Taking to girls in community college?

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-04-09T20:55:25+00:00

you see them in your classes... and you... can't...
-hang on a sec- deep breath ... think of anything to talk about ??

sometimes the amount of overthinking of some guys leaves me speechless. ( no offense ofcourse ! ) talk about the class, duh ! discuss your professor, the lesson, the building, your schedule, the college, whatever . and that's just the place to start ! actually listen to what a girl replies and take it from there. you are not a robot who needs a command to form a reply; you can contribute your own information to the conversation. it also helps to avoid yes/no questions with particularly shy girls.

as for an opener; easy peasy lemon-squeezy : " hey, I've seen you around before, I thought to myself 'today I would like to meet her' " / " hi , I've seen you once before in class, you look like somebody I would like to meet "

you don't have AA and can't think of anything to talk about. you can't think of anything to talk about because you have AA . just chillax, slap on a smile and fake some confidence and walk over there like the fucking man that you are. the more at ease you are, the more you won't be "in your own head" and conversation will be easy.

masterrod · 2014-04-09T18:05:06+00:00

Don't think about just do it.

A good way is to notice a lady and fixate on one thing about her (i.e clothes, ring, notepad, etc.)

Say hi, talk about this thing and see where it goes. Exit if it gets too hot. The end.

Do it a couple times you'll be ready to add more things to your game.

zach84 · 2014-04-09T22:51:22+00:00

epicdroid121, I've been a lurker here for almost 3 years. My AA was so bad that I didn't do an approach until a few days ago after YEARS of everyday wanting to approach but never would.

What it comes down to is just doing it. The main things that helped was working on just complimenting strangers and then progressing to approaching from there. So how did I actually get myself to approach? Well a big one is forcing yourself to just walk up to the girl. That's it. Just walk up to her. Once you're right up to her you'll do it, just watch.

Right now I highly suggest complimenting strangers. When you want to focus on actually approaching, just aim to walk up to the girl.

Remember, it's hugely important not to beat yourself up for your failures. Failures are only set backs and/or feedback. Don't lose sight of that.

adirtygerman · 2014-04-10T00:17:58+00:00

Set up a study session

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-04-09T17:36:32+00:00

Best way to go about it is usually by being direct.

Go into a library or class/lecture hall, sit down next to a babe. "Hey, not gonna lie, I sat next to you because you're hot."

Stop a girl in the hallway. "Excuse me, I thought you were beautiful and I wanted to say hi."

Sit next to a girl on a bench outside. "Hey, do you mind if I sit here? Every other seat is taken. Grin and exchange names, have a conversation

Invite people from your workgroups out for drinks, or to a party and get to know them. Build connections and social proof.

I'm at a community college too, and its tough to overcome AA because of how small the place is but I respect myself a lot more after I do make an approach. That feeling resonates with others and they respect me more for making the approach as well.

epicdroid121 · 2014-04-09T17:36:06+00:00

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Date	April 9, 2014 5:16 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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