The girl I met at the club and I hit off really well very quickly. We transitioned from dancing to making out in less than 2 minutes. There was strong attraction, no doubt. I am good with physical escalation so by the end of the night, there was already very strong kino and constant make-outs. I managed to get to meet her friends and was also able to isolate her for a while to get to know her a bit more. I ended up getting her facebook at the club.

When talking to her, I was already figuring out logistics because I was pretty confident that I was taking her home that night. Some of the important factors I found out was that she had no phone that night, and that she's visiting my city and staying over at her friend's place. This is getting tricky especially because I've never done this before.

Fast forward to when got out of the club. I joined her and her friends to get some food and this is when everything goes downhill. At first I was really comfortable talking to her as we walked, and there was lots of kino. Just so you know, I have a weak spot in my game that I have to work on which is socializing. I find to draining to keep up a group conversation, and I much prefer one on one conversations. When we were in line for food, the conversation shifted towards a group conversation, and I felt more and more disconnected. I ended up talking to a guy outside of our group.

Now this is when the bad becomes even worse, my girl started talking to a guy in the line. For some reason I thought that I shouldn't worry too much about my girl talking to another guy, because afterall I'm confident and non-needy, so I left it at that and continued my own conversation. For some reason, the guy she was talking to was absolutely charming, and soon her friends noticed this and urged me to step up my game, or else she'll be stolen right in front of my eyes.

Here is the embarrassing moment. There was nothing I could do to get her away from this guy. (Pro sedditors, any tips here?). The guy actually got her contact information before he left.

And here is the lowest point. When we left the fast food place, my connection with the girl went to 0. Our chemistry just vanished, maybe because I was freaking out and overthinking. After chatting a little more, I decided to just give it one final push and asked her if she wanted to come back to my place (which was obviously no, she has to stay over at her friend's place). I left it at that and went home.

EDIT: After some reflecting, I believe I could have done better by inviting her over right out of the club.