Let me start by telling the story that influenced this article. A week ago i was out clubbing with some mates of mine, i see a HB8 and two other HB6 sitting next to some guys who are not paying attention to them,but HB8 is further away from the two HB6.

After reading the situation for a while, I conclude that HB8 does not have a sexual relationship with the guys there, so I leave my friends and approach. I am welcomed very warmly by the HB8,we start talking and we hit it off,she is a waiter and I used to be one, and we start exchanging stories.

I haven't introduced myself to the group, so one of the guys notices me and tries to AMOG me, he asks what am I doing there, and before I could reply HB8 tells him were just talking. I ask her what's the relationship, and I found out that the whole group are a bunch of cousins. Anyway we continue flirting, the 2 HB6 tell her that they should go meet a friend who just texted them, HB8 is reluctant but she gives in, and tells me that she'll come get me when they return.

And this is where i fuck up,I go back to my group,notice a HB6 I talked to earlier and I approach her, she's about to leave, so I take out my phone to grab her digits,HB8 comes and sees me taking her contacts and being touchy with the HB6. My friends tell me what just happened, I immediately go up to her, but she refuses to notice me or talk to me. Long story short, tried to lie my way out of it by denying anything happened which worsened the situation, conceded defeat and went back to my friends.

So I urge you guys, never get caught flirting with another girl by a girl who showed interest in you,if she hadn't showed interest or was playing hard to get,this would have been fine, but I already hooked this girl and she saw me being greedy. So I ended up loosing a girl who I made a connection with and didn't have to think about what to say next to her. If you win a girl over at a club,close the deal and take her home,instead of trying to fish for more fishes. Seduction 101, Never Show That You Are A Player.