Always found kino a bit tricky in the 'sitting talking' scenario of a bar / cafe. Always looking for out-of-the-house dates which provide more opportunity.

Had this brilliant date a while ago in a place with a bucket bass - we played it together, me stood behind etc - fucking brilliant for kino, woke up with her the next morning.

Since then though struggling to find good ideas. Any thoughts?

EDIT 4 days later - So, put this into practice last night (successfully). Funnily enough for me, it turns out I was wrong about what made things flow, and /u/HappyJerk and /u/theBoobMan were right. Went to a pool place, thought playing would be good for kino. It was ok, some touching, but actually overall was a bit awkward (possibly because she was fucking awful, and wasn't really enjoying it! ;-))

Things felt a bit stuck, so I suggested we quit the table and get a drink at the bar. Luckily there was a nice alcove seat available. Got close to her showing some shit on my phone, put my hand on her knee, leaned in for the kiss, and from there it was all happy time.

This was date #2 after a quick date #1 in a bar a week ago. Met on tinder.