New girl at work. HB9. Both in our mid 20s. She’s giving me hard IOIs. I get her number, we text a little and she eventually starts sending me pictures in her bra and panties. Texting me she’s very attracted to me. I say let’s get drinks and she eagerly agrees. Date comes and she blows me off an hour before. I say all good and say we can do something another time. Afterwards I find out she has BF. She continues to initiate and come by my desk and be extremely flirty. I decide to say fuck it, her BF ain’t my problem, and give her one more chance so I invite her over. She gives a lame excuse, nothing happens. That was two weeks ago. Now she seems to be avoiding me (coming to my area making sure I see her but then quickly leaving).

Now i don’t really care about this girl, but I was thinking this was an easy lay. Tried to keep texting to a minimum and logistics only. I’m thinking she was just trying to get validation and an ego boost. I’ve nexted her already but would like advice on what to do next time.