Hey there guys,

The name is Podrus and I'm in a bit of a pinch. I've got a second date tomorrow night with an amazing girl, I asked her what she wanted to do and so she decided our entire night was going to be getting ice cream and then going on a walk together. But there's a problem that I feel that I'm approaching; I don't know how to keep her interested.

You see, this is really only the second girl I've actually wanted to have a lasting relationship with, the first being a girl I dated for five years and when we broke it off a few years ago I kind of shut everything out. Things were different with the first girl, she and I started out as a taboo relationship, her parents didn't like me, I'm older than her, and her best friend was into me. All things that drove the interest.

However, with this new girl, we don't have any of that taboo, we've already talked about the small things, i know her favorite animal, color, movie, song, and all that. She knows the same about me and I'm worried that tomorrow when we're gonna be out someplace where I feel talking is exceedingly important, I'm going to fall short of expectations. I mean, the first date was awesome, we did it all sort of backwards, went to an early movie, caught dinner, and then just sort of talked about some stuff and she ended up kissing me.

I'm just looking for help here I suppose, I'm a 21 year old college student and she's 19 years old if that helps at all. I'm also not trying to go far with her at all, I mean, kissing and stuff and a bit of clothes on fiesty-ness is cool but I know she's worried about going to far to fast.