahoma Just Repealed a Law That Outlawed the Seduction of 'Unmarried Females'It was illegal to seduce single women in Oklahoma. Now it isn't. | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 04:40 PM |
| – | How to get a guy to have sex with meAs usual for threads involving women, I am appalled at the ignorant, snarky "advice" given here. If you cannot connect your comments with solid pickup theories and skills, don't post them. I want those shitposters to consider something carefully: you are trying too hard to get approval from the invisible audience of seddit. You are desperate for attention and approval, we call this "tryhard." It is repellent to women. This is why you fail with women. If you cannot make useful comments that illus… | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Strange thingsNow dear friends wtf is this? WTF this is, is that you have not yet learned that ultimatums do not work. Insanity is repeating the same actions and expecting different results. | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 11:24 PM |
| 7 | How do you flirt with someone without coming across as weirdly awkward and creepy?Also look up "duchenne smile." | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t my hairline receding and no girls ever like me...He's a troll. Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | A warning for OKCupid users: Orwellian police presentThe methods you use as a conservative troll on Reddit are not appropriate in the real world or even as social interactions online with other human beings who have a reasonable expectation of civilized behavior. Paranoia will destroy ya. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Do I look different than this 3 months pic? Or is it just my hair length?He's a troll. You're wasting your time. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:17 AM |
| 1 | how to neg and lie without coming off as a dickThere is a concept known as "congruence." If you act in a way that is congruent with who you are, then you come off as an authentic person. You cannot adopt a persona that isn't you, and lie about who you are. Women can smell the incongruence. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Virgin and depressed about how unnatarctive I am to girls...This guy is a troll. Don't interact with trolls. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:14 AM |
| 1 | A warning for OKCupid users: Orwellian police presentWell there are a lot of creepy guys on the internet ..and he's one of them. | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 01:11 AM |
| 3 | I’m a virgin and depressed about my lack of attractiveness to girls...This guy is a troll, we call him "Ugly Face Guy." Don't feed the trolls. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Is being direct about that I want to go on a date is bad?Sometimes if you press someone for a date, they have to decide up front if they want to date you. That is too much pressure to apply so early. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 11:41 AM |
| 8 | HELLO ADMINS! WHAT ABOUT A WEEKLY IMPROVEMENT THREAD ??Admins are a bit above my rank of Moderator.. I'm trying to get some time to work on new features like automatic scheduled posts but I have other priorities to take care of first. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Do I look worse than a year ago?He's not interested in anything you say. This guy is a troll who has posted these pics thousands of times, in dozens of separate subreddits, from new reddit accounts every time. Don't feed the trolls. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Negging is on sale at the grocery storeYes, it's a racist thing. I guess in this case, just a normal case of irrational insanity. | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Older Girl Hating on Younger Girl?Some women are terribly antagonistic towards other women in the workplace. Merely to keep peace in the workplace, I would opt out of these conversations by shutting them down, perhaps you could say something direct but not too antagonistic, "I don't want to participate in any unprofessional criticism of my colleagues." | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Negging is on sale at the grocery storeWell, I do recall once in Tokyo, I was walking through a crowded walkway a few steps behind some particularly beautiful women, ahead there was an older guy sitting on a railing. He stuck out his leg in an attempt to trip the woman closest to him, she swerved but bumped into his knee while stepping over, and he growled "onna" (Woman!) in a throaty tone I can demonstrate (with difficulty) and nobody believes me that someone could be that insulting. Who knows what motivates some asshole like that? … | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 11:25 AM |
| 2 | What is the name of this dating coach/pua I'm thinking of?I was thinking of Steve P until you mentioned the blonde buzz cut. Steve P is an idiot. | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How good would you say the mystery method is?I still think MM is fundamental knowledge for anybody trying to understand pickup. But you must realize it was specifically created for women with self-perceived high value, the infamous HB9 and HB10s. These are not indexes of beauty, but of how the woman views herself and expects to be treated in social environments. They have high social barriers so the MM is very indirect and attempts to interact without engaging their defensiveness. I still like the M3 model, that each seduction goes through… | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 07:13 PM |
