I was wondering if there were any college age sedditors who could help me out with both day and night gaming college girls. I have a few questions:

-When I'm at the bars, I see my friends pretty much grab random girls and grind against them, but I feel like a creep doing that, especially when I can tell that they really don't want to dance but they do it anyway. I would try to talk to them, but often the music is so loud that I can't hear anything they are saying.

-When I do start hooking up with a girl though, I can never get them to come back to my apartment with me. I've tried just asking if they want to leave, but they always say that they need to go find their friends or aren't willing to leave. What else can I do?

-As for day game, how do I deal with my fear that I won't be interesting enough on a date? I can be pretty introverted at times and conversation becomes really choppy when I get socially exhausted. I just think that I'll never have anything worthwhile to say to her, conversation will die, and I won't see her again.

Any input is appreciated.