Need tips on escalating, and first kiss.

the_pie_guy · 2013-08-20T04:18:54+00:00

Just. Fucking. Go. For. It. Look man, if you've gotten to the point where she's in your arms, she is interested in you. When you're close to her and looking in each others eyes, look for the triangle her eyes are making, eye to eye, eye to lips, lips to eye. If you see this she is most likely considering a kiss, go in for it and you'll probably get one.

252life · 2013-08-20T07:10:03+00:00

Make sure you are always breathing deep. When you feel nervous, your breathing is usually shallow and your body gives off negative energy. Of course you are going to feel nervous before escalating and kissing her. Most people do. So when you sense that anxiety coming, take some really deep breaths. I mean DEEP, open your chest wide and breath all the way down into your pelvic floor. Also before you go out at night, you can jump around the room, turn up the music, do a crazy dance, beat your chest. Get your manly energy flowing.

This stuff may seem weird and off topic, but it is relevant. The reason you are too scared to touch and kiss her is because you are stuck in your head thinking "What if?". That prevents you from acting and leads to missed opportunities, like the girl from last night. By breathing deeply you can get your sexual energy back into your body, so that you feel calm, confident and masculine. Once you are out of your head you are no longer enslaved by your mind. You are free to open your heart and express your masculinity. You can look into her eyes, hold her in your arms, and read the signals she is giving you. And when the time comes, you will take that opportunity and go for the kiss.

Stop thinking. Start doing. And it all starts with deep breaths. For more info look up Elliot Hulse on youtube.

MomoElite · 2013-08-20T07:58:56+00:00

Count to three and just do it. Don't waste time and think about it

Sherwood_ · 2013-08-20T16:48:53+00:00

Here's something a chick did to me when i was 19,. We met at a parking lot of a restaurant, and immediately she says "let's just get this out of the way" and she kisses!. Then I forgot about that. Now ten years later I remembered that and I've used it twice on two different girls. As soon as I see them I say that line. Come closer grab them And bam kiss. Now be sure to kiss good and slow and not wet and sloppy. The rest of the date is so much fun. All anxiety gone. And more touchy Feely during the date.

allex8800 · 2013-08-20T22:01:17+00:00

In an inner game sense, like what everyone else says, just go for it.

But in a practical sense, I always try to make sure I'm standing a little behind her, grab her by the elbow to turn her around, and then go for it. To theorize, its a bit romantic and a bit caveman. But maybe its just having a move to go to, like having a canned opener.

Oh, and don't wait until the end of the night to go for the kiss either. If you go for it midway through, and she goes for it, you can more really push to an F-close.

slcjosh · 2013-08-20T15:22:01+00:00

escalate. kino early and kino often. after some kino, you can tell the girl is receptive to your touch (you will tell if she keeps letting you escalate) just be a fucking man and say "im going to kiss you!". you can play this so many different ways but at least if you tell her youre going to kiss her you push past the beta male phase and she knows your true intentions, there is no doubt in either of your minds.

Wally_B · 2013-08-20T17:50:20+00:00

the general rule i've seen here is "shut up and kiss her!"

bearze · 2013-08-21T00:14:45+00:00

Oh god, this is like a post from my past. Used to be just like this.

Only time a kiss I went for didn't work out, was with my oneitis. She's a bitch anyway (led me on for 5 years, done with her), but other than that everything was successful.

Just do it. If it doesn't work out, you won't be wasting time with her anymore

ForYourSorrows · 2013-08-21T03:23:26+00:00

Or don't even kiss her the first time. I don't know why these fuckers are always in such a rush to kiss a girl after just meeting her. Life isn't a "how many kisses can I get" competition. If you had a meaningful interaction, got her number, and it isn't really an appropriate time to kiss her when you part ways (standing around w friends, etc.) say bye, give her a hug and when you meet up next time make sure theres an opportunity to kiss and more.

Title	Need tips on escalating, and first kiss.
Author	A_Storm
Upvotes	15
Comments	31
Date	August 20, 2013 4:04 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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