I’ve been out of a LTR for a few months now and have been using TRP to enjoy myself more and have one night stands.

So me and this girl are both seniors at college who play sport for the college. Our teams hang out a lot, so there’s lots of times to get close to each other. Her friends and her have straight up told me she’s interested in me. On nights out we always get together and I’ll normally say something along the lines of let’s go somewhere else. She’s then gets all flaky and says no she wants to stay longer. The first time she did this I walked off to find another group of friends and ended up taking home some random 7+. The next time it happened I just got a cab home as I was tired.

The next day I sent her a text saying are you free Saturday night? To which she sent back that she wasn’t with a 😩. I responded with ‘no worries, if your plans free up let’s go for a drink’.

This girl is playing hard to get as she probably wants to be more than a one night thing. However I’m not looking for anything serious as I’ve got some good jobs lined up after college and want to concentrate on them. My question is how do I proceed? How do I get her to become a fwb or a one night stand?

Any advice would be great!