Hey guys,

So most of the time when I approach girls I don't get a good response at first. They are usually un-easy to talk to and don't really want to open up. I stay in there and continue pushing forward and MOST of the time they will THEN open up.

In my earlier days, Id go around approaching girls and seeing which ones respond well, id stay in set with those ones and push forward with them only. Id approach hot girls and get that initial "I don't want to talk to you" attitude so I would walk away.

The thing is, girls are socially conditioned just like everyone else, and being fully open to a random guy is not the normal thing to do (especially from my city - most pretentious fkn girls in the world, lol) So what i'm saying is that its normal for girls to be uneasy talking to you in the first 30 seconds or so. If you push through that, you will be surprised at how often they feel comfortable and start to SLOWLY open up. I used to miss out on hundreds of opportunities by walking away too early.

This is why I always say go for the hot girls that are actually worth your time and effort. Its usually a long process and why not do it with girls that you find mega attractive.

An example of this, the other night I was at a club here in Melbourne and I opened a group of 3 girls. One of them was absolutely stunning. At the start they all kinda ignored me, but i stayed in there and kept talking, self amusing myself and slowly they warmed up..but after about 5 minutes I just couldn't get them to hook. They just didn't want a piece of me (It was actually my first approach for the night). I then extracted myself and moved on to other fun times meeting other people and having a good time. Later on in the night, i saw the same girls. I went back in there and bammm, they were strait up open with me "ohh your the guy from before blah blah" I ended up spending most the night with the girl I wanted and we had a great time together with lots of chemisty. I couldn't pull due to logistics but I kissed and number closed her. The point here is, if I just walked away after the initial "rejection" she wouldn't have seen that Im a genuine high value guy.

So the lesson here is, stay in set with girls, give them time to open up, dont worry about their reactions so much and keep pushing though. Also, dont be affraid to leave the set and RE-APPROACH later on in the night, regardless of how bad the initial interaction was, because as the night goes on you become more loose and in the zone that you are more care-free, when you re-approach they can sense that and instantly feel more comfortable and aroused.

Let me know your thoughts.

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