I am confident in every part of my life..

Skittles_N_Vodka · 2013-08-19T19:34:17+00:00

I personally would give ANYTHING for the chance to start a new life on my own terms somewhere else. But that's me, personally.

puntingbaxter · 2013-08-19T19:55:22+00:00

This is why I hate all this innergame BS

Yes you can build confidence in other aspects of your life, but that doesn't necessarily translate to confidence with women.

My best advice, if you know your city sucks, then move. You friends are giving you selfish advice, they don't want you to move because it would make them lonely.

mo_dingo · 2013-08-19T20:13:30+00:00

How big is your town? If it's relatively small, then you may want to consider moving, not for women, but employment and lifestyle improvements. Women would be an added benefit to the move.

If there are no clubs in your area, then you need to determine where women of your chosen demographic hang out. Yoga/spin classes are great because the women are physically fit, like you, and care about their bodies. Group events (based upon some theme), charities, singles events, bars/restaurants, pool rooms, city events, concerts, plays/operas, etc.

If you prefer older women who have a kid(s), parks, public pools, skating rinks, arcades, etc. are all good options where they take their kids to play on the weekend.

1) Analyze your intended demographic

2) Analyze the women who fit that demo to determine their destinations on weekends.

3) Once you have that information, dress/act appropriately and start approaching women.

Don't go to college bars with the expectation of meeting 30+ year old women, and don't go to Bingo night and expect 20yr old hotties.

FunkMast3r · 2013-08-19T20:14:08+00:00

Thanks guys. I feel they are being a bit selfish as well. Its making me be stagnant in so many aspects of life. They are true friends, but I need to be selfish here.

I am going to go next summer then. have a vehicle to take me there, and a fair amount of money saved for this trip :)

I can still work on game out here!

slcjosh · 2013-08-20T17:08:13+00:00

move to toronto. its rad.

Title	I am confident in every part of my life..
Author	FunkMast3r
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	August 19, 2013 7:09 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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