How much texting is too much/often?

social_scrying · 2014-03-31T03:52:47+00:00

I have posted this in the past:

My golden rules for texting:

1) dont overthink texts.

2) dont try to seduce via text

3) dont over text

4) texting is only a means to an end

My response to this thread may be helpful for understanding why.

How do you control and make sure you text her just the right amount?

Texting should be a means to an end. I wouldnt recommend getting into long conversations via text. If you want to tell her something, tell it to her in person because it is MUCH MORE POWERFUL to be able to experience someone with all of your senses while they communicate.

perez89 · 2014-03-31T03:20:22+00:00

My english isnt very good, but as you didnt get any reply I ll try. Well I have a friend that in the past month was all the time texting with a girl, at the end he only got a few kiss, I think that kind of "relation" isnt healthy. If the girl that you are talking doesnt seems to talk with you, dont force it. The best thing is text the same amount of times she text you or less. I Hope i could help u. Sry my english again

seddittips · 2014-03-31T03:32:50+00:00

I don't text to talk about things at all, for example what is your favorite food, etc. Unless that was a build up to ask her out on a date to a place she likes or something. But if it's leading to nothing but just your own curiosity you shouldn't text, that's something you talk in person about. Leave texting to strictly setting up a meeting.

Having said that, I do use text playfully about non-sense stuff. Role playing if you can call it that, just making up stupid stuff that the both of you can play along to and make up imaginary situations that can bring a smile or laugh upon both of you. I also only do this if I haven't talked to her in a while and want to send a few messages. But I wouldn't text everyday, I prefer not to anyways.

HappyJerk · 2014-03-31T04:08:55+00:00

Depends on a million different factors

ComfortableComa · 2014-03-31T04:13:33+00:00

Most people say don't text except for getting logistic sorted out. I can see that. If you don't have text game, that's good advise. If you do, you need no explanation on what to do. So... seeing as how you don't... do it minimally. Texting her just the right amount is all about how interested she is. Multiple texts in a row or if she texts you first can be easy ways to gauge this. That isn't the only way, just the simplest.

puaCurveBall · 2014-03-31T06:48:52+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	How much texting is too much/often?
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Date	March 31, 2014 3:06 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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