Sup guys, so I had my meltdown a couple days ago and recently I've tried to really feel happy about things. It was Friday and I texted one of the girls I met last week, she's foreign and Korean. I texted her to hang out and we finally set up something at a Starbucks. Awesome, first ever date off cold approach on lock down. Now onto the date

Okay so we met at the place and for some reason I thought she was already there so I started freaking out a bit. When we met it was sudden and I was just like oh okay. Didn't go for the hug or anything. Anyway we ordered our stuff and took a seat, I feel like I missed so many kino opportunities. We sat down on a couch area and at first there was some distance. Let me tell you guys this shit was hard, I tried to get a conversation going by playing the questions game. It worked and soon we got things rolling. Eventually I closed the distance between us and we started talking some more. She was into it at varying points and it was going swell but soon I was running out of things to talk about and I knew I had to escalate more. I asked to read her palm and she denied me at some points but I held my ground and went for it again later on. She let me do it and after I read it and just made up some stories I held her hand for a bit. I then got a bit closer and put my arm over the couch so it was semi around her. We then talked some more as usual. During the conversation I just played around with her fingers and hand with my hand casually. At one point she was just like no touching and resisted. Shit went down hill from here if it already hadn't.

Before I'd like to say that she was indifferent to my advances. Now she seemed against them. She said this wasn't right and we just met. Keep in mind that she's super foreign. I knew that at that point I had to choose my words carefully because if I keep pressing/questioning her beliefs everything would quickly backfire. At that point I just put my arm back in front of me slowly and paused for a bit and then tried to change the subject. After a little bit more talking I tried to advance by fiddling with her fingers a bit because we were so close. At this point she said she had to go and she left. She said she had to finish up a project with a friend ( which I believe is true because she mentioned this earlier).

Basically I'm asking how do I sexualize a conversation? All these months of never practicing kino just came back and bit me in the ass. Was my kino really off point here? My goal was to get a kiss and I knew I had to lead into it. I tried to sexualize the conversation by asking her if she had a boyfriend before and if she's kissed another guy before. This was such shit I know, considering she's like 21 but I was so desperate to try and sexualize this conversation. I could've made some sexual jokes but I couldn't think of any. I think my highest escalation point was when I went for her hand during the palm reading. That really kicked me off but I couldn't maintain the conversation and proceed to a kiss. Maybe I should've kissed earlier instead of just fiddling around with her hand casually during the conversation. Do you guys have some advice on kino and sexualizing the conversation smoothly? Also what should I do from here? I plan to text her in a couple days to try and set something up again