When a girl says I’ll let you know.. what do you do?

BrutalMan420 · 2018-11-08T20:28:08+00:00

dont withdraw the offer. you might as well just tell her youre a big fucking baby and you want her to fuck you now and validate your proposal with an immediate response. its gay as fuck, shows youre desperate, no abundance etc.

you soft next and approach other women. its no big deal.

[deleted] · 2018-11-08T20:45:23+00:00

You:

soft next the shit out of her
don't contact her
when/if she hits you up again, escalate immediately and focus on the hook up
if she still doesn't put out, hard next, no further contact

Respect yourself more my dude. Remember: you are the prize

hopelesshotel · 2018-11-08T21:22:52+00:00

never accept an “ill let you know.” when she says that, you tell her, “if youre busy lets do this another time” if she cant make the time, well then you got other shit to do.

“ok sounds good” shows you got nothing else to do and lack of abundance because your date is contingent on how she feels. make it the other way around

Peter_B_Long · 2018-11-08T21:50:02+00:00

I'd hard next.

Me personally, I look for girls who are extremely submissive to me. Girls who will drop everything to come over. Girls who will surprise me with gifts or food, etc. I look for plates who are FUCK YES about me.

Of course, I have to do my part and fuck their brains out and DHV. But.. This vetting process begins as soon as I approach. If they come across as cold for too long or give resistance to meeting up, then I just stop wasting my time and go approach a new girl.

If a girl is being hesitant about meeting up, flaking, or you're just not feeling it, then understand that this girl will most likely not satisfy you like how you wish to be satisfied and the time spent / effort put into trying to sleep with her will never be worth it.

You can always try to contact them later down the road, but don't ever expect any different sort of energy from her. Timing could be an issue in some cases (at the time she was probably chasing a Chad or she was buried with midterm studying) so it can't hurt to try again later down the line, but it's most likely a lost cause as if she was interested she could always just hit you up, which she won't.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-11-08T22:03:36+00:00

How long ago was this? It's always best to reply with a "Give me an answer by (8h from when you asked her out)". It shows that you have other shit you could be doing and you're not gonna wait for her to cancel on you at the kast minute like some soyboy. Or just don't reply at all and just make different plans that don't include her. If she actually replies later on saying she can make it, that's when you tell her that you'll have ti see her some other time because you already have something else going on. If she persists, that's when you tell her that you don't place vets on uncertainties.

Girls are really not that busy most of the time. They're just nit interested or are debating whther or not to hang with yoh. Sometimes they're very actively loolimg for ANY excuses not to hang. And they will wait at the very last minute to tell you they can't make it. You need to value your time. Give her a deadline because you have other shit you could be doing.

Had a frozen yogurt date set up with a chick I met 2 days prior. On the day of, I called to confirm and sge started her wishy washy bullshit, telling me she has a few things going on and isn't sure she's gonna make it but will let me know. I went to the gym instead. She eventually hit me up asking me where I am and that she's at the spot. That's when I told her I made other plans. Never bothered reaching out to her again, and I made a rep PR on my bench that day. All was right in the universe. And yes, I did get some froyo for myself after the gym.

leolanik14 · 2018-11-08T23:11:34+00:00

It means, nope. A hard next.

w_ppk_007 · 2018-11-09T01:27:42+00:00

I talked to her and sounds like she’s busy on the days that I have off so I said sounds like you’re busy so some other time. Now I’m gonna soft next her for a bit until she replies when she can meet up.

Title	When a girl says I’ll let you know.. what do you do?
Author	w_ppk_007
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	November 8, 2018 8:21 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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