Recently seddit has been flooded with requests for help with a specific woman. Let me answer a few of these typical questions, using basic theories and practices from the seddit community.

Q: There's this girl I like. Should I ask her out?
A: Ask her out. See what happens.

Q: There's this girl I like. I don't know how to approach her. What should I do?
A: Say "Hello." See what happens.

Q: There's this girl I like. How do I know if she likes me?
A: Say "Hello." See what happens.

Q: There's this girl I like. I got her number, now what should I do?
A: Call her and say "Hello." See what happens.

Is a trend becoming apparent? Dozens of these questions are posted every day. And all of them are deleted by the moderators. They are off topic in seddit. seddit is here for you to learn how to attract and seduce women in general.

These questions all originate from a fundamental misunderstanding of what we do in the seduction community. We do not have any magic words or tricks that will help you seduce a specific woman. We are all studying how to improve our skills with women in general so that when a great woman comes along, you already know what to say and what to do.

But now it's too late. You have met The Woman and now you are filled with anxiety about what to do. You thought obsessively about what to do, and came up with nothing. You were desperate for help. So you went on the internet and asked seddit what to do. So you asked more questions, like these:

Q: There's this girl I like. I texted her and she never replied. What should I do?
A: Move on. Go find some other girl who is more receptive.

Q: There's this girl I like. We had a date, but she never showed up. What should I do?
A: Move on. Go find some other girl who is more receptive.

Q: There's this girl I like. She said, "Let's just be friends." What should I do?
A: Move on. Go find some other girl who is more receptive.

Q: There's this girl I like. I acted badly and now she won't talk to me. What should I do?
A: Move on. Go find some other girl who is more receptive.

Is another trend becoming apparent? These questions are futile. The very fact that you're looking for help with this specific woman, is exactly the reason you can't win her. You already have too much invested in this woman, it makes you seem needy. We call this One-itis, you are stuck on one girl. The surest sign that a woman is beyond your reach, is that you are asking for help to win her heart. If some other woman, the perfect woman for you, walked right by you, you wouldn't even see her. You are blinded by your desire for one woman.

So let's try one of these questions one more time.

Q: There's this girl I like. I don't know how to approach her. What should I do?
A: You start by spending a few weeks or months reading seddit, starting by reading the FAQs in the sidebar on the right side of this page. You read other background materials and began learning to understand the common language of our community. Then you started approaching women, lots of women, and applying what you learned. Then you started asking questions in seddit, in a way that showed you made at least a minimal attempt to understand the principles of seduction. This is the way to get good answers that will help you improve. You didn't get hung up on any woman, you were more focused on learning the game, and the results started to follow. After a few months, you started to know what to do without having to think about it. Then when this girl you liked came along, you weren't awkward, you kept your cool. You were able to make a real human connection because you didn't have to ask anyone what to do. You knew what to do.

Q: But that will take months! What am I supposed to do now?
A: Get in your time machine and go back a few months?

Sorry, we cannot instantly teach you how to do this. It takes time to learn the skills we are all studying. It will take a lot of mistakes and a lot of learning from your mistakes. We can help you with that. Maybe you ought to get started now. The sooner you start, the sooner you will get results. But they're not going to come fast enough to solve that problem with the woman you just met, or want to meet.

So we, the moderators of seddit, are begging you not to ask questions about specific women in specific situations. If nothing else, you will have spent time (usually a LOT of time) writing a post and we're just going to remove it. We apologize for removing your questions, but we have to do it.