I am not very good with girls. Hardly can speak to them. However, if there is an attractive girl i become completely speechless against her. That said, if the girl is attractive, there will def. different types of guys after her. Many guys too, esp since I'm in college. How do you fight off competition without seeming needy or creepy, and become THE guy and get the girl, esp to a girl you just met but are clearly interested? How do you be better than the competition without coming off as either super nice guy that no girl wants to be with or cocky jackass that no girl likes?