So seddit, I used to be pretty active around here a few months ago. Gamed for awhile, dated around for awhile, then I met one worth keeping around for a little longer and now I'm in a great relationship.

My problem is not woman-related, but a byproduct of my journey. I used to be a pretty submissive person but as I got more into seduction I started to develop that whole 'not rattled by anything' NGAF mindset. It made me immensely more successful with women, a guy who isn't phased by shit tests and is confident in his presence is pretty tough to turn away from. The problem is that this whole mindset change bled over into the rest of my life. Standing up to my managers at work and my supervisor in grad school means I don't take shit from them anymore but I've lost the rapport and favour that was so easily won by my old, helpful, submissive self back in the day.

I've heard phrases like 'haters gonna hate' from a few people and I definitely agree that success breeds haters, who I couldn't care less about. I guess I just haven't learned how to adapt this new mindset into a professional setting. Anybody else experience something like this?