what if you're on a first date with a girl and you end up making out and laying down in bed. but when you go to touch her intimately, she pushes your hands away a couple of times and says something to the effect of ''I just met you, you're not getting in my pants''. do you just take it easy? or somehow push further?

what if you bring a girl back on first date but she's hesitant and won't make out. do you just stop then? or is there a way to twist things in your favor.

when does no really mean no? it is a gray zone for sure. the first girl didn't even want to come back to my place initially