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For everyone suffering from Approach Anxiety...

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2013-07-29T03:52:18+00:00

There are HB9s and HB10s that want the alpha form of you...

YetzirahToAhssiah

July 29, 2013

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Title	For everyone suffering from Approach Anxiety...
Author	YetzirahToAhssiah
Upvotes	0
Comments	18
Date	July 29, 2013 3:52 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1j97iu/for_everyone_suffering_from_approach_anxiety/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/for-everyone-suffering-from-approach-anxiety.1356089 https://theredarchive.com/post/1356089

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[–]VMikeL 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]YetzirahToAhssiah[S] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]YetzirahToAhssiah[S] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Some things ANY guy, regardless of culture, upbringing or anything else, can do to be alpha:

1) Look a girl right in the eye, and don't break eye contact. She breaks eye contact with you. 2) Kino. 3) Speak slowly, with a deep voice that comes from the chest/lungs, rather than the head/throat. Use neutral or breaking rapport, rather than trying for rapport tonality (pitch stays the same or decreases at the end of a phrase, rather than increase) 4) Lead the girl conversationally, and physically. Guide her with your hand on her back. 5) Don't concern yourself with others opinions. Complicated? I don't give a shit. This will give you more freedom than you've ever had in your life, so you owe it to yourself to contemplate on this and work at it until you figure it out and do whatever you want when you want to. 6) Walk up to people and talk to them. Yes, random people. You'll fuck up. But you'll start to get better. And you'll start to not give a shit. When you open up this part of society, all the people you've never met before, possibilities become endless, because there are so many people out there for you to get to know.

Perhaps you don't understand what r/seduction means when we say "alpha." "Alpha" can have many, many connotations depedending on who is using the word. For our understanding of the term, click on "Inner Game" in the sidebar. You will see that anyone can cultivate these traits, through contemplation, awareness of them, and a deliberate self-transformation that does not compromise who you are... it merely takes you and makes you a person who goes after what they want and lives life on their own terms.

[–]AFormidableContender 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The thing I take issue with is not this stuff like "look a girl in the eye". Fucking anyone can look a girl in the eye. I'm talking about taking a fat, basement dwelling loser and making him a Seduction champion who's a hyper interesting man with a great job and hyper interesting hobbies. Maybe 1 in 10 men have that kind of potential, determination, and resolve to dedicate the education, emotional pain, physical pain, and ego to doing something like that in a reasonable amount of time. For some people, changing themself into a PUA might take 6months. Others, 25 years. Not every man has the potential for this stuff. Perhaps you're one of them. Good for you. But if you're currently a basement dwelling beta loser, it's probably because don't have the potential to be anything other than a basement dwelling beta. Not everyone can play for the NBA or be an astronaut, and people attempting to insinuate that this is stuff anyone can just do or be or "transcend too" is a bit ridiculous to me.

90% of the time people get good at game, is because they already had the metal to be an alpha, they just got sidetracked in life, or held themself back because their mother never hugged them or something.

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