| 1 | "Dandies are supremely impudent. They don't give a damn about other people, and never try to please." Discussion plzDude. Dandies were like 350 years ago. | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Can anyone help me on how to overcome painful experience I had with a girl.There is an old (bad) joke, "A slut is a girl who will sleep with anyone except you." But I never heard of anyone thinking a woman is a slut because she wanted to sleep with you. Women want someone who won't judge them. You can stop that "slut" stuff right now. It is exactly why you fail. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Talking With Kong From Simple Pickup | Exchanging Crazy StoriesSimple Pickup is banned from seddit due to antisocial stunts. Don't join them. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Can Anyone Expand On “Just Be Yourself”It's advice given by people who have no idea what they're talking about. It is a cliche based on widespread cultural beliefs, just the sort of social conditioning that makes us fail. There are plenty of great people who are "being themselves" but have no idea how to make an emotional connection with other people. That is something we can help with. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 06:00 PM |
| 4 | I don't have the balls to do daygame, what's the best advice for you?Testicle Implants - Are They Right For You? | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Where do you go other than bars to meet women?/r/world | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 10:47 AM |
| 5 | What is the best compliment to give a girl?tl,dr; After just more than a minute of preening for the camera, the answer is given, "You're actually a lot cooler than I thought you'd be" Most people have moved on from negging. | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | FR: I recovered from a bipersonality ex and replaced her, but I don’t feel developed as a PUA.That's called "confirmation bias." They are telling you what you want to hear. | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 10:23 PM |
| 8 | I'm an exchange student in Japan and I'm having trouble meeting women and getting laid.Japanese people (not just women) have a complex cultural attitude towards Americans. Some of it comes from the poor English teaching in Japan, all students study English but few are fluent to even a slight degree. So if you talk to women in English, they are likely to be hesitant since they do not want to embarrass themselves. And Americans aren't so attuned to Japanese cultural subtleties, there are many standardized social interactions, and if you do something unpredictable (by Japanese social… | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 11:52 AM |
| 1 | InstaConnection by SquattinCasanova is a SCAM. Don't buy it.We saw this coming, which is why he was banned from seddit a long LONG time ago. But even negative publicity is publicity. We generally have a prohibition on attacking specific PUAs, so if you have an axe to grind, we suggest you take it elsewhere. Sorry, no matter how much he deserves to take some shit, it sets a bad precedent in seddit. So we have removed your post. I suggest you dispute the charges with your credit card. It may be troublesome, but if he gets enough chargebacks, the credit car… | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 11:48 AM |
| 2 | When I tease/flirt with girls they actually take it kind of personally/become defensive and not in a "playful" way?When they take teasing personally, it is time for error recovery: flip the script. "Aw, now you're making me feel bad. In my family we teased each other to show our affection." Mehow had a video on Youtube somewhere about error recovery, that's where I heard this. | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Uk was her grooming advice of me a personal attack?Don't feed the trolls. The poster is "Ugly Face Guy," he is a persistent troll and is banned on sight. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Watch How I React To Getting Rejected Countless Times - Infield BreakdownI have looked at this user and I'm considering the situation. I don't see any actions worth immediate banning, despite the somewhat spammy self-promotion. But we are often more lenient when someone makes a legitimate effort to freely provide new content. I will continue to monitor and take action as necessary. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 03:13 AM |
| 10 | Friendzoned with Best Friend, Cut Contact, Now She's Begging for Friendship Back, What Now?No no no. Having a talk to "discuss your feelings" never works. What you are describing is basically a confrontation, even if she really has feelings, she will be defensive and recoil. Trust me I know, I've been there back when I didn't know any better. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 03:10 AM |
| 25 | Friendzoned with Best Friend, Cut Contact, Now She's Begging for Friendship Back, What Now?Some women like "orbiters." One guy drives her around for errands. One guy takes her out to fancy dinners. One guy she cries on his shoulder. One guy she's fucking. None of them knows about the other. But if you try to leave her orbit, she will try to pull you back in so she has a complete planetary system. Some of this behavior is a woman's ego, she is proud of her ability to wrap guys around her little finger. But not all of it is ego. One PUA system calls this type of woman a "tester." She is… | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 03:06 AM |
| 16 | Friendzoned with Best Friend, Cut Contact, Now She's Begging for Friendship Back, What Now?We generally do not allow questions about specific women in specific situations, those questions should be directed to /r/askseddit. But I think in this case, I'll make an exception. You are doing a classic "freeze out." It has a different meaning in other situations, but it applies here. The woman was getting everything she wanted, without you getting anything you wanted. It was appropriate to draw a boundary and freeze her out. Generally you keep her frozen until she re-engages. But here, she … | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 02:57 AM |
