Asking girls out at the gym?

Helicopterz · 2014-08-04T20:51:59+00:00

[permanently deleted]

Helicopterz · 2014-08-04T08:47:08+00:00

Your post sounds like you're not sure what YOU wanna do... You wanna work out and not talk to people, or you wanna talk to girls and interrupt your workout?

Aside from that, you can talk to them during and after, if you want to.

I doubt your gonna chase a girl as she's walking out while your still doing your workout. But

A) if she's finishing up and walking by you then talk to her... Or

B) if you wanna use a machine she's using, walk over and start chatting, while she's doing her set, say a little bit, and take the slower approach of talking to her a little bit here an there, if you see her once in a while at the gym, then you can become familiar to her, and then have a longer conversation. Or

C) you can just walk up to them while they're working out and interrupt them as if you're approaching a girl walking by on the street or in a store. Some girls just fuck around during their workouts anyway so you might not be hindered by her having to get back to her workout.

D) You can get on the treadmill next them and start chatting. If she's wearing her headphones, ask some innocuous question so she has to take the headphones off, then start having an interesting conversation, and tell her you enjoy talking to someone cause it makes it go faster, than just listening to music.

E) You can hit up the girls when they get there and they are just stretching, that way they are not already in the middle of a workout.

There are lots of options, so it's up to you which you feel most comfortable with, do that, then you can try the options you are more challenged by and see what happens.

Helicopterz · 2014-08-04T08:51:29+00:00

I forgot to add, that if you like the slow approach, and don't really wanna break up your workout, then whenever you go to the gym, and it's time to use a machine for a while (tread, stairclimber, etc), always find the one next to the hot girl, and use that one, ask some innocuous question. Then when you see them again another day, say Hi, and do that to a lot of girls. You'll probably find the ones that are more open and available to talk to by reading their receptiveness over time... I know it's a really slow approach, but if you go to the gym at the same time on the same days, you'll probaby see a lot of the same girls after a while, so start to just get to know them over time, IF you really don't wanna stop a workout to hit on a girl.

Kolbykilla · 2014-08-04T21:25:41+00:00

Gym's are hard, I don't like to be talked to during my workout. Your best bet would be to catch one as she is walking to grab a drink of water, or to her next exercise.

YRuafraid · 2014-08-04T15:26:42+00:00

If she's working out in front of a mirror... like bending down or some shit... I usually stand right behind her and flex so it looks like I'm pounding dat ass from behind. This usually breaks the ice and I end up talking to the girl for a bit.... before being escorted out by security.

Title	Asking girls out at the gym?
Author	lockyreid
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	August 4, 2014 8:00 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2ckl55/asking_girls_out_at_the_gym/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/asking-girls-out-at-the-gym.1374566 https://theredarchive.com/post/1374566

Comments