I'm feeling torn between my studies and pick up

kennotheking · 2013-07-11T08:38:19+00:00

Dude, you know what you need to do. I've been more or less out of the game for about a year to focus on furthering my career. Its part of being a man who doesn't shy away from handling business. Trust me, you want to be a fucking man who's ready to make the kind of money that facilitates the fun lifestyle he wants (i.e. paying to rent/buy your own pad where girls can come every night of the week, traveling to target rich events, a reliable car, etc).

Hell ya its hard...seeing AFC friends get laid, others getting married to decent girls, passing on blind dates, watching others live at home to blow every month's paycheck on awesome parties (while I live at home and save 75% of my paychecks), etc. - I feel like I've watched everyone make unforgettable memories without me.

But you know what, those memories most likely pale in comparison to what I've proven to myself through all my struggles. On maslows heirarchy, I'd say I'm making strides in developing my Esteem and hitting some notes in Self-actualization along the way - thus developing a rock-solid inner-game.

Its also worth noting that, by doing what is important to me, and not tagging along doing what appears important/worthwhile to others, I'm internalizing the fact that my reality is stronger than the realities of others. This, in itself, has probably made the recent sets I randomly opened so successful (I am much less reactive than I used to be)...I am certain that I'll blast through my old plateaus within a couple weeks of actually getting back into pickup.

tl;dr, Don't be a little bitch and welcome to the grind

loudeater · 2013-07-11T03:34:22+00:00

study and get smarter. girls love guys that are passionate and smart.

factorblue · 2013-07-11T03:47:32+00:00

Do you have literally no leisure time?

factorblue · 2013-07-11T05:07:27+00:00

Wow it sounds like you are doing it tough!

Life is a balance, if all you did all day was hit on girls you would be boring, If all you did all day was study you would be boring, Just manage your time better and you will be fine.

Make sure you dedicate enough time to each of your pursuits and you will be a much more rounded person, Therefore more attractive.

legoadan · 2013-07-11T05:04:56+00:00

Focus on your studies. When you have time to pick-up, do some pick-up but don't stress out if you don't get the time to. Value = Attraction, so finish up nursing first. Plus, you're only 19 so you'll have plenty of time to pick up later!

windowtothesoul · 2013-07-11T05:44:27+00:00

Use it to you advantage. Time constraints typically facilitate interactions. You might not have 3 hours to devote to a club, but if you go in for only 30 minutes, you'll be pushed to act faster.

My rule when I was 19 was to study hard and then take advantage of every moment I could on the weekends. Study until 8, go out, sleep, wake up, study, go out, sleep, study. Then study for the week. Left me with a bunch of free time actually once I started being efficient with my time.

jbg89 · 2013-07-11T07:04:54+00:00

Work on yourself first.

2013-07-11T11:49:49+00:00

Bro if you're hurting for time that badly, the answer seems pretty obvious. Get study groups together with said hot chicks in your program! Bonus, if you know your shit and can teach them in some capacity, you look like a champ. Escalation can be simple kino and good conversation during the study group and transition to meeting up for lunch or another quick type date. And you can't tell me you honestly spend every waking hour on the weekend studying... Just use your situation to your advantage!

drwl · 2013-07-12T09:05:27+00:00

Also, even though you're in your studies, it can't hurt to make friends with the girls—classmates, etc. I'm not sure what you mean in "pick up" because if you mean going out...well you just said there are a bunch of girls in nursing school, so they are already there.

Title	I'm feeling torn between my studies and pick up
Author	factorblue
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	July 11, 2013 3:29 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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