| 20 | A girl I went on a date with asked me for advice on how to reject a guy.Don't talk to girls about their problems with men. That's what they talk about with their girlfriends. You will become her girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 07:52 PM |
| 2 | [Deleted] How do I deal with a girl that keeps giving mixed signals in long term?Well I figured you deserved a fuller response than usual, since you went to more trouble to deal with this comment than usual. I vaguely recall that you had this happen before and you reposted your comment as a separate post, which I said was the best way to handle this. But if it's any consolation, I am pretty sure that the OP will see comments to a post, even if the post is deleted by a moderator. I sometimes see a few quick responses (like yours) to a "there's this girl" post and I feel bad f… | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 05:10 PM |
| 2 | [Deleted] How do I deal with a girl that keeps giving mixed signals in long term?Don't get too outraged at the OP. More than likely, one of the moderators deleted the post. Probably it was me. Remember that questions about specific women in specific situations belong in /r/askseddit. /r/seduction is intended for general questions about seduction principles and practices to apply to all women in general. When you write a text post, there is a warning in big red letters saying that posts about specific individual women will be removed. So don't say you weren't warned. The reas… | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Are french kisses seen as childish?It's fine. But don't be too aggressive. Might be a good idea to only use as much tongue as she does. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Never Send A Dick Pic | Richard SpencerI am aware of the specific circumstances this video is about, and it has nothing to do with seddit. Nor does anything else this guy says. As a mod, I have the discretion to draw a line and this is where I'm drawing it. It is well within Reddit policy to prohibit advocacy of violence, which is pretty much the only thing this guy ever does. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Never Send A Dick Pic | Richard SpencerNo, not a neo-nazi, he's a regular Nazi. Posting videos by Nazi provocateurs to seddit will get you banned. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Private Stripper Party - Need Frame AdviceI don't mean to say it is futile, but the odds are against anything happening. There are methods involved in "stripper game" and some of the methods are as you described. But it's more advanced game and hard to pull off. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Private Stripper Party - Need Frame AdviceGame is useless on private strippers who are on the clock. Bring money. LOTS of money. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Are Pickup lines truly Effective or just a myth?Unfortunately, that immediate emotional response will be repulsion. Pickup lines don't work. We don't do pickup lines. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Mom and Son Take On Leading Pick-Up Artist, Arash DibazarEveryone should know better than to engage with trolls, even in real life. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 10:20 AM |
| 3 | I [21M] am staying with a friend [21F] while on vacation. How can I get her to let me bring over women I meet at the bar?Go out with her platonically. Make her your wingwoman. Some women get vicarious enjoyment from seeing other women being seduced. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Mom and Son Take On Leading Pick-Up Artist, Arash DibazarThere is a reason why Arash is banned from this subreddit. He is an embarrassment to himself, let alone cringe inducing to just about everyone. We don't do cringe in seddit. We don't do Arash in seddit. Go pick on someone your own size, beating on Arash is like stealing candy from a baby. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 01:11 AM |
| 3 | The problem with this subredditseddit is what you make it. If you want to see more content about basic social skills, you can make that happen. Ask some good questions that give the community a good angle to respond. This usually means trying to connect your question with the general doctrines we use in this community. If you make an effort to show you are trying to understand the issue, you are more likely to get a good response. I often say that the fundamental concept of the seduction community is that it gives a framework… | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Makes me angry my roommate talks about fucking girls and talking to girls while I can't do either..How can I get better?Your roomie is bullshitting you. I bet he never gets laid. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 02:54 AM |
| 8 | 23 Good Questions to Ask a Girl You Like in Any SituationThat's a general rule in a club, never repeat anything. If you get interrupted, don't repeat yourself or go back to finish your sentence, move on to something else. If someone else wants to hear the rest, they'll ask you to continue. If you do repeat yourself or go back to finish after an interruption, you are killing your own social value because you seem desperate to be heard. Now if you want to lower someone else's value, make them repeat themselves. "What? I couldn't hear you, say that again… | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 01:08 AM |
| 1 | FR: I recovered from a bipersonality ex and replaced her, but I don’t feel developed as a PUA.You seem pretty deep into that red pill crap. It's screwing you up more than your ex-GFs. Forget that stuff, they hate women, and they're just teaching you more bad attitude. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 07:07 PM |
| 59 | 23 Good Questions to Ask a Girl You Like in Any SituationTry not asking any questions. Try direct, leading statements. Bad: Where do you work? Good: I bet you have an exciting job. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:14 PM |
