What to know for my first first date

whatdoy0uknow · 2014-05-09T10:31:24+00:00

try the search function: first date

joshsway · 2014-05-09T19:33:15+00:00

Focus not so much on what you are going to be doing but when and where. I prefer dates in the evening near your place or hers incase things go really well.

alex0919 · 2014-05-09T20:50:47+00:00

Critiquing that dialogue:

I like the chase framing, of telling her she was asking you out
But remember, the only thing you don't plan is the time, you time it around her, all the other logistics -- you handle

Don't think of it as a date, think of it as getting to know a girl you seem to be attracted to, it's honestly just having a nice, deep conversation over some shit to nibble or sip on. And if your game is good enough, through sexual vibe, touching, etc, and you created enough sexual tension, you can smoothly ask her home, and make a move.

No end of date kiss bull shit, real kisses lead on somewhere
Don't brag or showboat about yourself, only paint yourself as the way she finds attractive (e.g. like her)
You do this through finding out what she likes, and relating on most threads
Incorporate screening and qualifying into your conversation, but not overtly
And don't try to remember all the game you've read and researched and try to use it with her, just use things as you remember them in your subconscious when shit happens, it seems much more natural that way
If you aren't in the moment and outcome independent, then it seems needy and like a process of getting her to sleep with you, which it honestly is, but if you think of it this way, it projects to her and she will know

Title	What to know for my first first date
Author	eyory
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	May 9, 2014 6:38 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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