How does sluttiness affect pair bonding scientifically?

CainPrice · 2019-01-08T18:09:47+00:00

Sluttiness is the symptom, not the cause, of a woman being a bad partner. Don't worry about the stupid bro-science.

All of this crap about "pair-bonding" and a woman's hormones being messed up by being slutty is theoretical bro-science that the manosphere has come up with to justify the results that more partners results in a higher chance of infidelity and divorce.

It's putting the cart before the horse. Being slutty doesn't mess up a woman who used to be and would have been a great partner and a quality wife. If you'd met that same shitty woman before she started fucking her way through her 20s, she'd be just as shitty.

Women who are shitty partners and make terrible wives are more likely to be slutty when given the opportunity. All of this pair-bonding nonsense was drummed up to backward-rationalize some reason for sluts sucking instead of realizing that the sluts sucked before they became sluts.

WolfOfGroveStreet · 2019-01-08T18:23:10+00:00

I think it's bullshit, there are a couple different slut personalities with their own outcomes. Narcissistic girls like ig thots were always going to be shitty partners. Insecure girls that need validation often go through a phase and then settle down fine...i feel sorry for these guys sometimes but otherwise the relationship seems healthy in the examples i know.

witchcoin · 2019-01-08T18:00:42+00:00

posting to follow

itiswr1tten · 2019-01-08T18:33:33+00:00

Most studies focus on marriage and partner count.

Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years;

Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners; and,

Women with 0-1 partners were the least likely to divorce.

The NSFG did the study

Correlation does not equal causation but it can be awfully interesting.

FlyingSexistPig · 2019-01-08T22:04:56+00:00

3.5 years? That's like a mid-length dating term, not a marriage.

You know that an average human aged 20 lives to be at least 80, right?

Bruchibre · 2019-01-09T09:34:51+00:00

People say that cigarettes cause cancer but I know a guy who has been smoking a packet a day all his life and he is 60 and still healthy and cancer free. This made me question whether smoking does actually cause cancer or if it’s just nonsense popular science.

Besides that about "study done on the divorce rate of women with high number counts and it did show that the more partners = the greater chance of divorce" it's hard to tell the causality. Do these women divorce because they have high n-count? or do these women divorce for unrelated reasons but these unrelated reasons also cause them to have high n-count?

And surely back in the hunter gatherer days women would have fucked quite a lot of alpha males, maybe even more so than women now.

We know strictly nothing about how people lived in hunter gatherer days and everything you read about it is pure speculation. Like when an article allover the internet saying that "the shape of human penis was like that to chase other men's semen, which proves that people were very promiscuous back then, which proves that women are designed to sleep around but patriarchy church blablabla". But then you realise that this is based on ONE study made by some obscure Italian scientist so... it kind of feels like results were following an agenda.

Rkingpin · 2019-01-08T21:44:53+00:00

Disagree with commenter saying pair bonding is bro science.

Do you think a good lock keeps its integrity after being rammed open by many keys?

and as far as I know she hasn't cheated and is still head over heels for this guy even now.

So you're only speculating.

When you're from the outside looking in, things can seem different to what they are. For all you know, she could be settling for beta bux.

Pair bonding is a real phenomenon, anyone who's taken a girls virginity will attest to how attached they usually become to you.

The more a girl gets pumped and dumped, the more jaded they become to men and the shittier qualities they develop.

We are attracted to innocence, a high n-count woman is used up and normally damaged goods. It's no reason they struggle to hold down a high quality man (pair bond).

Title	How does sluttiness affect pair bonding scientifically?
Author	Jimmy_Greenteeth
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Date	January 8, 2019 5:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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