| 2 | There are two ways to "pick-up" women.You attacked a strawman, your image of pickup as you imagine it to be, despite those techniques being long discredited and abandoned. If you have an axe to grind, go grind it elsewhere. Thoughtful critiques of our community are welcome. Your comments are not critiques, they are criticisms and attacks. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 05:58 PM |
| 2 | There are two ways to "pick-up" women.There are two ways to pick up women: your way, or the highway. Don't bother us with your negativity. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Best online resources to improve vocal tonalityI suggest you search seddit using the keyword "voice," where you can find many useful articles including this one I wrote myself. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 05:14 PM |
| 25 | 23 Good Questions to Ask a Girl You Like in Any SituationWhere do you see yourself five years from now? Why did you leave your last job? How would you evaluate your performance during this fiscal year? What is your salary requirement? Do you have professional references? | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | A fun game you bros can play while out.It's failing if it doesn't help you succeed. Enjoying failure conditions you to fail. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 01:48 AM |
| 25 | A little poetic inspirationThere now -- that wasn't very good, was it? This has been another presentation of "Bad Poetry" with Leonard Pinth-Garnell. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | A fun game you bros can play while out.You already know how to fail, you don't need more practice, or rewards for failing. Next time, try to succeed. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?If your direct opening always fails instantly, try something else. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?If a direct approach isn't working, try a more indirect approach, more like old school game. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Talking to girls outside of classChange majors. If you can't change majors, at least take some Humanities courses so you don't turn out to be another antisocial IT guy. There are lots of women in humanities classes. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Attraction, rapport and seductionNo. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 12:30 AM |
| 3 | I think I pinned down what the source of my AA is.There won't be any audience watching the two of you when you're in bed. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 08:05 PM |
| 2 | It's ridiculousI see basically two approaches here: Stop smoking so much weed. Some people claim it causes amotivational syndrome. Find a girl that likes to smoke weed. | /r/seduction | 15/10/17 01:53 PM |
| 15 | Girl during sex: "I can't take too much more" Good or bad?Most women, especially new partners, aren't up for a sex marathon. They don't want an endless pounding. Maybe after they get used to you. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 09:57 PM |
| 8 | You don't need game. All you need is value."Value game" is only one type of game, there are plenty of others. You don't need to DHV. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Will this make me a psychopath?Nothing can make you a psychopath. You either are, or aren't a psychopath. Let's call it a pre-existing condition. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 08:08 PM |
| 11 | How to pull a girl to your place if it's small, sucks and has not even a couch?It's not small, it's "cozy." It's all in how you look at it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 10:21 PM |
| 2 | NYTimes: How to Get and Keep a Bartender's AttentionI posted this mostly because clubs tend to be crowded and there is usually a crush of people at the bar waiting to be served. Also some women judge a guy on how they treat waiters and bartenders, so be nice to them. If you want to have a place to call your own, you'll have to be welcomed by the staff. | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Pandoras box book?It is very useful to know this system that explains womens' basic motivations and how to play to them. But this is more advanced knowledge and not particularly useful to beginners. | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 01:32 AM |
| 2 | NYTimes: How to Get and Keep a Bartender's AttentionYou have to get the drink first. | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 01:30 AM |
| 6 | how to seduce him again? Female needs tipsMuch of seduction theory comes from sales. One particularly relevant idea, the easiest sales come from customers who have bought before. Assume some sort of previous relationship exists and use whatever sales technique worked last time, but accelerated. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how to joke around..timing. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Hung up on the same girl for ~7 yearsDude. You wasted almost a third of your entire life so far, pining away for a girl who does not love you. Move on. You are letting your 17-year-old-Self run your life at age 25. Let it go. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Is it weird to ask a girl, "what part of town you live in?"Where do you live? What is your job? What are your hobbies? What are your salary requirements? Do you have any references? How would you assess your performance during the most recent fiscal year? | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 01:24 AM |
