Tinder: what success stories have you had? What do you find most effective to start a conversation?

czuk · 2014-01-26T16:34:46+00:00

Some girl had ask me anything in her profile so I asked her for the square root of 144 and the duck sized horse question. That was over a week ago now, she's taking her time thinking of the answers. It's OK I can wait.

BozoHimSelf · 2014-01-26T11:30:35+00:00

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/508923/forum I found this thread yesterday. Some pretty funny starters, you just have to scroll down a bit.

DirtyProjector · 2014-01-26T18:57:32+00:00

Tinder is the worst app for dating in the world. If you ever match with people, 90% don't respond. Of the 10% who do, 8% flake. You have little to nothing to talk about, you know nothing about the person, and the fact that it's over the internet (which implies that the conversation is slow and jilted most of the time) thus impeding connection.

For perspective: I rejoined OkCupid yesterday and was rated 5 stars by 51 girls in 12 hours. I didn't do anything (view people, contact them, etc). I just created my profile, added some pictures and answered some questions. Last time I was on OkCupid, I went out with roughly 20 girls in the span of 2 months. On Tinder, I've met 1 girl, and had conversations with perhaps 3 or 4. A friend of mine has slept with almost 200 women, and he was on Tinder for 2 months and he only had 5 matches (living in a relatively large city).

Moral of the story: Put in a little more effort and go on a more serious site. The sheer nature of Tinder suggests that the people on there aren't serious about dating or making a connection, and will most likely flake.

skulldrinker · 2014-01-26T13:28:23+00:00

Well I've met with 2 tinder girls. One was pulling a face in all her photos so I opened with 'did you know if the wind changes while you're pulling a face it could get stuck?'. Fucked her that night.

Another one was Asian and I opened with 'I'm guessing you're a nerd'. Met with her, kissed on first date but I didn't actually like her that much so we kind of friend zoned each other.

All I can say is you have to open with something bold and preferably relevant to the girl, not 'hey how are you was your weekend good.'

worldclassmathlete · 2014-01-26T15:40:23+00:00

Most effective conversation starter, "Hi! I'm _____, what's your name?" Followed by "How has your day been?"

But you have to commit, stand tall and strong and smile, and don't doubt yourself.

If after a couple of minutes, if you can only get one word answers, move on.

Title	Tinder: what success stories have you had? What do you find most effective to start a conversation?
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Date	January 26, 2014 6:39 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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