hey sedditors,

it's my last year of college and to make it the best last year, I have some questions for y'all. Im in a larger social circle at college, and I've came to notice that many girls know me before I even introduce myself. This sounds like a good thing, but its really not. I was a bit stupid during freshman and junior year about hooking up and going for girls with the "I don't give a fuck attitude" and the cocky,funny approach and yes while it was successful, I've noticed many of these girls talk (unsurprisingly)and I'm labeled as an "asshole" or "player". I had a serious girlfriend sophomore year so i wanted to go wild junior year and of course be wild as a freshman entering. A little about myself, I know a good deal about seduction but I'm always on the learning curve, I've built a good amount of value by consistently working out and doing good in my classes but essentially I did this to benefit myself, but it does benefit that girls know I'm smart. But what I've noticed that really cute girls that are more "popular" will never go for me, because they worry about their social reputation, but I'm not sure. Does anyone know how to deal with this or has experience with reputations in social circles?