Question about becoming more fun in a new social circle.

Tenderham1356 · 2014-07-01T18:56:19+00:00

I use this rule when I'm out having fun. It has helped me attract a lot of women and get people to text to go do stuff and things like that:

If you're not making a fool of yourself, you're not doing something right.

Literally shoot yourself in the foot sometimes for hte story. People will remember and like that.

powertoyourmuth · 2014-07-01T14:38:13+00:00

It might sound obvious but maybe try positive affirmations when you are there. Telling yourself that you are an awesome, interesting person will help you not get tensed up and be more at ease with what you are doing or talking about. In essence there is no right thing to say or do, it is how you do it that matters. This will also help you not get too much into your head if anything goes badly. Good luck!

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-07-01T16:16:53+00:00

how to be a social butterfly when you're not… an often asked question here.

it's not the easiest thing if you're not hardwired to be this way, but what the hell, give this a shot;

when I'm with people I'm fun because I'm happy. getting away from all the shit in life while you are with friends makes me happy. it makes me also live in the moment. for a period of time you're "free" in a way. so take advantage of it. be happy, be positive and laugh. laughter is the key to being "the fun guy" . when you laugh, you'll feel good. when you make others laugh, you make them feel good and when you laugh at other people's jokes, it makes them feel good with you. plus it does wonders for your mood.

be spontaneous ; if something crazy pops up in you head, do it ! just for for fun. be talkative. don't keep to yourself, be a part of the conversation. oftentimes it's better to share whatever you are thinking with the group so you're not "the quiet guy" .

to me it's as natural as breathing itself. I don't say that to brag, but to perhaps apologize if this isn't as helpful or instructive as you would like. hope it helps

Gallows9 · 2014-07-01T18:28:30+00:00

Find social events that YOU can host that make YOU happy. There's more to this than club/bar game. People just gravitate to that because it is like shooting fish in a barrel with a bazooka. While opening yourself up to new things IS extremely important, so is finding things that make you happy.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-07-01T23:26:15+00:00

Talk with no filter. These guys are your friends. When you're with friends you can joke around, laugh, say outrageous shit, and none of them will judge you. Why? Because they're your friends. So just let loose and say what you please, make the jokes you want to make and do the things that you want to do. Enjoy the moment, have fun. If you're close with these guys you'll have a great time just laughing and joking with them. If everything is new then just be open minded and think of them as friends you've known for years.

Title	Question about becoming more fun in a new social circle.
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Date	July 1, 2014 1:51 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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