I have an issue with reacting negatively to even the SLIGHTEST rejection. It’s odd because I’m as confident as can be but as soon as something doesn’t go my way the thought “If I looked as good as I thought I did then no girl would be uninterested” and it makes me question things until I get some reassurance. I always hold frame no matter the situation but inside I feel like I won’t feel better about it until another girl shows obvious interest. It’s a real issue because I feel as though I get more interest than disinterest from girls I come in contact with.

I’ve always obsessed over my looks and I personally would rate myself a 7/7.5... so in my mind most girls would find me attractive. Maybe it’s this mindset that is getting me thrown off? Do I expect too much IOIs based purely off initial attraction?

To clarify I have no problem getting chicks and I’m spinning 3 plates right now. But in my mind it is expected. Sleeping with a girl isn’t an accomplishment. But not sleeping with one or not getting proper interest from one is a loss in my mind.

Any recommendations of getting outta this mindset?