Here is the situation I am in now with 4 new girls I met during the course of the month. I called them by their initials and numbered the days to give you a timeline because my main issue here is about timing.

Day 1 : F-close at my place with T

Day 2 : K-close outside with M

Day 4 : K-close at my place with O

Day 5 : F-Close at my place with D

Day 8 : I text T and M, resulting in T telling me she’s available Day 9 afternoon, and M agreeing to come over Day 9 at night. I also texted O, with no response ever since.

Day 9 : T and M both flake. T simply apologizes. M says she’s sick, apologizes and says she’ll hit me up when she feels better. I text D later that day to ask her if she wants to come over at night but she’s busy studying. At that point I am quite frustrated, asking myself if I did everything right and such, as you’ve probably all experienced.

We are now at day 11. How long do you think I should wait before contacting each one of them, if I should at all ?

Both girls I F-closed stayed for the night, if that’s relevant

For context, I also have one steady regular plate that I banged Day 2 and 9, a date planned with a new girl tomorrow night, a long distance plate visiting me this week-end, and I’m texting a handful of other girls that I still have to plan a date with.

I am still experimenting a lot with timing between texts. I waited approximately a week before contacting all these girls after getting their numbers and they responded very positively, hence the dates that all went pretty well. But maybe I should be texting more quickly after a K or F close? The nature of the close may call for a different timing. Or maybe get in touch without trying to set up another date directly. I don’t know, and obviously every case will vary.

A lot have been said here and there about texts and timing but I haven’t seen any consensus in the community. There probably won’t be any this time either but it’s been a long time since I posted here and I’d appreciate some feedback on this because it could be a turning point in the process of getting a new set of plates, which would be nice because a few good ones broke in the last few weeks.

Thoughts?