Out of a long term relationship, my text game is weak.

ultrasuperthrowaway · 2014-01-10T16:16:12+00:00

Subscribe her to Cat Facts

BitingInsects · 2014-01-11T21:34:00+00:00

avoid questions. try to craft your texts so that they are short but are something that gets a response. typical guys, when asked what they are doing tonight, will say "hey! i'm drinking with a couple friends right now, then i'm going out to SF bars, should be pretty fun! what're you up to tonight?" WRONG. screams needy.

what you should say is something like "pregaming right now, about to head out to SF" this is vague, makes you sound cool, and sends the same amount of information. the biggest thing, though, is that it makes it seem like you don't care what her plans are. you have a plan tonight, she can join if she wants, but it doesn't matter.

rusty84 · 2014-01-11T00:24:20+00:00

Best text game skills

keep it short and simple
use grammar and sound intelligent
send messages that don't need to be responded to
honestly, don't text too much. Keep it to a minimum. I personal don't send more than 6 messages a day to one girl. I'd rather talk to her in person

sharkacolypse · 2014-01-10T17:25:46+00:00

No, there isn't. You can tease her a little over text, but you're going to build most of the attraction through actually seeing here. Texting is like spark, if used right you can build a fire, but if you just sit there throwing sparks you won't get anywhere.

If you want to ask her out via text, you don't have to build up to it much. A few texts catching up, then ask to go out for coffee or whatever your casual first date idea is.

2014-01-11T08:49:38+00:00

DON'T. USE. EMOJIS.

BitingInsects · 2014-01-10T22:19:44+00:00

Why haven't you asked her out? You shouldn't be texting that much to where it would get boring before asking her out. If you've texted her back and forth more than ten times you're already waiting way too long.

Text game is mostly logistics, and there is only text game if she is already into you.

sir_dewknot · 2014-01-10T23:36:43+00:00

Text her funny internet pictures it as I like to call them FIPs.

Title	Out of a long term relationship, my text game is weak.
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Date	January 10, 2014 4:09 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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