First of all, NO means NO. If a girl makes it absolutely clear that she doesn't want you, and you still pursue, it can be sexual assault. This advice is for girls that want to bang you, you know they want to bang you, but they are holding back for whatever reason.

HB7 is on my couch and we're watching youtube videos etc. Kino kino bla bla etc. and I switch the topic to sex, specifically MY sex and what I like to do to women. I can see her body language change into a more relaxed position. Her eyes are getting softer and she has this smirk on her face. Her words have a slight rasp to them. I know what's up and I drop the go-to line "I'm going to kiss you now" . She's fine with it and I go in.

Earlier, I had asked her where her favorite place to be touched was, and it was her ears. I started to bite and kiss them. That's when she stopped me and said "I just wanna let you know that I'm not gonna have sex with you tonight.. if that's what you were thinking" I replied "That's fine", with the most indifferent attitude and just kept on kissing, kept on escalating. At this point, words are your worst enemy. Sometimes you just have to let your bodies do the talking.

She stops completely and she starts telling me about why she doesnt want to sleep with me on that night in particular, and that it'd probably happen in the future. She is amazed at how "cool" I am with this idea and is wondering why I'm not begging or kicking her out of my place. I freeze out for a little while and then escalate again. Not once did I push any further than what I had done before. Grabbing, kissing, biting etc. I made sure to stay away from her private areas. She tells me that she has made her decision and that she would NOT be having sex with me that night. I respond " haha thats okay!" She is still in awe that I am not raising a fuss/begging.

I freeze out for a good 10 minutes and tell her that I know that she won't have sex with me but that it didn't mean we could't kiss/ have some fun. She replies "But if we kiss, I'm going to want to fuck you" I say "Yea? Too bad I wont let you" . I could see a twitch in her eye. She took this as a challenge. The idea of a man turning down her sexual advances didn't register. I told her that I had enough self control for the both of us, further teasing her ability to have sex with me. She said "You couldn't stop me". Time after time she asked "So you seriously won't have sex with me if I try?", I respond with a firm NOPE.

After a few more minutes of escalation she says "I wanna fuck you now, pls?" I "break down" and ask her if she is sure. She is sure. Sex happens and we are both happy.

  • When a girl denies your advances, don't pout, don't complain, don't ask why. You are content with the idea of not getting laid that night.

  • Less talky, more touchy. I believe that there comes a point where you just need to let your bodies do the talking. Its the mind that is having a conflict, but the body that knows what it want's. Let the bodies do their thing.

  • Always be escalating. I asked her what her sensitive spot was ( non-genital) and it was her ears. Every girl has one of these, use it. Keep in mind that I didn't escalate further than grabbing. There are ways to increase the passion without straight up grabbing her crotch, fellas. Pretend that shit is a soft core novel and you are Fabio. Stroke her hair like you will never see another female in your life. Run your fingers down her back/legs like they are gods gift to the earth. Breathe heavily at times to let her know that you are completely wrapped up in the moment. You're an animal.

  • I turned the tables. I challenged her. I became the one that wasn't going to have sex that night, no matter how hard she tried. In turn, that made her want me even more (This is the first time I've tried anything like this)

I cant stress enough how careful you have to be when working around LMR. Just the other day a girl firmly said "NO" and I stopped immediately. Use you judgement and hopefully you can tell when their resistance is genuine and when it is not.