"She can know you want to bang her, but she can't know know you want to be her boyfriend"

simplisticallysimple · 2014-05-13T07:20:52+00:00

Well, I show her that I mean business. I don't do random small talk; I ask her questions to see how DTF she is and to probe for logistics:

"Do you like top or bottom?"
"Spit or swallow?"
"When was the last time you had sex?"
"Where do you live?"
"Do you drive?"

I avoid random chit-chat and always set up meets. If she's available, I'll just straight up ask her if she's having her period, or joke about banging her: "So we're hanging tonight, yeah?"

I need to put it out in the air first before going on any date. That way you know if she shows up, she's at least open to the idea of having sex. It's your job not to fuck it up.

2oosra · 2014-05-13T07:16:26+00:00

A few things I have learned from seddit so far

Turn conversations sexual. I am good at this already. Women will either think "this guy is ridiculously funny, and bold" or "this guy has some fascinating insights into human sexuality." I want them to think "this guy wants to fuck me. now"

Kino. I am a touchy guy. Women welcome a lot of intimate contact with me, but its not very sexual.

The title of the post is from this video. I stumbled upon it from their facebook ad. Nothing great here, but that quote above spoke directly to a flaw in my game. Their three fatal errors are 1) dont send her flowers at work (doh!) 2) above 3) dont be too available. http://www.tsbmag.com/tips/3-toxic-mistakes/

whatdoy0uknow · 2014-05-13T07:17:43+00:00

for me it's the opposite I give too much of the lets fuck vibe and I think I'm being all smooth and coy. it backfires bc the woman knows this, and in my head I'm thinking I haven't shown my intent yet before building attraction and play it cool. it works sometimes bc I'm basically assuming attraction all the time without meaning to. to answer your question before even kino your eye contact, and a smirk on your face that says I know what we're doing later tonight.

recyclablebantha · 2014-05-13T13:33:37+00:00

How do you guys show sexual intent?

I might screen a little bit with "sexual conversation" if I see an opening but mostly that's not necessary. Not for my style anyway.

Kino definitely is necessary though. Confident kino can put a girl in a sexual state of mind before she has time to over-think everything. Girls often shut it down for themselves by wondering how you'd be as a BF, whether they'll regret the sex later, etc., etc. So unless she gets off on "sexual talk" or brings it up herself, I generally stay away from overt sexual talk and find more subtle ways to screen for whatever deviancy I want.

Short answer: Kino. End of story. Talking the talk doesn't mean anything if you can't walk the walk.

legendoflink3 · 2014-05-13T16:48:51+00:00

Ok first thing is that you must know she is attracted to you. And she must know you are too. You can't come across as someone who is immature or too nice. Don't qualify yourself to her as someone she would date. For example good job, education and all that. It gets them thinking that you are a keeper and they won't want to come across as slutty to you because they might want you as a bf. Basically the upfront bold alpha male asshole approach works here. I've been there. On one occasion I was straight up with a girl, she told me I was bad and shouldn't be that way. Still she did whatever I told her and When I was done I just walked out. She kept calling for more and sending dirty text. One day it slipped and she found out I was an engineer and boom she tries pursuing and holding the booty back.

Title	"She can know you want to bang her, but she can't know know you want to be her boyfriend"
Author	2oosra
Upvotes	12
Comments	5
Date	May 13, 2014 7:05 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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