How to deal with "I'll call you when I change my mind"

ohwilson · 2014-03-01T14:12:08+00:00

I'm extremely laid back to a certain point. A girl saying that "when I feel like" line is definitely crossing the line though. That's such a shitty thing to say it's time to give her a reality check. Never met a girl that rude, but if I did I'd imagine I'd say something like "Um, on second thought please don't call. It's fine if you don't want to hang out, but don't ever disrespect me" and leave it at that. Some girls will realize they were being idiots and get attracted. Others will just get pissed and cuss you out or some shit, but probably still be attracted to your balls, just to prideful to admit it. In any case who gives a shit. It comes from the heart and you have to be completely willing to throw her away cause who wants to spend time with someone like that anyway.

HappyJerk · 2014-03-01T15:43:26+00:00

Not right now, but I'll call you when I change my mind/have more time

That's about as harsh as a rejection can get. I would cut contact and not respond even if she did call. If she did call I would just say "sorry I've moved on." That's an insanely disrespectful and ugly thing to say.

rusty84 · 2014-03-01T17:27:23+00:00

"It seems like you're not interested, don't bother"

RandianHero · 2014-03-01T18:52:30+00:00

You just move on to the next one. There are plenty more where she came from, so it's nothing worth getting upset over. People are perfectly entitled to change their minds or trade up for something that fits them better, so don't sweat it or think of her as an inconsiderate bitch. She's doing right by her, as you need to do right by you.

puaCurveBall · 2014-03-01T20:37:34+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	How to deal with "I'll call you when I change my mind"
Author	amadeus_x
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	March 1, 2014 11:21 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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