"Let's have a sleepover".

leogura · 2014-03-09T15:15:40+00:00

Why would you say "Sleepover"? Why?! Why?! You might as well have texted her: "Me wants penis in u vaginer."

You made her the prize and the slut.

Next move:

Ask her to meet you at a coffeeshop or some casual day2 location that's NEAR your place. Have a proper day2 and then pull her home under pretext of anything non-sexual.

HappyJerk · 2014-03-09T15:12:20+00:00

In my opinion, the worst thing you can do is make a sexual move on a girl before you've indicated interest in her. Ask her on a DATE first, and then invite her back. Otherwise, you look like a creep.

zs26 · 2014-03-09T16:24:44+00:00

Play it off as a joke and tell her she missed out on getting the best mani-pedi and on watching Mean Girls. She'll laugh, you'll seem funny (not to say you aren't already but still).

TimPartendale · 2014-03-09T16:10:32+00:00

I think you can still salvage this. Like /u/leogura said, meet up with her once during the day, then be suave and ask her to come over to watch a late night movie or something at a specified later date. Don't apologize for your text (don't even bring it up) because that's still how feel. You're semi-lucky she's playing it off, despite her responding with a BS text it means she is still interested in you.

From your stage in the relationship I would have built some more interest, at least physically. Keep her guessing on your true intentions. Sometimes being blunt is a good thing, I works for me, but I would save that for face-to-face interactions so it's not saved as a text message.

bl1y · 2014-03-09T16:38:22+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	"Let's have a sleepover".
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Upvotes	5
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Date	March 9, 2014 2:37 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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