| 2 | [BQ/Tech] Does anyone else have problems with how personal politics influence female sexual selection?I went out with a girl and we were discussing tax increment financing. I expressed my opinion that TIFs should have an term limit so they are not eternal tax breaks. She disagreed, she thought it would be better to have a lower TIF rate than to shorten the term. Of course I could never have sex with someone with such a stupid opinion. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Dating a hot but very abusive girl who is crazy but amazing in bed.Dude you're fifteen, you don't even know what good sex is. Move on. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 01:51 AM |
| 3 | I don't know how to joke aroundThe secret of comedy is | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 12:26 AM |
| 1 | What's "Roll Off"?No, roll off doesn't really mean walk away. At least, not as I understand it. But jargon usage may vary. | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What's "Roll Off"?Well there are a lot of old school concepts around this. One of them is compliance momentum, escalation gets her ready for more escalation. You escalate kino until you hit resistance and back off. This is why gradual escalation is good, it's easier to back off a small move than a big move. You can't just push escalation, you need a little push pull. That's why I like Lovedrop's demo, he talks about how you make intimate touch seem normal to the point where she misses it when you withdraw it. | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Is there an NYC community?I don't live anywhere near NYC so I have no idea. There are lots of pros in NYC but I doubt that's what you're looking for. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What's "Roll Off"?The early days of Mystery and Lovedog mostly focused on night game, but there are general principles you can use almost anywhere. I personally like their concept of rolloff, following an IOI with an IOD. But this is the old school "indirect game" where you don't directly reward a woman with an expression of interest without following up with a disqualifier or other rolloff. I wish the old series by Lance Mason "How To Kino" was still up on Youtube, somebody took it down. It had some great rollof… | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 08:19 PM |
| 8 | "Except there’s a small problem: Women don’t want you to hit on them in public."Women don't want to be approached crudely. But there isn't a woman alive who isn't open to an accidental encounter with a really great guy. If a woman rejects your approach and thinks it's creepy, that just means your approach sucked. She had no time to learn anything about you, so how could she possibly be rejecting you? She was merely rejecting your approach. Fortunately, you can learn how to improve your approach. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 04:06 PM |
| 3 | The best thing you can do right now is purge yourself of pickup artist lingo and vocabularyThe very first hit I looked at discussed framing: How to be truly convincing What kind of frame of reference do most leaders have – internal or external? A truly effective leader has to have a strong internal frame. He wouldn’t be much of a leader if he spent all his time asking people what they thought of something before he took any action. And, as with all metaprograms, there’s an ideal balance to be struck. The second link I tried discussed nonverbal communication: Watching your tone How you… | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 03:48 PM |
| 1 | What's "Roll Off"?Watch Lovedrop's Kino Demo for detailed demonstrations of roll-off in kino. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 03:34 PM |
| 2 | The best thing you can do right now is purge yourself of pickup artist lingo and vocabularyActually, Tony Robbins constantly uses this sort of language, much of the jargon came from the self-help community. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | The best thing you can do right now is purge yourself of pickup artist lingo and vocabularyThe conventional rating system here is the "HB scale." It does not refer to how hot a woman is. It refers to the woman's own sense of value. If she believes she is a high value woman, it is because people treat her that way (possibly due to beauty, but also due to other things) and she expects to be treated that way, so she has very high social barriers. The HB scale was invented by Mystery, for use in a system that treats HB9 and HB10 women far differently than women with less self-assurance. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | The best thing you can do right now is purge yourself of pickup artist lingo and vocabularyLOL you remind me of an old anecdote from NASA, they were worried that the crusty old military pilots would swear over open radio channels being broadcast live on TV. But they gradually discovered, it was the guys who swore and cursed a blue streak that never slipped up and used foul language on an open channel. They had a mental switch to turn it on and off. It was always the polite, nice guys who slipped up and cursed in a moment of stress. They had no filters. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 03:28 PM |
| 5 | The best thing you can do right now is purge yourself of pickup artist lingo and vocabularyNo. The early seduction community grew on the internet around technically oriented men in the computer and aerospace industries. Many of them had never discussed their sexual issues with anyone, not an older brother or father or anyone at all. Some didn't even know how to describe their problems in words. But they all had one thing in common: an understanding of processes and technical language to describe them. So the seduction community provides a language and a framework that helps people dis… | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 03:25 PM |
