A girl flaked and I called her out. I think it was a bad idea. Thoughts?

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2014-03-29T18:35:41+00:00

That isn't a flake. You failed to make definite plans with her in a timely manner so she went and did something else. Do you expect women to wait on you all the time?

Edit: Omg people give terrible advice on this sub.

BlueIsStylinOnYou · 2014-03-29T16:43:33+00:00

DROP HER.

DROP. HER.

RandianHero · 2014-03-29T17:53:23+00:00

People flake. It happens. She's allowed to change her mind and doesn't owe an explanation for it. Calling them out is not only a waste of energy and time, but it shows that you're the kind of person who can be easily manipulated by the actions of others. Don't be that guy. The next time someone flakes, move on to the next one and don't give them a second thought.

acratophorus · 2014-03-29T19:40:29+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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acratophorus · 2014-03-29T19:51:29+00:00

That's not a flake. You put her on the backburner and she went and did something else -- don't put that on her. It seems like you need to actually SET plans in advance, so that you can tell if she is committed and interested, or you realize that she can't get over her flakiness and you next her.

extcm · 2014-03-29T17:06:45+00:00

In a playful half-joking half-serious manner, tell her your ego couldn't handle the possibility of her again backing out of plans with you. Then tell her you will accept the breakfast & bloody mary plans if she stays over the night before. The only reason for her to stay over is to make sure she keeps the date....of course

Title	A girl flaked and I called her out. I think it was a bad idea. Thoughts?
Author	YetzirahToAhssiah
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	March 29, 2014 4:36 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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