Feeling down, how do you pick yourself up?

BansheeThief · 2014-03-26T04:06:44+00:00

Focus on the process and not the outcomes. You are out there, bettering your life, pursuing what you want and not letting life hand you everything. That takes guts... a lot of guts that not a lot of people do. Give yourself props for getting the 6 numbers. And keep pushing forward. You are going to get a lot of flakes and rejections. Right now, keep doing what you are doing. If you keep getting flakes, maybe start analyzing your game. Are you finding anything in common with these girls and giving them a reason to see you again? I noticed when I just casually talked for a little bit, didn't dig too deep into one topic, and just got a number and bailed, I wouldn't see them again. But if I met a girl, found something in common and talked a little longer, they would be more receptive.

But nice job man!

BigGeek43 · 2014-03-26T01:53:57+00:00

You're feeling down because you're feeding your mind wrong information and you're creative self imposed limits. Think about positive experiences or create synthetically and you'll think positively.
Watch "earl nightingale self image". 6 minute video that will change your life. Especially 3 minute mark. It explains approach anxiety and how it affects us.

Apex_of_Attraction · 2014-03-26T18:04:36+00:00

Hey ArtistBlock,

How long are you waiting to text? I'd text the very next day so you're still fresh on their mind. Hot girls get hit on all the time so they don't feel any obligation to text back guys who are basically strangers.

To stop this, get them to invest. During your next interactions, get them talking about 70% after the set hooks. Also, if you can, create opportunities that require them to qualify themselves (say things to try to get your approval) by approving of some things and not others (be the buyer).

On how to not feel down: keep up the momentum. Go out. If girls not texting you back makes you feel down, it demonstrates that your emotions can be easily fluctuated based on how others respond to you. Work on creating the kind of life where if girls don't text you back, you don't even realize. Pursue your passions so that you can generate your own positive emotions instead of seeking others to be the source of good emotions for you.

Finally, on a night out, don't get 6 numbers, get one. Quality over quantity. Invest time with them so they remember you, and get them to invest time with you so they want to see you more than you want to see them. That's the solution to the ROOT cause.

Darragh, Apex of Attraction, www.apexofattraction.com

dietpepsi1 · 2014-03-26T01:18:15+00:00

Well you have to ask yourself: Why do we fall? So we can pick ourselves back up again.

Title	Feeling down, how do you pick yourself up?
Author	ArtistBlock
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	March 26, 2014 1:04 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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