Hi guys,

First of all, let me say hi to all of you guys. I've been a lurker for a long time. My PUA adventure (strictly in theory...damn me) started 2 years ago and I've been following many discussion boards, been on mailing lists of many "PUA masters" read a lot of ebooks, watched so many infield videos (off course at the same time, zero real approaches) but your community is something great what I really admire. Let me thank all of you for sharing your stories how you override your approach anxiety, how you approach woman, how you constantly changing your lifestyle and inner game. It's a big boost for people like me, many thanks for that.

My background: I am 20 years old average looking guy from Poland who quitted college this year and works remotely as freelancer. In high school it never was a problem for me to talk with girls and ask them out but I was friendzoned sooo many times and haven't had sex so far in my life. Recently I decided to change my life, I got rid of my glasses (laser eye surgery), I am keep buying new fashionable clothes, I got rid of my acne, I started to play tennis, I am developing my photography passion, working on my voice but still - 20 yo virgin who never was in a real relationship.

Anyway, I decided that it is the only aspect of my life where I feel really miserable for myself and (thanks to seddit) decided to change it.

My excuse was always - I have no time for going to the clubs and approach woman, so last weekend while having 40 minutes until my bus will arrive I decided to approach 3 woman. Got one phone number, had a great interaction with the rest of the woman and my approach anxiety still wasn't gone but I felt wonderful. Finally I took my bus and a nice girl sat next to me. She was looking kinda tired so I made a joke about her looking not so well (it was a great success for me to approach a woman in the bus, people in Poland aren't very approachable... I always admired United States for how people there are so friendly, and they smile to each other in the street...in Poland when you keep eye contact with a stranger you can be verbally attacked...unfortunately different mentality, but also an awful excuse and I shouldn't bother about it :)). We were talking, she told me that she is a dancer, and that she knows me from somewhere. I told her that I was taking a pictures in the nightclubs few years ago also I was making fun of my current job (when she asked me what I do for a living now I told her that I can't tell her because I would have to kill her :)), really nice interaction, finally when we arrived to her destination I passed her my phone and ask to add her number because I think she's attractive (I love direct, I am gonna start to approach 2 girls daily from next week and direct is the only acceptable way of seduction and approach for me) and we should hang out someday. She wrote me her number, texted me same night and we were texting next few days. Today I wanted to ask her out so I was trying to invite her to the pub, to have few drinks, talk etc. She keeps saying that we should meet in her place (college dormitory) because "she has no money" and she has a lot of work and no time for meeting in the pub etc. Anyway, good for me, right (unless she is a murder or a raper ;))?

I will meet with her next Tuesday and this is my question to you guys, how should I play it? I mean, I have this awful frame which makes me think that this will be extremely uncomfortable for me (and at the same time for her) and I am afraid I won't know what to do or what to talk with her about. I always met with girls in caffe, restaurants, billard clubs (safe environment for me) and this is something new for me. Also I have another mindset problem, I'm afraid I'm still a big strange guy for her which she met at 4 am in the night bus... I was trying to build a rapport in text messages but I'm keep thinking this whole "date" will be a disaster. How to override this approach and how to make her (and me!) feel comfortable during this meeting?

tl:dr girl met in the bus at 4 am wants to meet me and the only good place for her is her apartment in dormitory and I am afraid I will screw this up.