| 18 | Is it safe to assume that "signs" that a girl likes you are bogus and you should just go for it every time?Always assume attraction. There are only two basic outcomes if you assume she's attracted: You escalate and she rejects you: she's not really attracted. You escalate and she accepts you: she's attracted. In either case, you only find out by escalating and trying to become more intimate. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Is there an NYC community?We have disavowed the NYC lair due to their petty dramas. We do not recommend associating with the NYC lair at this time. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 11:57 AM |
| 5 | What should I do as a beginner?What should I do as a beginner? You should begin. Read the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 01:49 AM |
| 1 | How to be an Alpha Male: Ryan GoslingModerator warning: If you continue to repost crap videos after removal by a moderator, and attempt to override moderator decisions, you are likely to be banned. | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Who should pay for the uber/taxi home after a ONS?You're paying Uber both ways? Maybe she could pay the fare TO your house. But in any case, I'd just forget it and pay the fares, and be glad it's so convenient you can call an Uber and get laid so easily. | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Who should pay for the uber/taxi home after a ONS?The man is responsible for logistics, including getting her home. So cab fare is your responsibility. Of course this is negotiable. But really now, you are already splitting the cost. Or are you paying her cab fare to get TO your house too? | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 12:49 PM |
| 1 | So, how do you answer this question?"Splunge?" | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Improving awarenessSuch as standing there listening to you and not walking away. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 07:18 PM |
| 2 | I'm thinking about introducing a friend to pickup, but I don't know how to approach it.Well don't take the downvotes personally, people downvote everything. Sure we all want the best for our friends, and our impulse to help them out is benevolent and generous. Sometimes we just want to shake up our friends and wake them up to what is going on around them. But they have to gradually develop their consciousness sufficiently to be open to it. Many guys have never discussed their personal and sexual issues with anyone, not their fathers or brothers or whoever. It may embarrass them ev… | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 06:43 PM |
| 2 | The simplest piece of advice I've been given here is to agree and amplifyI'd go a little further (are we agreeing and amplifying?) You're grabbing the frame away from the other person. If you answer within her frame, you acknowledge her framing and you generally lose. If you reject her frame and substitute your own, it puts her off balance. One of the old school principles is the "rapport break." If you're constantly seeking rapport, you tend to suck up to a woman and try to please her, and it can seem desperate. If you break rapport, or at minimum, stop trying to se… | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Improving awarenessI often describe this as the fundamental issue of pickup. Guys do not recognize the signals women give them. Guys do not realize that they are giving signals themselves, unintentionally. The solution is: look and listen. If you think she's giving a signal, she probably is. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 06:12 PM |
| 8 | I'm thinking about introducing a friend to pickup, but I don't know how to approach it.I recommend you do NOT introduce him to pickup. Nothing good ever comes of it. They have to want it for themselves. If you show them the basics, they invariably become cynical about you, and about women. Most guys have to hit bottom and realize they are clueless about women, before they are ready to take action. The only thing you can do is lead by example. Have an amazing life full of great women and he will wonder how you did it. Maybe then you can tell him about it. Maybe. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Is fucking friends "shitting where you eat"Doesn't necessarily have to be a friend. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on holding hands on a date?I recommend you read a post I wrote about holding hands. It's based on some techniques from the classic "60 Years of Challenge" system. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 01:36 PM |
| 1 | The simplest piece of advice I've been given here is to agree and amplifyI say "always" hit her with a white knight compliment, followed by a double neg after she replies to my wk comment and boom I have her digits. That's not agree and amplify, that's bait hook reel release. The basic BHRR theory is that you follow an IOI with a "rolloff," an indicator of disinterest. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Mid 20s, all friends on perm lockdown. How do I join active party social circles?Don't feed the trolls. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Approached a 18 year old girlHey it could be worse. I went back to college in my late 30s. I was going to hit on a woman in my class, she seemed older and more mature than the other students. Turns out she was 16 and the Dean's daughter. Good thing I found that out before I hit on her. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Stylelife Challenge: Stuck on day 4It's been a while since I read that book, but I vaguely recall you're supposed to do this exercise while at a mall or some shopping area where it would seem logical to ask about the nearby stores. Maybe I'm mixing it up with Day 5. I seem to recall this exercise is something about approaching a woman and saying something like "Hey you look like you have a great sense of style, I'm looking to shop for some new clothes so you probably know some good stores to shop at." You could do this on campus … | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 08:22 PM |
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