Have you ever won a girl back after going full out wuss?

puaCurveBall · 2013-09-25T20:15:10+00:00

What are you looking for out of this question?

Anything can happen, of course there are cases of people getting together, just like there are cases of girls murdering their stage-five-clinger boys who they hate.

What value are you looking to pull out of getting confirmation that at some point some other person in all of history has taken a certain action?

Are you just looking to cling into hope for this one girl? Wrong way man.

Move the fuck on.

HappyJerk · 2013-09-25T21:27:25+00:00

There are 2 answers to this:

1) I have personally never seen it happens, but I assume that it has to happen sometimes. I see lots of girlfriends get back with their loser ass boyfriends, so there must be guys that are going out full wuss and getting their girls back.

2) But the more important question is WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO. You need to get over her. You can't be waiting months or years for a girl to take you back. You need to move on.

All this, BTW, is coming from a guy who went full wuss on a girl recently and is hoping that she'll come back around, but I'm not holding my breath.

All that said, I think the only way to "get her back" is that EVERYTHING has to change. You have to become a different person, a lot of time has to pass, the situation has to change, and when you see her again you have to act like nothing happened. It will be hard, because she will always remember you being pathetic.

psyocal · 2013-09-26T05:29:31+00:00

Yes. Temporarily but it never blossomed into something great, nor did I want them as desperately then as I did when I felt low.

I remember two instances where they contacted me roughly 4-6 + months after the initial break up. Since I had moved on I didn't have time for them and this made me more desirable, I suppose. Everyone loves to chase a shadow but when you turn around and walk away, the shadow will chase you.

To answer the question that you aren't directly asking, yes, you can get her back. Unfortunately in order to get her back you will genuinely need to be disinterested in her & getting her back.

rusty84 · 2013-09-25T20:55:34+00:00

No, mang. It just doesn't happen. I went down that road many time before I got to were I am today. Just forget about her, you'll be fine man!

donit · 2013-09-26T01:27:18+00:00

I think the determining factor is whether or not you can communicate with her on a regular basis. If you can, then it's as simple as finding the right hack to win her back, and I've been working on a few routines to do that.

It's like an old hacker saying I once heard: "if it's connected, it's hackable." Same goes for people.

IFlyAircrafts · 2013-09-27T15:16:02+00:00

Yes/No, Here is a very summarized story about something that happened to me. About 4 years ago I met this girl and totally fell for her. Unfortantly I was a total newb and had no idea what I was doing. You say stage 5 clinger I was probalby a stage 10 clinger, way worse than an AFC. She ended up friendzoning me, and I stayed there for about 3 years, just buying her flowers and telling her how much I liked her etc...

Finally about 4 years after I met her I started to naturally get over her. I was very content that me and her were just friends, I was very happy to have such a friend like her in my life. Then this summer I discovered the community and completely changed the way acted, and even my whole outlook on life. She noticed, and even made a move on me, but I no longer have any desire to be with her anymore.

So the answer is yes it's possible, but you have to be %100 over her, to clear your head and make the right moves. But, if you are a %100 over her then what's the point of trying to start something with her? If you do find yourself in this situation hopefully your lucky like me, and the end result is you have a a great female friend!

Title	Have you ever won a girl back after going full out wuss?
Author	stage5klingon
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	September 25, 2013 7:08 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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