I'm in a bit of a sticky situation and I could use some help, seddit.

VMikeL · 2013-08-14T10:47:21+00:00

Not unique at all. I had an acquaintance who was in an identical situation. One of his major issues of being in that situation was his friends - they were ALL dudes. Beyond that, they were nothing to aspire to, nothing to learn from, nothing to impart, ostensibly - no value to give. I figured this out about 18 months ago, suggested he expand his social circle or drop his friends entirely, though he refused out of fear. He is still a kissless virgin.

You are the sum of the 5 friends you spend your time with. If they can't accept you for being a kissless virgin, do you actually want a group of unhelpful judgmental, hyper-masculine, dudes as your friends? Expand, drop or stay.

UnpluggedMaestro · 2013-08-14T11:58:22+00:00

1) if this is how your friends evaluate you, seriously consider your choice in friends. 2) lift. No seriously. It's not just for getting laid, but there is plenty of self-benefits from this. 3) learn how to escalate and signal. 4) don't exhibit orbiter behavior. 5) be a man.

puaCurveBall · 2013-08-14T17:42:10+00:00

Hello, this post is getting removed for being too basic and already answered.

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Title	I'm in a bit of a sticky situation and I could use some help, seddit.
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Date	August 14, 2013 9:39 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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