Preface

I had been in a long distance "thing" for a while and had the oneitis for this girl, HARD.. For about 6 months I wanted nothing to do with any other girl. Unbeknownst to me, this was actually attracting women.

The Night

It's me, a guy, and our HB8 chick-friend (we'll call her Katie) going out for a bit of dancing. In this situation Katie was essentially a "Hook".<-NOTE We are all just having a good time dancing. Not really caring about anything. I start to really get into it. ( I've been dancing all my life, mostly focusing on breakdancing so my groove is on point).<-NOTE After about 15 minutes of genuinely having a good time I see an HB7 step aside from her group and start to watch us. I make eye contact with her and she smiles. I already know she is digging my moves but... NO! I cannot! My heart belongs to a girl far far away! She slowly starts to dance/gravitate in my direction. I had a very " I don't care" attitude about it all and let her. She asks me if I'd like to go out and smoke a cig. I agree. Outside she starts to ask me what I'm doing in Hawaii and blablabla We then get to our hobbies and she finds out that I produce electronic music. Being Swedish, she fucking loved this and blasted me with even more questions. I'm feeling like a pretty cool dude and she asks what we're doing after. I tell her we are going to another club and she wants to know if she can come along. (at this point i know how this night is going to unfold and my instincts as a man can no longer being supressed. I'm going IN)

After going to the next spot I tell her that we are going back to my place. When we get there the first thing she asks is to go to my room and hear my music. I turn it on and she throws me on my bed. What happened after that is irrelevant to this subreddit.

Afterthoughts

  • Get female friends! You've heard it a million times. When you go out with them, you are immediately more attractive to women. Also, it looks much better than going out with your 4 guys friends who are just out to "get some. Even if that is your true intention.

  • Learn to dance. I cant stress this enough. Im not asking you to go and be a circus clown for these women in the club but sometimes dancing will speak louder than your words and turn women on at the same time.

  • Focus on having a good time As much as you may want to, don't go out expecting to get laid. Just be aware that it may happen. Women are amazing at sensing your vibes and can typically tell when you are thirsty. In contrast, if you are out there genuinely having fun, women will tend to want to have fun with you.

  • Be interesting Spend your time bettering yourself, learning new skills, and shaping yourself into an interesting man of high value that women will WANT.

    Around here we talk alot about the pursuing aspect of seduction and game. I've learned that it may be just as difficult to be on the receiving end. You wouldn't believe how many times the tables have turned and I ended up completely blowing it by being awkward because I simply wasn't used to girls being into me. When the tables turn to your favor, KEEP them there. Play it cool and let them do the work.

I'd love to hear your feedback and any similar stories you all might have to offer.

Hope this helped!

-Sage