If you look in the mirror and see an ugly dude looking back, how do you disassociate yourself from that and "pretend" you look better than you do?

Royale28 · 2013-10-26T20:09:16+00:00

This is what I don't get. You're not a women and you're not attracted to men, so why do you think you know what women think is attractive. You always see a ton of guys who look just like you with girlfriends. Some of those girls are even "way above your league".

You realize you are delusional about your looks, but you don't realize you are delusional about knowing exactly what women want.

pschr · 2013-10-26T20:01:59+00:00

You tell the mirror to go fuck itself and stop lying to you. The mirror is not supposed to validate you, you are supposed to validate yourself. Fuck those shitty mirrors, you are a handsome fellow who can get any woman you want.

2013-10-27T23:03:57+00:00

Realize that female attraction is very different from male attraction.

For males, looks are almost all that mater.

Luckily for us female attraction has far more to do with social status, honesty, confidence and lifestyle than looks.

Don't get me wrong, looks matter. But for 99.99% of the male population if you are fit and dress well, it doesn't matter what your facial or body structure is.

Hit the gym. Dress well. Pursue your passions. Most importantly, face your fears. If you do these things you will become incredibly attractive to women.

sideoftheham · 2013-10-28T01:16:21+00:00

Damn dude, I hope you're not depressed because that's what you make it seem like...

lucasmello · 2013-10-26T19:26:35+00:00

Why are you unattractive? Society doesn't say so, or else girls wouldn't be interested in you. You are saying that. You are making yourself feel unattractive. Chill, accept that you look like this, learn to love how you look, you know that freckle in your face that you hate, learn to love it, like REALLY love it.

2013-10-26T22:43:37+00:00

Listen man, we're all dealt a hand in life and not everyone gets the same hand. No one here is going to help you accept the fact that you're not a model but you. You can let it hold you back or you can go out and chase beautiful women.

misturd · 2013-10-27T00:29:28+00:00

Stop looking in mirrors.

HappyJerk · 2013-10-26T20:32:41+00:00

Unless your'e morbidly obese or horribly disfigured, very few men are "ugly." Male attractiveness is compeltely different than female attractiveness. While women is literally all about the face, tits, and ass, male attractiveness is less invested in "natural beauty" and more in what you wear, your hair style, your posture, the way you carry yourself, etc... When I go out I see very few men who I think are irredeemably ugly - most of their problem is confidence, their demeanor, etc...

Title	If you look in the mirror and see an ugly dude looking back, how do you disassociate yourself from that and "pretend" you look better than you do?
Author	misturd
Upvotes	0
Comments	39
Date	October 26, 2013 7:12 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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